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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsChild rape is illegal and should be punished even if it is a republican president or congressman.
An underage female is NOT a young woman, but a CHILD.
Apparently it needs to be said.
Think. Again.
(19,129 posts)What have we become that these known abusers are walking free to strike again?
Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)The stigma of rape lives on in a child. The feelings of dirtiness, badness, wrongness linger long after the rape. If the community gets wind of the rape, the rape victim is the one who is psychologically attacked by the community. This makes the victims suffering a million times worse.
Merrick Garland deserves no accolades, no forgiveness, no congratulations for repeatedly setting child rapists free. He has been the worst person of the Biden administration. Period.
onenote
(44,811 posts)What federal crime were they accused of committing?
Why don't these prosecutions matter. https://www.fbi.gov/investigate/violent-crime/vcac/violent-crimes-against-children-news
Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)Last edited Fri Dec 27, 2024, 01:37 PM - Edit history (1)
And yes, every single child who is sexually assaulted deserves justice! all of us! every single one of us! I have had zero recourse for the years of assault as a minor! zero! And infuriates me that these people continue to get off with no consequence!
So stop just stop!
I deleted epstein, although they are all the same.
onenote
(44,811 posts)If pointing out facts is defending Garland then I guess Im guilty.
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)onecaliberal
(36,351 posts)It does ruin.
Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)Frasier Balzov
(3,578 posts)It varies between 16 to 18 from state to state.
Quiet Em
(1,190 posts)There is not much to stop some of these vile perverts from attempting to lower the age of consent in some States.
Good historical read on the issue.
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/what-raising-age-sexual-consent-taught-women-about-vote-180975658/
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)See this for a full list:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent_in_the_United_States
When it comes to legal issues, facts matter.
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)a seventeen-year-old, it isn't rape because she might be legally of age in another state?
Or, if that isn't the point you are making, what is?
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)calling that person a "child" does not make it so. And there is no universal standard about that age. So, we're talking about something that varies from place to place.
Laws depend on details. So, I can't say whether your unnamed congressman raped a child or not. That's a matter for a court of law, if the law was violated.
Personally, I think young women 18 or younger should be left alone by grown up men who hold political offices. Period. It's highly inappropriate whether it is legal or not.
But, you can't charge someone with a crime unless there was a crime. And when it comes to sex with minors under 18, that depends on what state you're in. Not my rules. Not your rules. It's laws.
Gaetz is a creepy man who does nasty things with young women. He should know better. He shouldn't do that. Can he be charged and convicted? I doubt it very much. So, there it is. We have laws. Laws have definitions of things. So, it depends, doesn't it?
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)That is child rape.
So, again, I don't get your point. The OP's message is pretty clear cut.
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)He probably could have been charged, but was not. I'm not in a position to decide such things. He has ruined his career, and it cost him his position as a member of Congress, along with his appointment as Attorney General, both of which are good things.
He was not prosecuted, though. Had he been, he probably would not have gotten convicted, given all of the circumstances.
I don't call 17-year-olds children. Minors, yes. Underaged minors when it comes to sexual consent, depending on location. I call them young women or young men.
When I was 18 and younger, I certainly engaged in sexual activity with young women of that age and a bit younger. When I graduated from high school, I didn't do that any more. Did I break the law as a teenager? Yes, I did. Pretty much everyone I knew then was breaking those laws. I was in California, where the age of consent at that time was 21. Was I charged with crimes? I was not, nor do I remember any high school kids getting charged with such crimes for doing the same things.
Why was Gaetz not charged with sex with a minor? I cannot answer that. He could have been, of course. A decision was made not to charge him. Not my decision, nor do I agree with that decision. But, it was made, and I think I know why it wasn't made. Insufficient evidence and the questionable liability to age of consent laws, probably. But no charges were made.
You can try to make me the bad guy here, but I'm not. I'm just explaining why referring to teenagers near or over the age of consent as "children" is inaccurate. You might disagree with me. That's fine. But I am not Gaetz.
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)This was in reply to an OP that said child rape should be prosecuted, and it suggested there were assertions in that OP that contradicted the facts. But the OP did not say anything that would contradict the "facts" that you presented, so I was simply asking why you thought it was necessary to point out that ages of consent can vary.
No one is making you a bad guy. No one is saying you are defending Gaetz.
I am sure we could go on with this odd discussion of your feelings about varying ages of consent, about how you refer to 17 year olds, and about your sexual history, which doesn't really apply to the topic at hand. But let's not.
Instead, I'm going to assume that you actually DO agree with the OP's assertion that child rape is illegal and should be punished.
I think we can leave it with that simple point which was, after all, the original point in the OP.
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)And that's the question I'm addressing.
Child rape is horrifying. Sex with older teenagers is probably not "child rape." Indeed, there are laws to that effect. I'm simply clarifying terminology, because calling things by their correct terms is just good practice. I do not, in any way, condone "child rape."
That is my point.
chowder66
(9,891 posts)Which varies by state. The most common age is 18.
These minors or children have less rights and less responsibilities.
Outside of the law, children can be called youth, young people and more but they are not adults until the reach the majority age.
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)Yes, majority is at 18, but the age of consent is lower than that in most states. I think only six have it at 18.. The rest are 17 or 16. Why? Because adolescents commonly have sex before 18. So, the laws look at that when it comes to the age of sexual consent.
That's a technical and legal point only, though. But, if a person is at or older than the age of consent in some state, statutory rape isn't chargeable.
And for this situation, that's what matters, in legal terms.
The word "child" is a loaded word, really, when it comes to the teenage years.
Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)Their minds are not fully developed.
Understanding the Teen Brain
It doesnt matter how smart teens are or how well they scored on the SAT or ACT. Good judgment isnt something they can excel in, at least not yet.
The rational part of a teens brain isnt fully developed and wont be until age 25 or so.
In fact, recent research has found that adult and teen brains work differently. Adults think with the prefrontal cortex, the brains rational part. This is the part of the brain that responds to situations with good judgment and an awareness of long-term consequences. Teens process information with the amygdala. This is the emotional part.
In teens brains, the connections between the emotional part of the brain and the decision-making center are still developingand not always at the same rate. Thats why when teens have overwhelming emotional input, they cant explain later what they were thinking. They werent thinking as much as they were feeling.
https://www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/topic/default?id=understanding-the-teen-brain-1-3051
onenote
(44,811 posts)A universal definition of who is a "child" would be a bad idea. It makes sense to define age of consent specifically, but folks can disagree as to where the line should be drawn and for what circumstances -- 16, 17, or 18.
Polybius
(18,387 posts)But who knows if they could come to an agreement.
chowder66
(9,891 posts)Polybius
(18,387 posts)Since that's the age of drinking and gambling.
chowder66
(9,891 posts)Quiet Em
(1,190 posts)Gaetz committed a crime in the State of Florida.
"A person charged with this offense may not claim ignorance or misrepresentation of the minors age as a defense," the report pointed out. State law also prohibits consideration of the minor's previous sexual conduct as relevant.
https://www.pnj.com/story/news/politics/2024/12/23/florida-statutory-rape-matt-gaetz-congressional-investigation/77170619007/
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)It that going to happen? Somehow I doubt it.
Quiet Em
(1,190 posts)It's a serious offense and it should be treated as such.
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)I wonder how many such cases are brought to trial in Florida. Not many, I'll bet. And yet, I'll also bet there are many that might have been. I suspect that such cases only go to trial in certain circumstances, actually. Why? Because they are probably hard to prove. Almost always, such things come down to "He said; she said."
So, there are probably quite a few men over the age of 24 who have sex with 17-year-olds. We don't know how many, of course.
Quiet Em
(1,190 posts)he said/she said doesn't work in statutory rape cases.
onenote
(44,811 posts)see post #49
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)means he didn't commit a crime?
I still can't make heads or tails of what you are arguing here.
MineralMan
(148,008 posts)What I said was that I suspect there are few prosecutions in Florida for statutory rape cases with 17-year-old victims. I haven't been able to find any statistics, though.
Again, though, I am disputing the use of the word "child" in this thread.
Polybius
(18,387 posts)I would call that person at best a minor. Calling her a child makes it sound like she's 9.
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)Because legally, she's a child.
It doesn't really matter what you would call her. He committed a rape.
Polybius
(18,387 posts)It seems kinda dumb to charge someone with rape that's perfectly legal in nearly half the other states. Maybe a fine. We should have a universal age of consent, either 17 or 18.
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)I seriously want to rip limbs off people who use that phrase.
onecaliberal
(36,351 posts)This place is unrecognizable.
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)reservation, or at least not questioning its validity, should have been easy.
Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)Feels like a gang assault
Scrivener7
(53,216 posts)to bizarre and unnecessary places.
Clouds Passing
(2,740 posts)onecaliberal
(36,351 posts)rubbersole
(8,719 posts)...with a landing strip for private jets? Asking for a billionaire.
NotHardly
(1,374 posts)Stargleamer
(2,261 posts)didnt make this a campaign issue. I would have brought it up repeatedly in the debate, as well as the fact that 28 women accused the POS of SA/sexual harassment/rape and he was found guilty in a NY court of sexual assault.
Bluethroughu
(6,017 posts)Greyhead
(53 posts)She was 16 at the time she now is 68 and it still bothers her.
OMGWTF
(4,481 posts)onecaliberal
(36,351 posts)orwell
(8,002 posts)...is far more evil than real Con child rape.
It says so in the imaginary Con Bible.
Imaginary Con child rape is allowed if the rape is performed by a beloved cultural icon or wealthy influential leader.
It is the Con bible Eleventh commandment...
Stargleamer
(2,261 posts)not just child rape
MuseRider
(34,409 posts)but did not post it. I was trying to put too much into it and just could not make it make good sense in the time I had. I found it odd there was a difference, it had never come to mind, Thank you for making the sense easy and making the point clearer than I could.
Stargazer99
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pisses me off. A kid until 21 yrs of age has no concept of what it does to females, I am damn sick of kissing the ass of males that have no control over their hormones and lack of decency. When I say I do not in general respect the male in our society I am told I am mean...yes I know there are decent men but from what I've seen they are not in the majority.
It is a static that rape occurs more in the family than this clutching of pearls regarding gay men.
onecaliberal
(36,351 posts)onenote
(44,811 posts)While I'm quite confident that there is no one here who would defend Gaetz, facts and law still matter and, unfortunately, the facts and law in this situation have allowed Gaetz to escape punishment for his actions.
First, the facts establish (beyond a reasonable doubt in my opinion) that he had sex with a 17 year old in Florida July 2017.
Second, the law in Florida sets the age of consent at 18.
Third, the law in Florida sets the statute of limitations for bringing a statutory rape prosecution at 3 years.
Fourth, the fact that Gaetz had sex with a 17 year old in July 2017 did not come to the attention of state or federal authorities until sometime after his associate Joel Greenberg was arrested on federal identity theft and stalking charges unrelated to Greenberg's activities in procuring women and minors to engage in sex with himself and others, including Gaetz. Specifically, while Greenberg was arrested on stalking/identity theft charges in June 2020, the first mention of sex crimes came in a second superseding indictment issued in August 2020.
Fifth, while there is evidence that Gaetz had sex with the same person in the Bahamas in March 2021, by that time she had passed her 18th birthday.
Fifth, by the time information about Gaetz having had sex with a 17 year old became known, it appears that the statute of limitations had run, precluding Florida from bringing a statutory rape charge against Gaetz.
Finally, it is worth noting that after Garland took office in March 2021, DOJ aggressively pursued charges against Joel Greenberg, resulting in a plea deal with a long prison sentence.
Would we all be happier if the timeline and the applicable laws were different? I know I would. But they are what they are.
keithbvadu2
(40,531 posts)no_hypocrisy
(49,217 posts)because he had sex with a 16 year old. One occurrence. No parole.
Habitation
(5,687 posts)There are dozens of 15-year-old criminals serving LIFE IN PRISON WITHOUT THE POSSIBILITY OF PAROLE!
Just saying, since the {corrupt} supreme court has upheld that they are responsible for their actions.
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LeftInTX
(30,636 posts)My parents found out and they tried to get me to talk about it so they could press charges. I absolutely refused to tell them anything. They grounded me and grounded me trying to force me to confess. I was grounded for several years. They needed me to speak because gossip is not enough proof to bring charges. So I told them nothing happened. I wasn't on good terms with my parents and I didn't trust them. So, I refused to acknowledge it.
At age 13, I was old enough to testify and they would need it for evidence. Gossip is not evidence and I told my parents to stop listening to gossip. I felt like I was the one being punished.
Several years later, the same guys gang raped another girl. Guess who got hauled in to the police station? They got my parents to haul me into the police station. There was alcohol at the party and they said, "We heard you were at this party and there was alcohol and if we find out you are involved with alcohol again, you will be sent to juvenile court"
Guess who didn't get hauled in? The guys that raped the girl. LE did not do a good damn thing to them. They were adults and were not subject to juvenile parental crap. (Their parents would not have hauled them in anyway!) This was a case where the victim's parent went to the police and the victim herself went to the police. I was not there when she was raped. I had to be home early. I knew nothing about what happened to her. Yet, I was the one being punished.
A year later, I was caught with alcohol and was tried in juvenile court. I got a year of probation. So eff that shit! Victims are treated like shit. I was raped and I was the one who was punished. Perps got off.
ETA: These perps were not GOP. They did not have money at all. They were all from low income families. They were hoodlums. Common criminals. Some had served previous time in "reform school". One of the guys ended up in prison for other crimes shortly afterward. They certainly weren't members of congress. They were all high school drop outs. Most of them died young. The guy that hosted the party was killed shortly afterward when he ran the RR crossing next to his house.
Misty Croslin has been in prison for 14 years and she still won't talk! She was 16 and babysitting when a six year old girl disappeared. She's serving 25 years on trumped up drug charges. The kid's father even married her, so she would not testify against him. https://www.newspapers.com/article/the-orlando-sentinel-misty-croslin-2/19473599/