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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWho else has no Christmas/holiday spirit this year?
I mean, technically, my family and I will still be celebrating, but none of us feel it. We all know why we have no spirit, and its not because were getting older and have a small family, either.
I mean, we still bought stuff for one another and Ive got stuff for some of my friends and girlfriend, but Im not excited. My birthday is in late October, and Id say from the time of my birthday until New Years is one of, if not my favorite time of the year.
Not this year. Ill still buy for Toys for Tots in addition to taking care of my family with that stuff, but if Im not a total Scrooge, if Im not bah humbug, Im probably not far off from that stage.
Walleye
(36,635 posts)Thats as far as Im gonna go. I wont be spending the day with her. But its better than nothing.
EnergizedLib
(2,251 posts)I hope she enjoys that, even if she isnt old enough to appreciate.
MaryMagdaline
(7,925 posts)2naSalit
(93,857 posts)But I often do the gift thing with close peeps. Not into it this year and I'm too broke anyway so I'm ot going to agonized about it. I'm busy trying to leave the magat state I live in since it became 100% magat on Tuesday. My chances of survival are lowering here, best to relocate and then fight from there.
CousinIT
(10,574 posts)I found a Walmart bible my sister had given me a few years ago. I checked it for anything inside I might want to keep, and overnight, election night, it went in the trash bin. City trash picked it up the next day. I forgot about the thing until then, and my MAGA sister insisted "God" would take care of things on a text chain with the rest of the MAGAt relatives (which I typically avoid but stay there to give the appearance that I care)
I've never been religious because it had been crammed down my throat as a kid, and it's disgustingly sociopathic, misogynistic, and I just can't with that shit.
So anyway... I will enjoy time off work over the holiday to declutter and do yard work, but wtf would I celebrate and WHY?
I like the decorations and have been known to drag some of those out some years to make the house feel warmer and more festive but it's not about "spirit" or religion with me - it's just about a cozy atmosphere. But this is one of those years that I will not be bothering.
Not in the fucking mood.
Phoenix61
(17,734 posts)I refuse to let a giant orange asswipe steal my Christmas joy.
EnergizedLib
(2,251 posts)BlueKota
(3,765 posts)time because like my sister said, we might as well enjoy what little time we have left, because come January life as we know it is over. I guess it's our Irish roots saying have a wake in honor of the good times you had with the deceased.
EnergizedLib
(2,251 posts)Ndp5
(97 posts)It has also been unseasonably, eerily warm where I live, so that November feels like early September. Somehow the looming climate apocalypse just doesnt move me to shell out for tinsel, ornaments and Bing Crosby music. Or anything else, for that matter.
mitch96
(14,799 posts)SARose
(929 posts)I realized my husband and I feel the same way. Then he put Christmas back in my heart. He wants to do 12 days of random acts of kindness. Weve been brainstorming for the last hour. Heres our list so far
City Hall - these ladies are very sweet
Admin staff at granddaughters school
Library staff
Gift cards for Walmart, and Grubhub drivers
In my area the police, firefighters, etc are always gifted. Post Office and nursing homes too.
Any other ideas? We want to gift people we interact with throughout the year.
Skittles
(160,543 posts)I do random acts of kindness pretty much daily, why save it for the holidays?
SARose
(929 posts)We usually donate to a food pantry, Salvation Army - big organizations. Thinking smaller this year.
Thanks for doing random acts of kindness. It makes someones day, Im sure.
Skittles
(160,543 posts)dude really doesn't realize just how lucky he is
yaesu
(8,380 posts)I will not support a fascist countries economy.
beaglelover
(4,138 posts)quaint
(3,659 posts)Never know, especially at my age, this easily could be my last winter holiday, so I plan to enjoy. Gifts to or from have always been optional. I love to gift , even just remembrances or "gag" presents.
Not going to give away my joy because of jerks.
Sane1
(146 posts)Who geev a Fuck about Chreestmas!
Elessar Zappa
(16,188 posts)Trump cant change that.
The Wandering Harper
(775 posts)but that's what happens when you're poor in a consumerist individualist culture