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What's the most annoying thing someone can do at home, at a store or job or the road. anything that annoys you. (Original Post) debm55 Nov 17 OP
Wearing a MAGA hat. Sneederbunk Nov 17 #1
watching or listening to fox goptv. nt yaesu Nov 17 #2
Thank you yaesu. I agree. debm55 Nov 17 #3
Tailgating. debm55 Nov 17 #4
I second that! Emile Nov 17 #8
Thank you Emile. I totally agree. debm55 Nov 17 #14
Definitely... And younger drivers seem increasingly likely to treat multi-lane Boulevards/Aveunues like freeways.. hlthe2b Nov 17 #9
Extreme speeding. Some young fucker got caught going 150 on the interstate in ATL CurtEastPoint Nov 17 #12
Thank you CurtEastPoint. very dangerous. I am glad he was caught before he hurt someone. debm55 Nov 18 #89
I hope it works out for your area. Around here they don't have mufflers and it looks like that they are going to go over debm55 Nov 17 #16
No. This is new technology. Not intersection cameras or masked vehicles/trucks with the equipment... hlthe2b Nov 17 #23
Near the top of my list, along with incessant lane changing. LisaM Nov 17 #34
Agree with you LisaM. It is frustrating and annoying. debm55 Nov 18 #91
We lived in Lawrence County for a few years, and I was struck by how tailgating is rampant in PA. Harker Nov 17 #65
Hi Harker, I still live in Allegheny County and it is all over the county and I guess the state to. debm55 Nov 17 #66
Oh, yes. Harker Nov 17 #67
HAHAHAHHHAHA debm55 Nov 17 #68
Playing PokemonGo while driving! UGH!!! nt woodsprite Nov 17 #5
Thank you woodsprite. Or any game or just talking. It is very dangerous. debm55 Nov 17 #17
Shoppers leaving their grocery cart askew or in the middle of the aisle so other shoppers can't get past. CrispyQ Nov 17 #6
I was going to say that :-) ! Also, after they leave the cart there, spooky3 Nov 17 #11
Agree, spooky. That's why I move it for them debm55 Nov 17 #21
😈😈😈 spooky3 Nov 17 #22
Thank you CrispyQ, That is very annoying with the charts. I move their carts to get around. They are not too happy debm55 Nov 17 #18
thank you CrispyQ , I agree. I move it for them debm55 Nov 18 #90
Let's see. I had someone puke on my feet at a concert once. LuckyCharms Nov 17 #7
Thank you LuckyCharms. that is gross. debm55 Nov 17 #20
Sorry about that. Too much Jack. Lochloosa Nov 18 #77
Shoppers who are too lazy to put their shopping cart Emile Nov 17 #10
Thank you Emile. I agree with all three being annoying. It used to be the stores would pay for the damages to the car debm55 Nov 17 #24
Re your second gripe (which I generally agree with) LisaM Nov 17 #37
Sometimes they take up two spaces ,so no one its their truck. I have seen Trucks and expensive cars parked sideways debm55 Nov 17 #62
In Texas, world capital of ostentanious pickup trucks, they park over 3 spaces. nt yellowdogintexas Nov 18 #72
Thank you yellowdogintexas. Here in PA they park on an angle taking up two spaces. debm55 Nov 18 #92
If they they have a decal, how do you know they don't have a handicap? DUMember24 Nov 17 #60
Ah, my first fight on DU was over shopping carts! Phentex Nov 17 #69
Oh my.Glad you are with us. debm55 Nov 17 #70
Spitting JoseBalow Nov 17 #13
JoseBalow, I agree. Do not like either. Spreads germs and is just dirty. debm55 Nov 17 #25
Show a wanton disregard to another human being. OldBaldy1701E Nov 17 #15
Good for you OldBaldy1701E. Who needs friends like that. That boy could have been seriously hurt. debm55 Nov 17 #26
Tailgating!! Lunabell Nov 17 #19
Thank you Lunabell. I pull over to the side of the road.and let them pass debm55 Nov 17 #27
I only ever brake checked one time. Shermann Nov 17 #29
Thank you Shermann. Great way to get back. debm55 Nov 17 #35
In the house-not finishing the ice cream when the is one tablespoon inside or the same with milk. etc. debm55 Nov 17 #28
Continually REORGANIZE stuff! elleng Nov 17 #30
Thank you elleng. I agree. debm55 Nov 17 #33
I guess workplace insults are roped off? Shermann Nov 17 #31
Sherman anything that annoys you is up for grabs. debm55 Nov 17 #32
There were donuts at work last week and somebody took one bite of one and put it back. nt Shermann Nov 17 #49
Well hell , Shermann, that is totally gross. Did you say anything? debm55 Nov 17 #50
The culprit's identity is unknown. Also, I'd already put in my two weeks' notice. nt Shermann Nov 17 #53
Do you have another job lined up? debm55 Nov 17 #54
I start tomorrow, thanks! nt Shermann Nov 17 #57
E-bikes and scooters on the sidewalks. LisaM Nov 17 #36
Thank you LisaM. That is very rude on the biker's part. debm55 Nov 17 #38
They need to be banned. LisaM Nov 17 #39
Agree, be safe. debm55 Nov 17 #40
People who turn right on red without looking for pedestrians LisaM Nov 17 #41
As you have a right to. After covid I noticed that drivers were very careless about the rules of driving and did as they debm55 Nov 17 #42
Yes, the roads were so empty, people started driving differently. LisaM Nov 17 #44
Thanks. debm55 Nov 17 #46
Drive a giant pickup The Madcap Nov 17 #43
Yep drive a 45,000 truck with flags and complain they can't afford eggs. debm55 Nov 17 #45
Or gas! n/t LisaM Nov 17 #47
True, debm55 Nov 17 #48
Speaking Of That... ProfessorGAC Nov 17 #51
Thank you ProfessorGAC. That sure is annoying. debm55 Nov 17 #52
I'll donate eggs when he drives by in it. nt Shermann Nov 17 #61
Thank you Shermann. That's funny. debm55 Nov 18 #93
Hovering around me, especially at the store, when I was alone at first looking at some items, and they can't wait SWBTATTReg Nov 17 #55
Thank you ,I always found that annoying. debm55 Nov 17 #58
When a magst opens its mouth & spews whiny shit SheltieLover Nov 17 #56
Thank you SheltieLover. I agree and then they get into their 45,000 big truck. debm55 Nov 17 #59
Telephone scammers who won't give me their Emile Nov 17 #63
I have tried that. No one answers. debm55 Nov 17 #64
Backseat driving. Different Drummer Nov 17 #71
Different Drummer. I agree. and their comments on how you are driving and how to get there an easier way. debm55 Nov 18 #94
Vehicles with high mounted headlights which hit me directly in the eyes yellowdogintexas Nov 18 #73
Thank you yellowdogintexas. I really agree with the headlights.sometimes I do swear they are using their highbeams. debm55 Nov 18 #95
Riding bikes with silencers off jfz9580m Nov 18 #74
Thank you jfz9580,. We have one around here. You can hear him all the way down the road. Annoying. debm55 Nov 18 #96
Not using their headlights when it's dark and/or raining! Mad_Dem_X Nov 18 #75
Thank you Mad_Dem_X, I agree. That is so dangerous. debm55 Nov 18 #97
My neighbor sneaking up behind me on my property Emile Nov 18 #76
Thank you Emile. Thank can be very dangerous. debm55 Nov 18 #88
People coughing, and they don't even bother to cover their mouth samplegirl Nov 18 #78
Thank you samplegirl. And they don't care either debm55 Nov 18 #82
I have a small car and I usually park farther out in the lot and walk a little bit Diamond_Dog Nov 18 #79
Thank you Diamond_Dog Those are really things debm55 Nov 18 #80
Sitting at a red light PennRalphie Nov 18 #81
Thank you, PennRalphie. I always wondered what was so important that the had to make a call.Pull over and make or debm55 Nov 18 #83
Drivers behind me HoosierDebbie Nov 18 #84
Thank you HoosierDebbie, They do that here too. Verry annoying. debm55 Nov 18 #87
Throwing trash on the ground, trump signs still around and that darn Wegovy TV commercial 😡 TommieMommy Nov 18 #85
Thank you TommieMommy. Agree with your annoying things. debm55 Nov 18 #86
Totally agree about the Trump signs - here in Central Texas they have been walkingman Nov 18 #101
Spitting on the shop floor or all over the jobsite. Find a fucking trash can and use it. nt Hotler Nov 18 #98
People who crack/snap/pop gum in public. Dulcinea Nov 18 #99
Thank you Dulcinea. I agree with you. debm55 Nov 18 #100
Being rude. catbyte Nov 18 #102
Thsnk you catbyte. I agree. Ran across one here yesterday, Very rude. debm55 Nov 18 #103

hlthe2b

(107,179 posts)
9. Definitely... And younger drivers seem increasingly likely to treat multi-lane Boulevards/Aveunues like freeways..
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:22 PM
Nov 17

Tail-gating and flashing lights to try to get one to move into the right lane. Well, Boulevards and Avenues are designed for slower traffic and frequent right and left turns. Where these idiots get the idea that they should be treated like interstate highways (ignoring how aggressive and dangerous their driving is there), just drives me nuts. Even in the wee hours, I encounter this to the point local law enforcement is going to deploy new unrecognizable speed and license plate detection technology all over areas I drive. Anyone driving over 10 mph over the speed limit will get a ticket in the mail and repeat offenders will eventually face court appearances.

I know it is not JUST younger drivers, but they seem to be the worst--male teens--in my experience. Some horrific wrecks lately have me really unnerved.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
16. I hope it works out for your area. Around here they don't have mufflers and it looks like that they are going to go over
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:05 PM
Nov 17

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your car. Usually they are those big trucks.Thank you hlthe2b. I hope the new measures work for your area.

hlthe2b

(107,179 posts)
23. No. This is new technology. Not intersection cameras or masked vehicles/trucks with the equipment...
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:20 PM
Nov 17

They aren't being extremely forthcoming, but a few Denver news types have been allowed to gain some insight under agreements not to fully report. They have said that these devices will not be identifiable--at least until new tech can identify their (miniaturized) camera signatures.

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
34. Near the top of my list, along with incessant lane changing.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:52 PM
Nov 17

Usually the same drivers are guilty of both. Pick a lane, FFS. Preferably well in advance of when you need to go four lanes over to exit.

Harker

(15,311 posts)
65. We lived in Lawrence County for a few years, and I was struck by how tailgating is rampant in PA.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:44 PM
Nov 17

I saw a bumper sticker there, from a safe distance, that read, "I'm sorry for driving so close in front of you."

debm55

(39,829 posts)
66. Hi Harker, I still live in Allegheny County and it is all over the county and I guess the state to.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:49 PM
Nov 17

Harker

(15,311 posts)
67. Oh, yes.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:52 PM
Nov 17

We're in upstate NY now, and if there's somebody riding my bumper it's almost always a Pennsylvanian.

Not you, of course!

CrispyQ

(38,720 posts)
6. Shoppers leaving their grocery cart askew or in the middle of the aisle so other shoppers can't get past.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:14 PM
Nov 17

When I'm driving, pretty much everything other drives do irritates me.

spooky3

(36,570 posts)
11. I was going to say that :-) ! Also, after they leave the cart there,
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:30 PM
Nov 17

They stand between the cart and the shelves forever deciding which product to put in their cart.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
18. Thank you CrispyQ, That is very annoying with the charts. I move their carts to get around. They are not too happy
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:12 PM
Nov 17

About me doing that , but what the heck , move it yourself and I won't have to do it.

Emile

(31,340 posts)
10. Shoppers who are too lazy to put their shopping cart
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 12:24 PM
Nov 17

in the parking lot corral.

People who open their car doors and allow it to rub the next vehicle.

People who park in handicap spaces without being handicapped.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
24. Thank you Emile. I agree with all three being annoying. It used to be the stores would pay for the damages to the car
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:21 PM
Nov 17

from the carts but no more. They have signs that say "you park at your own risk"

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
37. Re your second gripe (which I generally agree with)
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:57 PM
Nov 17

Sometimes it's impossible not to when people don't park their car between the lines or park a huge vehicle in a space meant for a compact car.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
62. Sometimes they take up two spaces ,so no one its their truck. I have seen Trucks and expensive cars parked sideways
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:00 PM
Nov 17

between two parking spaces.

DUMember24

(12 posts)
60. If they they have a decal, how do you know they don't have a handicap?
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:51 PM
Nov 17

Are you referring to people parked without a decal, or just the ones who don't "look handicap", even though they legitimately have a decal? I've seen some Karen situations where people actually have non-visible handicaps.

Phentex

(16,578 posts)
69. Ah, my first fight on DU was over shopping carts!
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:55 PM
Nov 17

Mod told me to F-OFF!

Said poster is no longer with us.

I marveled at the ways people justified not returning their carts.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,829 posts)
15. Show a wanton disregard to another human being.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:03 PM
Nov 17

I once watched a group of young guys walking across a city walkway and approach a set of stairs. The second one started to go down as the first one hit the landing and turned. The guy behind him suddenly shoved him down the stairs. He and all his friends thought it was hilarious. The guy who was pushed was pretty mad, but was unhurt. The first guy was indifferent to it all.

I thought about strolling over and cracking open the guy's skull with my police baton. (Usually concealed on my person in non-local areas.) That kind of thing is not funny and the brat deserved to be reamed out for doing it. The others deserved to be yelled at for being so indifferent to such a dangerous act. And, I bet they still think that guy is their friend.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
26. Good for you OldBaldy1701E. Who needs friends like that. That boy could have been seriously hurt.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:25 PM
Nov 17

Lunabell

(7,105 posts)
19. Tailgating!!
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:12 PM
Nov 17

If it weren't illegal to brake-check, I'd be in a lot of rear end accidents. I just tap my brakes, then slow to a crawl until they go around me.

Shermann

(8,749 posts)
29. I only ever brake checked one time.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:34 PM
Nov 17

It almost caused a road rage incident, and I haven't repeated it.

I have developed and rolled out a milder form of retribution. If the offender is behind me in the right lane and I am making a right turn, I do it eeeeeeever so slowly. Deaccelerate reaalllllly gradually. Put on my right-hand turn signal at the last minute (don't want to break the law). Then reeaaallly reaaallly gingerly and cautiously make my right turn. Lots of brake.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
28. In the house-not finishing the ice cream when the is one tablespoon inside or the same with milk. etc.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:33 PM
Nov 17

Shermann

(8,749 posts)
49. There were donuts at work last week and somebody took one bite of one and put it back. nt
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:09 PM
Nov 17

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
36. E-bikes and scooters on the sidewalks.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 01:54 PM
Nov 17

I am sick of dodging these assholes. Then they leave them strewn wherever, often blocking sidewalk cuts and endangering blind people.

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
39. They need to be banned.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:00 PM
Nov 17

Some cities are starting to figure it out. Pedestrians have the right of way but you'd never know it in Seattle.

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
41. People who turn right on red without looking for pedestrians
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:03 PM
Nov 17

or even stopping in some cases. I walk almost everywhere and I am short and I dread crossing the street. It's almost impossible to make eye contact with most drivers because of their effing tinted windows. I have never seen anyone ticketed for not yielding to a pedestrian, either.

Clearly I have many peeves on this topic!

debm55

(39,829 posts)
42. As you have a right to. After covid I noticed that drivers were very careless about the rules of driving and did as they
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:06 PM
Nov 17

pleased.

LisaM

(28,826 posts)
44. Yes, the roads were so empty, people started driving differently.
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 02:09 PM
Nov 17

Great observation.

ProfessorGAC

(71,008 posts)
51. Speaking Of That...
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:30 PM
Nov 17

...saw a guy in an oversized pickup truck, lifted with the $1,000 each wheels & $500 each tires, moaning about the price gas. Bur, while pumping gas while his truck was running! In May. Not cold, not hot.
But, left the truck running & was whining about gas prices while driving a truck that had to set him back 60 grand or more.

SWBTATTReg

(24,501 posts)
55. Hovering around me, especially at the store, when I was alone at first looking at some items, and they can't wait
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 03:42 PM
Nov 17

for me to get done, so they edge in, hoover, etc., irritating the hell out of me. Wait your f**king turn! Good grief. So many people are in such a hurry, that they literally run over everybody else. My motto: Screw you, you rude blank.

Emile

(31,340 posts)
63. Telephone scammers who won't give me their
Sun Nov 17, 2024, 04:05 PM
Nov 17

personal cell phone number so I can call them back at a more convenient time.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
94. Different Drummer. I agree. and their comments on how you are driving and how to get there an easier way.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:57 AM
Nov 18

yellowdogintexas

(22,895 posts)
73. Vehicles with high mounted headlights which hit me directly in the eyes
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 12:13 AM
Nov 18

and they are always the extra bright ones too. ( or have the high beams on)

Also, drivers who speed up on me, whip out into the left lane then jump in front of me to exit. OR the opposite: drivers who come up the ramp and then merge in at a snail's pace

When I lived in Nashville, there was some sort of rule that no driver could let anyone get in front of them. I would start out in the appropriate distance behind a car and before I knew it there would be 3 cars in front of me.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
95. Thank you yellowdogintexas. I really agree with the headlights.sometimes I do swear they are using their highbeams.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:01 AM
Nov 18

jfz9580m

(15,584 posts)
74. Riding bikes with silencers off
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 12:40 AM
Nov 18

It doesn’t just annoy me..it drives me around the bend . I am sensitive to noise.

It is usually young men..

debm55

(39,829 posts)
96. Thank you jfz9580,. We have one around here. You can hear him all the way down the road. Annoying.
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 10:04 AM
Nov 18

samplegirl

(12,296 posts)
78. People coughing, and they don't even bother to cover their mouth
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:36 AM
Nov 18

Was in the store the day before yesterday and a woman was telling a man that she has Covid. Coughing went crazy. I was quite a ways across from her, but could hear the conversation then said nothing political, please.

Diamond_Dog

(35,435 posts)
79. I have a small car and I usually park farther out in the lot and walk a little bit
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:49 AM
Nov 18

keeping 3-4 spaces empty on either side of my car. Too many times to count ….. a large pickup or SUV will park right next to me and leave me about 10” to open the drivers side door on my car. Grrrr!

WAY too many ads for prescription drugs on TV.

MAGATs in stores or doctors offices who strike up a conversation with me assuming I am on their side because I am white.

Trying to get ahold of ANY service or business on the phone and/or waiting for them to call you back.

I could go on and on ……

PennRalphie

(363 posts)
81. Sitting at a red light
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 08:57 AM
Nov 18

Head down, you know they’re on the phone, not moving, especially at the fast changing lights.

debm55

(39,829 posts)
83. Thank you, PennRalphie. I always wondered what was so important that the had to make a call.Pull over and make or
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:08 AM
Nov 18

receive your call.

HoosierDebbie

(388 posts)
84. Drivers behind me
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:22 AM
Nov 18

Drivers behind me at a traffic light who want to turn right on a red arrow. They expect me to go ahead and turn after stopping, but this would be a traffic violation. Drivers must wait for a green arrow unless there is a sign posted allowing such a move.

An intersection that I occasionally traverse has this type of signal where I only ever turn right. Sometimes drivers behind me are irritated enough to back up a little and move over to the breakdown lane to get around me.

TommieMommy

(1,317 posts)
85. Throwing trash on the ground, trump signs still around and that darn Wegovy TV commercial 😡
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 09:26 AM
Nov 18

walkingman

(8,654 posts)
101. Totally agree about the Trump signs - here in Central Texas they have been
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 01:02 PM
Nov 18

around for the last 8 years. So every time I drive down the road, it disgusts me. And to make it even worse it will perpetuate our daily lives seemingly forever.

Hotler

(12,454 posts)
98. Spitting on the shop floor or all over the jobsite. Find a fucking trash can and use it. nt
Mon Nov 18, 2024, 11:57 AM
Nov 18
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