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What hairstyle did you have that thinking back was hideous. Mine was frosted hair that I did myself from a kit. (Original Post) debm55 Nov 19 OP
'Shag' haircut. I cried! nt Tadpole Raisin Nov 19 #1
I had a shag in high school Sequoia Nov 19 #7
Youwere lucky, My family didn't believe in paying someone to cut hair. debm55 Nov 19 #12
Ah, yes! My 4pm soap! I liked Angelique's eyes but she also scared me, lol. Tadpole Raisin Nov 19 #19
My friend wanted me to give her a 'shag' haircut. woodsprite Nov 19 #8
Thank you woodsprite. That is how I did mine. I brushed all my hair forward, I stood up to do it. I put a rubber band debm55 Nov 19 #13
lol, good thing she went first! Tadpole Raisin Nov 19 #16
Thank you Tadpole Raisin. I frosted my hair myself and then gave myself a shag. I never did that again. debm55 Nov 19 #11
My mother let my friends in and they hid behind the bathroom door waiting for Tadpole Raisin Nov 19 #17
We did that too. debm55 Nov 19 #24
David Bowie in Labyrinth exmodee Nov 19 #2
I think it was. But it didn't last long. debm55 Nov 20 #72
My mother had me in bangs and Patty McCormack braids til age 12. no_hypocrisy Nov 19 #3
Is that you on the right? debm55 Nov 19 #25
Ha, no! Patty McCormack in both no_hypocrisy Nov 19 #27
I really disliked her in The Bad Seed. debm55 Nov 19 #45
As did I. You can't imagine my dismay/horror when I made the connection. no_hypocrisy Nov 19 #51
I just saw the movie in TCM again recently and it was still disturbing and scary seeing that evil trait in a child kimbutgar Nov 19 #59
Mine was always too short because my mom made me get it cut that way. House of Roberts Nov 19 #4
In college my boyfriend and myself would braid each others hair. It was mid back. debm55 Nov 19 #31
Really long hair that I had from about 7th-10th grade (before I joined Jr. ROTC) exboyfil Nov 19 #5
That's funny thank you exboyfil. debm55 Nov 19 #32
A permed mullet Marigold Nov 19 #6
I had a permed mullet too. It was easy to take of. debm55 Nov 19 #33
My mother always had my bangs cut way too short - more than halfway... 3catwoman3 Nov 19 #9
Oh yes those high bangs. I word it that way in early grade school. TY debm55 Nov 19 #34
The pixie cut. I looked like a boy. woodsprite Nov 19 #10
Same here. It was hideous on me but my mom thought it would be Ocelot II Nov 19 #30
Thank you woodsprite. I had a twiggy cut in my 6th grade class shot. debm55 Nov 19 #35
A shag when I was a freshman in college. I worked as livetohike Nov 19 #14
Thank you livetohike. It was a pain to let it grow out.You had to wait for each layer to grow out. Took forever. debm55 Nov 19 #36
Exactly! Of course my curls stuck out at weird livetohike Nov 19 #57
My Mom got her hair frosted at a salon. pandr32 Nov 19 #15
Oooh!! Foot meet mouth! Tadpole Raisin Nov 19 #20
Mine was a blond. It came by using one of those kits. The one I had done at the salon gave me orange streaks in it. debm55 Nov 19 #38
Mom's were fine streaks of platinum. pandr32 Nov 19 #50
I had hair back in the day. Basso8vb Nov 19 #18
HAHAHAHHAHAH.Thank you Basso8vb. debm55 Nov 19 #39
The poodle perm, for sure! GPV Nov 19 #21
I has a poodle and latter a spiral. The spiral perm, I loved. But it didn't last long. Especially for the money I paid debm55 Nov 19 #40
Same. Both fell out of my hair too, but the poodle GPV Nov 20 #65
Yes, It left my hair a mess. Thank you GPV debm55 Nov 20 #66
Extra curly, permed hair for 8th. grade graduation. sinkingfeeling Nov 19 #22
Thank you sinkingfeeling. They last a good while debm55 Nov 19 #41
The one I have now KT2000 Nov 19 #23
Oh my I am sorry. thank you KT2000. I hope it grows out fine. debm55 Nov 20 #68
NONE! elleng Nov 19 #26
HAHAHAHHAHAH Thank you . I know what that is. debm55 Nov 20 #69
Brylcreem calguy Nov 19 #28
Thank ypu calguy. Haven't heard that for a long time. debm55 Nov 20 #70
My natural color was bright red. WestMichRad Nov 19 #29
Sorry WestMichRad, My son is a strawberry blond. and he was called "Red" also. debm55 Nov 20 #71
A Jheri Curl? ProfessorGAC Nov 19 #37
Thank you ProfessorGAC, Wasn't it Michael Jackson who started it. I had one. When we met Rich looked like Grizzly Adams debm55 Nov 19 #43
Probably Rick James ProfessorGAC Nov 19 #46
Thank you ProfessorGAC Are you still in a band? debm55 Nov 19 #48
Not For A While ProfessorGAC Nov 19 #54
My hair is poker straight. Demobrat Nov 19 #42
I liked it while it was new. But as the Perm started to go, it looked crappy. Decided to go straight and then got into debm55 Nov 19 #44
Mine straightened out in sections. Demobrat Nov 19 #49
Rattail sakabatou Nov 19 #47
I remember those. It didn't last long. debm55 Nov 19 #52
I was a brunette. I died my hair blue black. It came out really blue. applegrove Nov 19 #53
Yes I had to call them a couple of times myself, Thank you debm55 Nov 19 #55
Imagine being a teenage girl doing the following to your hair: Niagara Nov 19 #56
OMG. Thank you Niagara. Didn't your hair break from all the teasing? debm55 Nov 20 #67
You're welcome, Debbie. Fortunately I didn't have that problem as a teenager Niagara Nov 20 #79
The Flatop with a little crew wax to make the front stand up. surfered Nov 19 #58
I remember seeing a lot of those. Thank you surfered. debm55 Nov 20 #73
Beehive if..fish..had..wings Nov 19 #60
Thankfully I missed that. Thank you if..fish..had..wings debm55 Nov 20 #74
I don't think it was hideous. My Dad did. Aristus Nov 19 #61
Thank you Aristus. times have changed. debm55 Nov 20 #75
Probably humorous more than hideous sorcrow Nov 20 #62
Thank you socrow. He was easy on the eyes. debm55 Nov 20 #76
a "perm" it was called CountAllVotes Nov 20 #63
Thank you CountAll Votes. I had a perm like that. Sticky like I had jelly on my head. I refused to pay. and walked out. debm55 Nov 20 #77
I shaved my head on a dare when I was 16. Luciferous Nov 20 #64
Oh wow. Thank you Luciferous. Now it is style. debm55 Nov 20 #78
bangs. the heavily teased helmet hair of the 1960s and the yellowdogintexas Nov 21 #80
Agree with the big hair.. After my spiral perm just kept it as a bob.Easier to take care of. debm55 Nov 21 #82
My hairdresser tried coloring it navy blue once jmowreader Nov 21 #81
Thank you jmowreader. Gee that really does sound unique. I'm glad whe could fix it for you.and it looking good at the debm55 Nov 21 #83
I had a fairly conservative mullet in the mid-80s,... LudwigPastorius Nov 22 #84
HAHAHHAHAHHA. Thank you LudwigPastorius. I can hear the Miami Vice theme in the background. debm55 Nov 22 #86
Poodle perm in the 1980s nt Wicked Blue Nov 22 #85
Thank you Wicked Blue. I had a poodle perm also debm55 Nov 22 #87

Sequoia

(12,555 posts)
7. I had a shag in high school
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:13 PM
Nov 19

But looked okay on me. Told hairdresser to cut my hair in the style of Roxanne onTV serial, Dark Shadows.

woodsprite

(12,253 posts)
8. My friend wanted me to give her a 'shag' haircut.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:19 PM
Nov 19

We tried it out on our Barbies first by hanging them upside down. It worked and looked OK, so she said she wanted me to try. She hung her head over the side of her bed and I chopped away. Didn't quite look the same. It wasn't my idea so I didn't let her do mine. She spent a bit of time with our neighbor who was in hairdressing school to fix it up.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
13. Thank you woodsprite. That is how I did mine. I brushed all my hair forward, I stood up to do it. I put a rubber band
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:33 PM
Nov 19

around all the gathered hair and cut right under the band and the hair fell back in place. Not what I was expecting.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
11. Thank you Tadpole Raisin. I frosted my hair myself and then gave myself a shag. I never did that again.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:25 PM
Nov 19

Tadpole Raisin

(1,561 posts)
17. My mother let my friends in and they hid behind the bathroom door waiting for
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:44 PM
Nov 19

me to come home and came out after I started bawling.

Prior to that we ironed our hair…

no_hypocrisy

(49,314 posts)
3. My mother had me in bangs and Patty McCormack braids til age 12.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:06 PM
Nov 19

OMG, I looked like The Bad Seed kid!!!

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no_hypocrisy

(49,314 posts)
51. As did I. You can't imagine my dismay/horror when I made the connection.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:58 PM
Nov 19

I'm convinced that my parents purposely chose that look for me as I was regarded as the family trouble-maker. And thus, I was "the bad seed" of my family.

kimbutgar

(23,666 posts)
59. I just saw the movie in TCM again recently and it was still disturbing and scary seeing that evil trait in a child
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:57 PM
Nov 19

And they are still amongst us!

House of Roberts

(5,761 posts)
4. Mine was always too short because my mom made me get it cut that way.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:09 PM
Nov 19

I would have had it collar length if she had let me have it the way I wanted it.

In the 90s my wife wanted me to grow it out enough to tie it into a ponytail and one night the older stepson came home with his head shaved and that's when I decided to grow it longer. I still have it in a ponytail, but the hairline is a little higher.

exboyfil

(18,045 posts)
5. Really long hair that I had from about 7th-10th grade (before I joined Jr. ROTC)
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:09 PM
Nov 19

I can't believe I used to have it that long. Emulating my older rocker brother. It was uncomfortable and didn't look very good (because I put no effort in keeping it up). Not styled in any fashion just long.

I do have really good hair and only have a little gray even at 61. My mom, who had my type of hair, grayed suddenly around 70 so I guess I have that to look forward to. At least no balding for now (unlike my brother's monkey a__ on the back of his head (his words - not mine)).

Marigold

(218 posts)
6. A permed mullet
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:11 PM
Nov 19

with the ears cut out. It was all the rage in the 80's. Even my husband had a perm at the time.

3catwoman3

(25,752 posts)
9. My mother always had my bangs cut way too short - more than halfway...
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:21 PM
Nov 19

Last edited Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:30 PM - Edit history (1)

...up my forehead. I cringe when I look at elementary school pictures of myself.

By junior high, I had some say in the matter. Ever since, my bangs must be touching my eyebrows or I feel shorn.

woodsprite

(12,253 posts)
10. The pixie cut. I looked like a boy.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:21 PM
Nov 19

Or it could have been when I used Sun In on my dark brown hair. It makes pretty highlights on blond hair, but turns brown hair to orange.

Ocelot II

(121,633 posts)
30. Same here. It was hideous on me but my mom thought it would be
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:08 PM
Nov 19

a good idea because my hair was (and still is) fine and unmanageable and I resisted getting it braided or otherwise messed with. So I had to get the pixie cut, absolutely hated it, cried and carried on, was mortified to have to go to school. I didn't look like a boy; I looked like a homely little girl with glasses and ears that stuck out. It seemed like it took forever for that disaster to grow out.

livetohike

(23,069 posts)
14. A shag when I was a freshman in college. I worked as
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:33 PM
Nov 19

a short order cook in the college cafeteria and would end my shift needing to wash the grease out of my hair. So I went from shoulder length hair to a shag. My hair is thick and curly. It was such a mistake.

Growing it out was horrendous and I vowed never to cut it short again. So my hair length in the past 50 years has alternated from below the shoulders to waist length. It’s in between that now.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
36. Thank you livetohike. It was a pain to let it grow out.You had to wait for each layer to grow out. Took forever.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:20 PM
Nov 19

pandr32

(12,306 posts)
15. My Mom got her hair frosted at a salon.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 04:38 PM
Nov 19

She was gone for hours and then when she proudly strutted through the door my Dad exclaimed, "All that money just to look like you're going gray!"

debm55

(39,052 posts)
38. Mine was a blond. It came by using one of those kits. The one I had done at the salon gave me orange streaks in it.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:23 PM
Nov 19

pandr32

(12,306 posts)
50. Mom's were fine streaks of platinum.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:54 PM
Nov 19

Against her brunette hair it did look like gray throughout.
She never did it again.
Sounds like you just managed to lighten your locks to the orange stage. It needed serious toning. Most home streaks looked similar.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
40. I has a poodle and latter a spiral. The spiral perm, I loved. But it didn't last long. Especially for the money I paid
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:27 PM
Nov 19

for it.

KT2000

(20,977 posts)
23. The one I have now
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 06:00 PM
Nov 19

Thought I would cut it myself but after I got started, my hip steroid injection for arthritis went into a flare so I had to wack it off as fast as I could so I could collapse. There is no saving it - just grow it out I guess.

ProfessorGAC

(70,784 posts)
37. A Jheri Curl?
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:22 PM
Nov 19

I had it for the "rock star" look in an 80s band.
It was unpopular with the EVPs of the company.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
43. Thank you ProfessorGAC, Wasn't it Michael Jackson who started it. I had one. When we met Rich looked like Grizzly Adams
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:35 PM
Nov 19

Long full hair and a full beard. they made him cut it all off to a business man look.

ProfessorGAC

(70,784 posts)
46. Probably Rick James
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:40 PM
Nov 19

Then Prince, then Michael, and other R&B stars.
Mine wasn't as tight, as I'm not black & it was long-ish.
In that last band, the look was Italian suits, so I cut it shorter (making the VPs happy), combed straight back.
I still wear it that way today, except I've got a 10" ponytail in back. That would have annoyed the VPs, too. But, I retired first!

ProfessorGAC

(70,784 posts)
54. Not For A While
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:13 PM
Nov 19

The 80-85 gigs a year started bumping against an incessant travel schedule for my job.
I was 51 & it was getting to be too much. We were together 20 years, so it wasn't like we pulled the plug too soon.
The guys and I still hosted some jam nights after we wrapped it up, though.
I've done a few solo acoustic gigs & sat in on keys with a band who are pals of mine.
But, nothing regular.
I play for my own enjoyment & to continue to get better.
I have a list of songs I need to record, which I may do this winter. I haven't recorded in 2 or 3 years, so I'm due.

Demobrat

(9,964 posts)
42. My hair is poker straight.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:34 PM
Nov 19

I wear it long and all one length. In the eighties I had it cut to my shoulders and permed. That didn’t last long.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
44. I liked it while it was new. But as the Perm started to go, it looked crappy. Decided to go straight and then got into
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:38 PM
Nov 19

French braids.

Demobrat

(9,964 posts)
49. Mine straightened out in sections.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 07:52 PM
Nov 19

So I had wavy sections and straight sections. Luckily I was able to blow it all out straight and let it grow back.

applegrove

(123,718 posts)
53. I was a brunette. I died my hair blue black. It came out really blue.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:11 PM
Nov 19

I called the 1 800 #clarol phone number on the instructions and they told me what dye to get to reverse it. Worked like a charm.

Niagara

(9,942 posts)
56. Imagine being a teenage girl doing the following to your hair:
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:29 PM
Nov 19

Crimping. They still sell crimpers and crimped hair looks awful



I sported a 80's half pomp lob but with bangs for a brief time (think a slight punk style)



The rest of the 80's my bangs were teased sky high and the sides of my hair were teased it looked like I had wings and was about ready to fly away. Lots of teased hair volume, lots of hairspray. Bad hair day? Tease it some more and add more hairspray, make it higher ...it's fine

surfered

(3,879 posts)
58. The Flatop with a little crew wax to make the front stand up.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 08:35 PM
Nov 19

A lot of photos of those in high school yearbooks.

Aristus

(68,701 posts)
61. I don't think it was hideous. My Dad did.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 09:28 PM
Nov 19

After Star Wars was released in 1977, every guy my age (nine) in the neighborhood wanted to look like Luke Skywalker. So we grew our hair out in the classic 1970’s disco shag. My career military officer father complained, but didn’t force me to cut it.

Now that I’m almost completely bald, I wear my bald-fringe Marine-short.

sorcrow

(535 posts)
62. Probably humorous more than hideous
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 12:18 AM
Nov 20

When I was in the third grade, my mother let my high school age sister dye my hair blonde so that I could look like the coolest guy on TV, namely Illya kuryakin, the Man from UNCLE. I think I even had a turtleneck like he wore occasionally in the show.

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CountAllVotes

(21,131 posts)
63. a "perm" it was called
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 01:21 AM
Nov 20

I have fine hair and I went to get a perm.

They left the crap in my hair too long and it came out sticking straight up and all frizzy!

I was so upset!

The "stylist" saw my expression and asked me what did I think.

I was speechless and then she asked me if I ever did acid.

I replied, "No I have not but after this mess maybe I should!".

Another big failure was the "box" haircut. Very short and popular in the early 1960s. It was a plain short haircut and made your hair look like a box, hence the name. Ugh.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
77. Thank you CountAll Votes. I had a perm like that. Sticky like I had jelly on my head. I refused to pay. and walked out.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 10:28 AM
Nov 20

That was at Penney's . Went to my regular and they fixed it.

Luciferous

(6,306 posts)
64. I shaved my head on a dare when I was 16.
Wed Nov 20, 2024, 06:43 AM
Nov 20

My dad took a picture to remind me of how dumb it looked 😄

yellowdogintexas

(22,836 posts)
80. bangs. the heavily teased helmet hair of the 1960s and the
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 08:42 PM
Nov 21

frizzy overburned "big hair" of the 1980s

And there was the time I let my hair grow just for the hell of it. I should never have done that. I was born to wear a pixie cut.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
82. Agree with the big hair.. After my spiral perm just kept it as a bob.Easier to take care of.
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 10:19 PM
Nov 21

jmowreader

(51,645 posts)
81. My hairdresser tried coloring it navy blue once
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 09:32 PM
Nov 21

Sure. Why not? I'll try nearly anything in the "unusual appearance" department - after all, how the hell are you supposed to be "unique" if you do the same shit as everyone else? I draw the line at using safety pins as earrings...how do you get them in without hurting yourself?

So I go in at 11 am with my very dark brown hair that's already fourteen different colors and sit through many hours of lifting the other colors out of it and putting this blue glop on my now-white hair.

We take the foils out of it and...uhh...Val...is this SUPPOSED to have come out black? I looked like Joan Jett, it was that black. She'd been coloring hair thirty years before that day and never had anyone's hair go that far out in left field before.

The only thing we could do with it was put a "punk rock chick" - her words, not mine - shaggy pixie cut into it. If you've got a look going, best to take it all the way. It did wind up looking really cool at the end of it all, but it sure wasn't what we were going for.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
83. Thank you jmowreader. Gee that really does sound unique. I'm glad whe could fix it for you.and it looking good at the
Thu Nov 21, 2024, 10:27 PM
Nov 21

end.

LudwigPastorius

(11,158 posts)
84. I had a fairly conservative mullet in the mid-80s,...
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 12:03 AM
Nov 22

but it was still a mullet.

...and besides, it went with my parachute pants and Miami Vice blazer.

debm55

(39,052 posts)
86. HAHAHHAHAHHA. Thank you LudwigPastorius. I can hear the Miami Vice theme in the background.
Fri Nov 22, 2024, 06:22 PM
Nov 22
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