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DFW

(56,928 posts)
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 11:45 AM Nov 23

As we get older, some of us reflect on what we might have done wrong over the course of our lives

My wife and I are currently taking a very strenuous week down in Königstein, in the Taunus hills north of Frankfurt, to take care of our four grandchildren. At ages 1½, 3½ (the two boys from New York), 4 and 6 (the two girls from Königstein), they are more than a handful. More like an oil tanker full. All intelligent, demanding, and, unfortunately, tireless. There is, obviously, a reason for this. Our two daughters and their men, plus about 50 friends of my younger daughter's S.O. are celebrating his 50th birthday. In the Maldives.

My daughter makes about five times as much as I do, and he makes about three times as much as she does. They can easily afford little expeditions like this. They chartered a 737-300, which left Frankfurt Wednesday night. It had two refueling stops, one in Tbilisi, Georgia, and the other in India somewhere. After 12 hours, they landed in Male, and got on a boat that brought them to the island they had rented for the short week. They return Tuesday.

Now, we have never been to the Maldives, but we have seen enough photos and get the idea. This is where people who live in paradise go for vacations. It is -3° C here, and there is snow on the ground. The sidewalks and the streets are icy. To make sure we knew our children are doing better than their parents (the younger one paid for her sister and family to come over from New York), they sent us a couple of photos. There will be more. We already got a short video clip (no idea how to post that) of a manta ray flying underwater beneath their villa on stilts (no idea which one they're in). If the grandchildren ever give us a moment's peace, we will start plotting our revenge.



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As we get older, some of us reflect on what we might have done wrong over the course of our lives (Original Post) DFW Nov 23 OP
Beautiful photos. badhair77 Nov 23 #1
While we do think the world of our grandchildren DFW Nov 23 #5
"they are completely down to earth, super smart, and have just had badhair77 Nov 23 #10
Ah, my dear DFW! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 23 #2
We are fortunate in that respect. DFW Nov 23 #6
Hire help on your end. Now Srkdqltr Nov 23 #3
2 teens and a cook and a cleaner. Your kids can afford it. Srkdqltr Nov 23 #4
They can afford anything, pretty much. DFW Nov 23 #7
🌈💕I am speechless at the photos and the tale. Say on. 🌈💕 Hekate Nov 23 #8
Taking 4 pretty young grand kids in for awhile is quite the experience. irisblue Nov 23 #9

badhair77

(4,679 posts)
1. Beautiful photos.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 11:54 AM
Nov 23

Good for them and I hope they enjoy their time with friends; it’s great to see your family succeed. I also hope you and your wife have a fabulous time building great memories with your grandchildren. As someone with none and very little possibility of ever having any please savor every moment with them. There will be time to rest after you get home.😊 look8ng forward to more photos.

DFW

(56,928 posts)
5. While we do think the world of our grandchildren
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 12:18 PM
Nov 23

Spend a solid week with this crew, and you might reconsider your regrets!

My daughter bought herself a cheapie underwater camera before leaving, so I'm sure there will be other pictures. Her pic of the sharks was National Geographic quality. They were hoping to go swim with a whale shark, and they are known to be in the area of the Maldives this time of year. They have a charter service on standby in case they get the chance. They are both completely down to earth, super smart, and have just had extraordinary success in their job careers. They knock themselves out while working, and enjoy the fruits of it when they're not. We say, good for them!

badhair77

(4,679 posts)
10. "they are completely down to earth, super smart, and have just had
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 01:56 PM
Nov 23

extraordinary success in their job careers”
Having read your posts over the years I am not surprised. Absolutely, good for them.

True, I will be vegging and reading while you’re describing your exhaustion. Looking forward to your descriptions of their antics. 😁

CaliforniaPeggy

(152,546 posts)
2. Ah, my dear DFW!
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 12:05 PM
Nov 23

Your strenuous week will soon be over! After you recover (and you will!) you'll have some terrific memories of this time with your precious grandchildren.

You gave your daughters a priceless gift: the realization that they could do whatever they set their minds to! And now they're living that.

Wonderful photos! I know your daughters and their partners are getting a huge battery charge from being where they are. They are very lucky, and I hope they realize that your love got them there.



DFW

(56,928 posts)
6. We are fortunate in that respect.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 12:25 PM
Nov 23

They never forget that our constant encouragement that they could do anything if they set their minds to it was what gave them the motivation to do so. My parents had left their three children, myself included, some money and I blew every cent of mine on my daughters' educations in the USA, where they wanted to go. It was the best investment I ever made.

DFW

(56,928 posts)
7. They can afford anything, pretty much.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 12:34 PM
Nov 23

They have a Polish nanny who has been with the family since my daughter even met her guy. She is helping us out with some serious overtime. But money is not the issue. The little ones are most comfortable with people they know. Small children are not comfortable with their parents vanishing and complete strangers taking over for days on end. The little one screams his head off if my wife leaves the room for even fifteen seconds. She recently went over to New York for a week to help our daughter out when her husband was sent on a business trip. She works full time, and their nanny was on maternity leave, so my wife is more of a trusted presence than I am.

irisblue

(34,461 posts)
9. Taking 4 pretty young grand kids in for awhile is quite the experience.
Sat Nov 23, 2024, 01:39 PM
Nov 23

Best hopes to you 2.

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