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Formerly hip expressions you're tired of hearing (Original Post) spooky3 22 hrs ago OP
"It's giving" As in "Her expression is giving snootiness" or Scrivener7 22 hrs ago #1
I'm so unhip I don't even know what the hip expressions are! johnp3907 22 hrs ago #2
I don't know if it was HIP Skittles 22 hrs ago #3
Hee hee - we can do without that one nt spooky3 22 hrs ago #4
I get the emotion, but EWW, No! electric_blue68 22 hrs ago #5
That always struck me as jarringly juvenile when uttered by adults. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz 11 hrs ago #27
Same here. Mentioned this in a comment yorkster 6 hrs ago #35
🤔 Groovy? Oh, I used it back in the day, but now? Fairly cringey. electric_blue68 22 hrs ago #6
I never said it. Too cringy for my crowd back then. LeftInTX 5 hrs ago #37
I've noticed that "Right?" is injected a lot. Frasier Balzov 21 hrs ago #7
I agree--very annoying and ubiquitous! Nt spooky3 21 hrs ago #13
Oh! My sister broke me of the "you know" habit in my early 20's, luckily! electric_blue68 19 hrs ago #20
Hack Freddie 21 hrs ago #8
Good One ProfessorGAC 20 hrs ago #14
Oh, God. Yes. Scrivener7 18 hrs ago #21
The shortcut phrase "go with" or "come with..." Why is it "cool" to leave off the object hlthe2b 21 hrs ago #9
I thought it was a regional thing. But all of a yorkster 2 hrs ago #46
broken hip? nt msongs 21 hrs ago #10
OMG! You're literally killing me! JoseBalow 21 hrs ago #11
Good one! Nt spooky3 21 hrs ago #12
Literally. cloudbase 20 hrs ago #15
Those words have lost their meaning. Nt spooky3 20 hrs ago #17
"No worries" nuxvomica 20 hrs ago #16
I think it was first popular in Australia in 1990s. Different from "Don't worry", but it is the same as "No problem" Bernardo de La Paz 10 hrs ago #28
"De nada" is the Spanish equivalent of "you're welcome" LeftInTX 5 hrs ago #40
Thank you. I hate that phrase. dai13sy 19 hrs ago #18
Like, really? WestMichRad 19 hrs ago #19
Or even just "like" Bernardo de La Paz 10 hrs ago #29
Gotcha!! and Multiple this or Multiple that. ArnoldLayne 15 hrs ago #22
Im tired Figarosmom 14 hrs ago #23
The GOAT. Iggo 13 hrs ago #24
"You got this" KitFox 11 hrs ago #25
That one NJCher 11 hrs ago #26
Or even I've got this. yorkster 5 hrs ago #36
Vocal rise: it communicates neediness for affirmation. Vocal fry: misplaced seduction voicing Bernardo de La Paz 10 hrs ago #30
Overuse of vocal rise drives me crazy. WestMichRad 7 hrs ago #33
Sometimes to me vocal fry suggested that yorkster 5 hrs ago #38
Remember when the DJs on FM radio (when they had DJs) Bernardo de La Paz 3 hrs ago #44
Yes, I do. Most often it was very pleasant, yorkster 2 hrs ago #47
Zap Go the Expressions! Mike Nelson 9 hrs ago #31
Needs. Somebody or something "needs" something. Walleye 8 hrs ago #32
Random quaint 6 hrs ago #34
"All the feels". Ick. Wingus Dingus 5 hrs ago #39
Eww! I agree. That sounds nasty. hlthe2b 13 min ago #48
I'm old enough to remember.... Way overused, especially on the tv chicoescuela 5 hrs ago #41
"Don't be bogue, man" bif 3 hrs ago #42
"What's the ask?" bif 3 hrs ago #43
"It's in my DNA" Redleg 3 hrs ago #45

Scrivener7

(53,214 posts)
1. "It's giving" As in "Her expression is giving snootiness" or
Thu Dec 26, 2024, 04:24 PM
22 hrs ago

"That outfit is giving money."

The expression "it's giving" is giving "trying too hard."

Skittles

(160,331 posts)
3. I don't know if it was HIP
Thu Dec 26, 2024, 04:31 PM
22 hrs ago

but I never could stand "I just threw up in my mouth a little"

yorkster

(2,522 posts)
35. Same here. Mentioned this in a comment
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:39 AM
6 hrs ago

awhile ago. Could never get why it was used so often for so long as it is so repulsive.

LeftInTX

(30,633 posts)
37. I never said it. Too cringy for my crowd back then.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:49 AM
5 hrs ago

I swear it was a "made for TV" saying....

"Groovy man"...

Frasier Balzov

(3,578 posts)
7. I've noticed that "Right?" is injected a lot.
Thu Dec 26, 2024, 04:54 PM
21 hrs ago

I'm on the lookout for it now.

When somebody says "Right?" in every other sentence, I began to devalue whatever else they have to say.

Maybe it's technically not a hip expression, but it aspires to be. More than the old verbal crutch of "ya know."

hlthe2b

(106,796 posts)
9. The shortcut phrase "go with" or "come with..." Why is it "cool" to leave off the object
Thu Dec 26, 2024, 05:03 PM
21 hrs ago

of the verb? It just sounds utterly ignorant to me. sigh...


Or to those still using "my bad..." Damn, this dates back twenty years at least.

yorkster

(2,522 posts)
46. I thought it was a regional thing. But all of a
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 12:13 PM
2 hrs ago

sudden, I started hearing it everywhere.

nuxvomica

(13,017 posts)
16. "No worries"
Thu Dec 26, 2024, 06:17 PM
20 hrs ago

I first heard it Ireland in 2014 and every server or barista or hotel employee under the age of 30 used it, and it seemed quaint. Then I started hearing it over here, again, people in their twenties, as if the phrase "Don't worry about it" never existed. I used it myself recently in a text message and I felt like a sellout. Now I want to use it, but ironically.

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,277 posts)
28. I think it was first popular in Australia in 1990s. Different from "Don't worry", but it is the same as "No problem"
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 03:46 AM
10 hrs ago

It's different from "Don't worry". That is a command to you. "No worries" means "I have no worries about the issue or event". It is meant to put the hearer at rest without COMMANDING them.

If you don't like "no worries", do you dislike "no problem"? Pretty much the same, except one is singular and the other plural. Two words each, same number of letters.

I don't worry about "no problem" and I have no problem with "no worries".

LeftInTX

(30,633 posts)
40. "De nada" is the Spanish equivalent of "you're welcome"
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 09:14 AM
5 hrs ago

If literally means "for nothing" and pre-dates "no worries" and "no problem" etc.


We learned it in Spanish class in 1968. We always thought it was a strange saying. It sounds like slang, but it isn't.
I think it was picked up in English in the 80's or something like that.

Hubby used "de nada" at work, but learned "no hay de que" (there's nothing to it) in school.
"No problema" is probably the most common informal/slange "you're welcome" in Spanish.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Spanish/comments/x1lcci/other_ways_to_say_youre_welcome_instead_of_de_nada/

https://spanishandgo.com/learn/15-different-ways-to-say-youre-welcome
https://en.amazingtalker.com/blog/en/spanish/64925/

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,277 posts)
29. Or even just "like"
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 04:10 AM
10 hrs ago

Like it is epicly overused, ya know. Like speakers think it is an awesome way to, like, avoid saying "uh" or "um" yaknow, but it is just as bad.

KitFox

(77 posts)
25. "You got this"
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 02:48 AM
11 hrs ago

I’m tired of hearing this non descriptive phrase for a specific situation. There are so many other possibilities for words of encouragement

NJCher

(38,244 posts)
26. That one
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 03:31 AM
11 hrs ago

Strikes me as patronizing.

Oh, please. I don’t need to be told I can handle something, especially by (patronizer).

yorkster

(2,522 posts)
36. Or even I've got this.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:46 AM
5 hrs ago

Especially when heard in dialog from a film or series depicting events of many decades earlier. It just jumps out.

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,277 posts)
30. Vocal rise: it communicates neediness for affirmation. Vocal fry: misplaced seduction voicing
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 04:24 AM
10 hrs ago

It is popular among women and some men to use the vocal rise on statements, voicing them as questions. It should be dropped immediately because it projects insecurity, being unsure about the statement, or needing affirmation from the listener because of a lack of confidence.

Usually the person using the vocal rise is pretty confident about what they are saying but somehow it is a habit, a popular affectation that devalues what the person is saying.

Vocal fry, also popular among mostly women, is a seductive voicing that communicates intimacy and late night drowsiness. When it is applied in conversation and interviews the speaker is almost never trying to be seductive. But it comes across as like "Come on over to my place at night." It's another affectation that sabotages the speaker's intent.

Fortunately vocal fry is finally receding from its fadishness. Though vocal rise is slowly declining it still plagues many speakers.

WestMichRad

(1,889 posts)
33. Overuse of vocal rise drives me crazy.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 07:37 AM
7 hrs ago

Makes me immediately question the competence of the speaker. Makes them sound like they have no conviction in what they are saying. Arrrgh!!

yorkster

(2,522 posts)
38. Sometimes to me vocal fry suggested that
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 08:56 AM
5 hrs ago

the speaker was only going to expend a very small amount of energy while speaking. Too cool to make an effort, as in
I'm going to just barely speak or respond to you.
There is also, of course the effect of drowsiness/intimacy that you mentioned.

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,277 posts)
44. Remember when the DJs on FM radio (when they had DJs)
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 11:22 AM
3 hrs ago

Remember how the FM DJs had their bedroom voice: soft, low, not going to wake anybody up.

yorkster

(2,522 posts)
47. Yes, I do. Most often it was very pleasant,
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 12:37 PM
2 hrs ago

as opposed to the braying, adenoidal pitchman style of some am djs.

WGBH in Boston had two of the best voices at one point. Ron Della Chiesa
had a jazz program in the pm and Robert J. Lurtsema was the classical fm voice in the early am.

Both quite mellifluous in very different ways..


Walleye

(36,439 posts)
32. Needs. Somebody or something "needs" something.
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 05:54 AM
8 hrs ago

When really it is the speaker that needs something not the subject. He “needs” to be fired , for example

chicoescuela

(1,649 posts)
41. I'm old enough to remember.... Way overused, especially on the tv
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 09:32 AM
5 hrs ago

and about things that happened very recently. Sounds dumb.

Redleg

(6,250 posts)
45. "It's in my DNA"
Fri Dec 27, 2024, 11:33 AM
3 hrs ago

People use this to explain why they act or think a certain way, as though it is carved in stone.

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