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Im OBSESSED with (something).
Just stop, please.
Scrivener7
(53,214 posts)"That outfit is giving money."
The expression "it's giving" is giving "trying too hard."
johnp3907
(3,915 posts)Skittles
(160,331 posts)but I never could stand "I just threw up in my mouth a little"
spooky3
(36,426 posts)electric_blue68
(18,724 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(51,277 posts)yorkster
(2,522 posts)awhile ago. Could never get why it was used so often for so long as it is so repulsive.
electric_blue68
(18,724 posts)LeftInTX
(30,633 posts)I swear it was a "made for TV" saying....
"Groovy man"...
Frasier Balzov
(3,578 posts)I'm on the lookout for it now.
When somebody says "Right?" in every other sentence, I began to devalue whatever else they have to say.
Maybe it's technically not a hip expression, but it aspires to be. More than the old verbal crutch of "ya know."
spooky3
(36,426 posts)electric_blue68
(18,724 posts)Freddie
(9,744 posts)The latest dinner hack
Money saving hack etc
Hack it off now.
ProfessorGAC
(70,625 posts)I don't care for it either.
Never used it. I just use "tip".
Scrivener7
(53,214 posts)hlthe2b
(106,796 posts)of the verb? It just sounds utterly ignorant to me. sigh...
Or to those still using "my bad..." Damn, this dates back twenty years at least.
yorkster
(2,522 posts)sudden, I started hearing it everywhere.
msongs
(70,279 posts)JoseBalow
(5,655 posts)Figuratively speaking...
spooky3
(36,426 posts)cloudbase
(5,796 posts)Awesome.
Epic.
spooky3
(36,426 posts)nuxvomica
(13,017 posts)I first heard it Ireland in 2014 and every server or barista or hotel employee under the age of 30 used it, and it seemed quaint. Then I started hearing it over here, again, people in their twenties, as if the phrase "Don't worry about it" never existed. I used it myself recently in a text message and I felt like a sellout. Now I want to use it, but ironically.
Bernardo de La Paz
(51,277 posts)It's different from "Don't worry". That is a command to you. "No worries" means "I have no worries about the issue or event". It is meant to put the hearer at rest without COMMANDING them.
If you don't like "no worries", do you dislike "no problem"? Pretty much the same, except one is singular and the other plural. Two words each, same number of letters.
I don't worry about "no problem" and I have no problem with "no worries".
LeftInTX
(30,633 posts)If literally means "for nothing" and pre-dates "no worries" and "no problem" etc.
We learned it in Spanish class in 1968. We always thought it was a strange saying. It sounds like slang, but it isn't.
I think it was picked up in English in the 80's or something like that.
Hubby used "de nada" at work, but learned "no hay de que" (there's nothing to it) in school.
"No problema" is probably the most common informal/slange "you're welcome" in Spanish.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Spanish/comments/x1lcci/other_ways_to_say_youre_welcome_instead_of_de_nada/
https://spanishandgo.com/learn/15-different-ways-to-say-youre-welcome
https://en.amazingtalker.com/blog/en/spanish/64925/
dai13sy
(490 posts)WestMichRad
(1,889 posts)
Bernardo de La Paz
(51,277 posts)Like it is epicly overused, ya know. Like speakers think it is an awesome way to, like, avoid saying "uh" or "um" yaknow, but it is just as bad.
ArnoldLayne
(2,172 posts)Figarosmom
(3,306 posts)Of people copying Mathew McConahay's "right on , right on , right on
Iggo
(48,536 posts)Just stop.
KitFox
(77 posts)Im tired of hearing this non descriptive phrase for a specific situation. There are so many other possibilities for words of encouragement
NJCher
(38,244 posts)Strikes me as patronizing.
Oh, please. I dont need to be told I can handle something, especially by (patronizer).
yorkster
(2,522 posts)Especially when heard in dialog from a film or series depicting events of many decades earlier. It just jumps out.
Bernardo de La Paz
(51,277 posts)It is popular among women and some men to use the vocal rise on statements, voicing them as questions. It should be dropped immediately because it projects insecurity, being unsure about the statement, or needing affirmation from the listener because of a lack of confidence.
Usually the person using the vocal rise is pretty confident about what they are saying but somehow it is a habit, a popular affectation that devalues what the person is saying.
Vocal fry, also popular among mostly women, is a seductive voicing that communicates intimacy and late night drowsiness. When it is applied in conversation and interviews the speaker is almost never trying to be seductive. But it comes across as like "Come on over to my place at night." It's another affectation that sabotages the speaker's intent.
Fortunately vocal fry is finally receding from its fadishness. Though vocal rise is slowly declining it still plagues many speakers.
WestMichRad
(1,889 posts)Makes me immediately question the competence of the speaker. Makes them sound like they have no conviction in what they are saying. Arrrgh!!
yorkster
(2,522 posts)the speaker was only going to expend a very small amount of energy while speaking. Too cool to make an effort, as in
I'm going to just barely speak or respond to you.
There is also, of course the effect of drowsiness/intimacy that you mentioned.
Bernardo de La Paz
(51,277 posts)Remember how the FM DJs had their bedroom voice: soft, low, not going to wake anybody up.
yorkster
(2,522 posts)as opposed to the braying, adenoidal pitchman style of some am djs.
WGBH in Boston had two of the best voices at one point. Ron Della Chiesa
had a jazz program in the pm and Robert J. Lurtsema was the classical fm voice in the early am.
Both quite mellifluous in very different ways..
Mike Nelson
(10,374 posts)Walleye
(36,439 posts)When really it is the speaker that needs something not the subject. He needs to be fired , for example
quaint
(3,653 posts)Wingus Dingus
(8,413 posts)hlthe2b
(106,796 posts)chicoescuela
(1,649 posts)and about things that happened very recently. Sounds dumb.
bif
(24,262 posts)bif
(24,262 posts)Redleg
(6,250 posts)People use this to explain why they act or think a certain way, as though it is carved in stone.