i am starting a yelling party thread

[fizzgig]

because you have to have a yelling party from time to time. my husband and/or i have them in the car. my dad, sister and i have them a lot when i go over for dinner. yelling parties really are fantastic.

A YELLING PARTY IS EXACTLY WHAT IT SOUNDS LIKE. YOU YELL!!!12!!@

YOU CAN JUST YELL:

AAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHGGGGGGGGGGWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRR!!!11!@21!

YOU CAN YELL ABOUT HOW MUCH FUN IT IS TO YELL AND HOW YELLING PARTIES ARE AWESOME:

AAAWWWWWWWWWWW YEAH, YELLING PARTY! AWWWWWWWSOME!1! YELLING PARTIES ARE THE BEST GODDAMN THING IN THE UNIVERSE FOREVER UNTIL THE END OF TIME!!11!

YOU CAN YELL ABOUT WHAT IS BOTHERING YOU OR PISSING YOU OFF, ANYTHING YOU WANT TO YELL ABOUT:

TODAY WAS A COMPLETE AND TOTAL CLUSTERFUCK!11! MY COWORKERS ARE MORONS! I'M GETTING A PIMPLE AND IT REALLY HURTS. WHY DID I GO INTO GD?????????????

[fizzgig]

1. AND I WILL GET IT STARTED

TODAY WASN'T A TERRIBLE DAY, BUT WORK WAS OVERWHELMINGLY STRESSFUL AT POINTS AND A COMPLETE CLUSTERFUCK. BAD NEWS TRICKLED IN ALL DAY. OUR BOY KITTEH KEEPS LOSING WEIGHT, THE DOC CAN'T FIND ANYTHING AND IT'S BREAKING MY HEART.

I LIKE YELLING BECAUSE IT MAKES THINGS SO MUCH MORE BEARABLE.

there, i feel a bit better, but i really just want to curl up and cry for the cat.

[Tobin S.]

2. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!!

MY EMPLOYER SUCKS ELEPHANT PISS! PROMISED ME A RAISE AND THAT MOTHERFUCKER NEVER CAME THROUGH! HIS GODDAMN EQUIPMENT IS LIKE A MEDIEVAL TORTURE DEVICE! I THINK HE TAKES PLEASURE IN BREAKING MY BALLS!

Which is why I'm going back to school. Trucking is just a tough profession all the way around, but it seems like the drivers are the ones taking the brunt of the suckage.

[fizzgig]

3. that is really lousy

weren't they jerking you around with your health insurance?

good luck with school

[Tobin S.]

4. Yes

I had to wait a damn year before I could get insurance there. Then when my anniversary came and went I didn't hear from them about it. I asked about it three times and my boss said it would be coming soon. He finally then actually asked somebody about it and it turned out that if he had not within the next day I would have had to wait another three months. Fucking bastards.

The shame is that that kind of thing isn't the exception in the trucking industry. Then they have the gonads to turn it around on the driver, blaming them for the high turnover rates. I shit you not, it is not uncommon for a carrier to have over a 100% turnover rate every year. To keep drivers you have to pay them well and treat them right. It's that easy, but they think it's some big mystery.

Fuck that. I've been doing this for 15 years, but I'm done with it as soon as possible. When I started driving an old driver said to me that he's been doing this for 40 years and every day it gets worse. I didn't believe him then, but I do now.

[fizzgig]

5. I NEED TO DO SOME YELLING

AAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELING PARTY TIME!!1@!@21@#4

AT LEAST I HAVE THE NEXT TWO DAYS OFF BUT I DON'T REALLY CARE RIGHT NOW BECAUSE I WANT TO HAVE A YELLING PARTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

[hunter]

6. twenty-mile zone, by Dory Previn

i was riding in my car
screaming at the night
screaming at the dark
screaming at fright
i wasn't doing nothing
just drive about
screaming at the dark
letting it out
that's all i was doing
just
letting it out

well along comes a motorcycle
very much to my surprise
i said officer was i speeding
i couldn't see his eyes
he said no you weren't speeding
and he felt where his gun was hung
he said lady you were screaming
at the top of your lung
and you were
doing it along
you were doing it alone
you were screaming in your car
in a twenty-mile zone
you were doing it alone
you were doing it alone
you were screaming

...

http://starwalk.com/dory/twenty-mile.htm

[fizzgig]

7. thanks for that

really liked this stanza

i said animals roar
when they feel like
why can't we do that too
instead of screaming
banzai baby
in the war in the human zoo

[HelpmeHelp]

8. YELLING ABOUT A CRUEL HOAX

"MICA DUAL-DIAGNOSIS TREATMENT"

DOES NOT EXIST IN THE SAME WORLD WITH INSURANCE COMPANIES. THERE'S NO SUCH THING. IF SOMEONE YOU LOVE IS SELF MEDICATING WITH ALCOHOL TO FEEL "NORMAL"

YOU. ARE. ON. YOUR. OWN.

[fizzgig]

9. that is definitely something worth yelling about

mental health and substance abuse are hard enough alone, but co-occurring disorders can be exponentially worse and completely devastating. i can't imagine insurance companies being all that wonderful in that arena, either.

welcome to our group, we are always here to listen and provide what wisdom we have. du also has an addiction and recovery group, the people over there are wonderful.

and, finally, welcome to du. my best to you and your loved one and good luck

[HelpmeHelp]

10. Thank you fizzgig

I've already subscribed to addiction and recovery.

The mountain just seems so damn high. . . .

[fizzgig]

11. keep checking in if you need to

and please remember to take care of yourself.

[ErikJ]

12. HIIYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!

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[mopinko]

13. MY DAUGHTER IS BACK WITH THE FUCKHEAD BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!

the guy just smells like a predatory manipulator. anyone who "falls in love" with someone while they are SERIOUSLY falling apart is looking for a victim, not a partner.
GOD DAMN THAT FUCKER.

thanks. i say these sort of things to her, but it only makes it worse.

[fizzgig]

14. HOLY SHIT I NEED A YELLING PARTY

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[Glaug-Eldare]

15. yay...

too loud?

[fizzgig]

17. be as loud as you want

yelling parties have no noise limits

[Fire Walk With Me]

16. "WHY DID I GO INTO GD?????????????"

[fizzgig]

18. i should change that to why did i go into meta

[grasswire]

19. fizz dear, how is your kitty

I just saw the comment above from a few months ago.

[fizzgig]

20. she is much improved, thank you

eating, running around with and grooming the rest of the brood, demanding as ever of scritches and pets.

thank you for asking

[grasswire]

21. hooray!

Good news.

[fizzgig]

22. GWWWWWWWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

YELLING UP IN THIS SHIT! I AM SORRY YOU'RE NOT FEELING WELL, MY HUSBAND, BUT THAT DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO BE AN UNGRATEFUL TURD!

[olddots]

23. OUR DAUGHTER HAS BECOME A PROFESSIONAL ANOREXIC AGAIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[fizzgig]

24. ...

[Locut0s]

25. I'm so sorry to hear that dot...

Anorexia is extremely painful to deal with. You end up harming those you love the most by harming yourself. There was a time when I myself was mildly anorexic which is ironic considering I've been overweight most of my life. I got into a weight loss thing that became an obsession and I ended up 135 lbs (I'm a 6'1 guy). Somehow I had managed to turn it around and instead of eating when depressed I didn't eat. I've always had self hatred issues, though this was more a protest over being forced to do things I didn't want to do at the time. But the self hatred made it easy to do. I can't explain why I hated myself, and still have issues with it. Well, I mean I can explain WHY, I know the factual reasons why I do but for anyone else they wouldn't add up to hating ones self. I guess that's what the underlying depression and anxiety has done, helped to colour and twist other emotional issues into something that much worse.

I'm sorry I can offer nothing more than sympathy. I hope for the very best for your daughter! It seems like so pathetically little when we are at rock bottom but sadly it's all anyone can usually offer another.

[Locut0s]

26. WHY DOES MY FATHER HAVE TO HAVE HIS OWN BREAKDOWN NOW!??

I FEEL LIKE A PIECE OF SHIT WORRYING ABOUT MYSELF AND NOT HIM BUT THE LAST FUCKING THING I NEED TO DEAL WITH RIGHT NOW IS A CLOSE FAMILY MEMBER WHOM I LIVE WITH GOING THROUGH THEIR OWN EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN. IT'S NOT A BREAKDOWN YET BUT I KNOW THE SIGNS WHEN I SEE THEM AND HE'S HAD THEM BEFORE. WITH LUCK HE WILL PULL OUT OF IT BEFORE NOSE DIVING. BUT SERIOUSLY, WITH THE FRAGILITY OF MY SELF IMPROVEMENT KICK I'M ON I DON'T NEED TO HAVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

[fizzgig]

27. i'm sorry, my friend

i have found that taking care of others helps me feel better, but it's hard to not take their pain on as your own. don't know how your family works, but in mine, we got out to eat and have a frank discussion about things. do little things for him and let him know you love him.

keep your head up

[Locut0s]

28. Thank you fizzgig. I think I just needed to vent a bit...

Thanks for this thread so we can vent

I think I'll be OK. My emotions have been up and down more since my father got back but I'm still coping. My long walks around the city have been helping quite a lot. They are meditative, help to shut my brain off. I can combine my photography with the walks as well. And the physical exhaustion is helping me sleep at night. Win win. I just need to deal with the time in between a little better.

[fizzgig]

29. yelling parties are pretty awesome

they're good for you

keep up the walking and the photography, sounds like they're both good for you

[olddots]

30. I want to taste food again and be able to eat !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I want a purpose !!!!!!