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XanaDUer2

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Sun Dec 15, 2024, 10:56 AM Dec 15

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Don't listen to the words would've, could've, or should've Walleye Dec 15 #1
My family hates him XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #2
I said i need to hear XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #3
It's really tough, you have my sympathy Walleye Dec 15 #4
Ty XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #11
If he won't leave is there some reason you can't leave? Autumn Dec 15 #5
Money XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #6
He's a narcissist Keepthesoulalive Dec 15 #7
I just got ranted at bc XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #8
A doctor told me they are not doing research on many ailments because there is no money in it. Keepthesoulalive Dec 15 #9
Ty XanaDUer2 Dec 15 #10

Walleye

(36,439 posts)
1. Don't listen to the words would've, could've, or should've
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:09 AM
Dec 15

Delete them from your mental vocabulary, if possible. The fact is nobody knows what might have happened had actions been different, nobody knows, so don’t go down that rabbit hole. It’s never good and it’s magical thinking. I had to really work hard on not thinking that way after my boyfriend died suddenly.

XanaDUer2

(14,628 posts)
2. My family hates him
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:13 AM
Dec 15

'Know it all" trash and garbage. I don't understand why he won't just say that. I told him blaming me for a medical. Injury is insane and cruel. He's screaming he's done but won't leave. Shouldn't he leave? I'm long done

XanaDUer2

(14,628 posts)
3. I said i need to hear
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:20 AM
Dec 15

I believe you and that you were hurt. He refused and asked did i want him to lie n i said yes. He said that's too much pressure on him..

Walleye

(36,439 posts)
4. It's really tough, you have my sympathy
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:27 AM
Dec 15

XanaDUer2

(14,628 posts)
11. Ty
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 04:19 PM
Dec 15

Life seems very tough lately. Ironically, I should have been finishing up this tmj tx, and celebrating it was fixed and moving on with my life.

Autumn

(46,668 posts)
5. If he won't leave is there some reason you can't leave?
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:30 AM
Dec 15

XanaDUer2

(14,628 posts)
6. Money
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:42 AM
Dec 15

Keepthesoulalive

(813 posts)
7. He's a narcissist
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 11:43 AM
Dec 15

He enjoys putting you down. He won’t affirm you because it’s all about him.

XanaDUer2

(14,628 posts)
8. I just got ranted at bc
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 12:12 PM
Dec 15

The nerve may have been already damaged by grinding and him pushing it Mary have exposed something blah blah and i was perfectly fine until he shoved it back hard. My face is tingling and i feel like itll go numb. I do wish i was dead most of the time.

I told him lie n just say i was injured.

Keepthesoulalive

(813 posts)
9. A doctor told me they are not doing research on many ailments because there is no money in it.
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 12:42 PM
Dec 15

The brain , nervous system also the endocrine system. Cancer is a cash cow also heart disease.
Unfortunately stress can make pain worse. Wishing you peace.

XanaDUer2

(14,628 posts)
10. Ty
Sun Dec 15, 2024, 01:15 PM
Dec 15
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