Mental Health Support
Related: About this forumI hope you all make it through the season.
As alone as we may feel, we are actually not. I know that may be tough to believe at times, and I can attest to that fact myself.
Please know that I wish us all some time of peace and joy these next few weeks.
Ocelot II
(128,853 posts)Things kinda suck right now but we're here and we have each other.
LoisB
(12,259 posts)mahina
(20,343 posts)🤙🏼✨✨✨
IbogaProject
(5,566 posts)AllaN01Bear
(28,492 posts)looking torward the mid terms,
Timeflyer
(3,640 posts)crosinski
(669 posts)The holidays are stressful for me because I do all the cooking
and usually the clean up too. A group hug is very much appreciated.
OldBaldy1701E
(10,004 posts)I do the work, others do the celebrating.
Your efforts are not seen as minuscule by myself, that is for sure!
OldBaldy1701E
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OldBoss
(62 posts)Been in bed since yesterday and not improving much, nasty cold or flu but no phlegm or temperature. Most of my fam is scattered around the country and we spent a lot of time together this year - so no regret missing the fam, they knew months ago Id be absent. Im missing close friends but they totally understand and Im thankful. I have a roaring fire and two fur babies to keep me warm, and plenty of amazing food.
But, I still cannot shake my combo anger and sadness about ICE detentions in MN past two weeks. Two friends detained overnight. Both citizens. Both Anoka. Dozens of other reports from friends and plenty in the news.
Sorry if Im not thinking clearly, but I wonder how this impacts local economies? People dont leave the house cuz theyre afraid of getting detained even if theyre citizens! Thats fcuked and literally what is happening for both citizens and non-citizens here. So they are all missing wages during the holidays and many had little money at the end of the month anyway (and lesser wages means lesser taxes dontcha know).
I wonder what payroll has been like for local retailers impacted by this? I could be waaay wrong but if POC stayed home and didnt show up for work, their
dont have to apologize for being white peers picked up a bunch of extra shifts and overtime. Or more likely the stores just had longer lines and worse service for customers.
The local gig economy has to be measurably suffering too. Uber/Eats, Lyft, DoorDash, Instacart, etc. Thats not a small number. And with fewer local drivers - businesses lose revenue too, both local and national.
Too bad we didnt have more snow in the last 48-hours. Im not sure what % of snow plow drivers are POC but wouldnt be surprised if its double-digits or actually a lot more. Maybe not MNDOT and ciounty/state roadways but certainly city, retail, and private properties. And what if Becky soccer mom cant get creme fraiche from Kowalski's cuz the local streets and parking lots are mucked?
Thanks for your patience, gonna put the mouse down now and resume my slumber.
OldBaldy1701E
(10,004 posts)I can just hope that those same brave souls who have been out there raising hell will continue to do so.