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irisblue

(34,450 posts)
Thu Dec 27, 2018, 10:32 AM Dec 2018

So I reached out to 2 old friends

I have not spoken with for several years. Not falling out, just me drifting away. I'll be getting together with them in early January for a dinner out. Yeah me I guess.

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So I reached out to 2 old friends (Original Post) irisblue Dec 2018 OP
I did the same with some relatives and an old friend. lark Dec 2018 #1
Good, Iris! barbtries Dec 2018 #2
This is good. Sherman A1 Dec 2018 #3
It's later than we think! No Vested Interest Dec 2018 #4
Good on you, Irisblue PennyK Jan 2019 #5

lark

(24,359 posts)
1. I did the same with some relatives and an old friend.
Thu Dec 27, 2018, 10:40 AM
Dec 2018

I was quite happy to get good responses and am having lunch on the 5th with the old friend. Yay.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
3. This is good.
Thu Dec 27, 2018, 10:51 AM
Dec 2018

I had heard of some poor health from old friends in this year's Christmas Cards. Sent them get well notes and contact information. Heard from one and we are reconnecting by email and such, so not all bad.

No Vested Interest

(5,211 posts)
4. It's later than we think!
Thu Dec 27, 2018, 04:09 PM
Dec 2018

Time flies by.
Old friends, with whom you shared your youth or early adulthood, know you ina way that later friends never will.
Old friends know where you're coming from when you speak or interacting with them.

And many are gone in the blink of an eye, forever.

PennyK

(2,314 posts)
5. Good on you, Irisblue
Thu Jan 3, 2019, 01:05 PM
Jan 2019

And I'll be making some new friends this year - daughter got engaged and I have his family to meet. I think that happens in March, when my ex is planning to hold an engagement party for them. His parents seem very gregarious, so this should be interesting.

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