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Emile

(30,831 posts)
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 11:17 AM Sep 2024

I been outside burying my little girl. She showed up

here a little over 18 years ago. Beautiful grey and and white kitten around year old. The neighbor down the road had her for their three year old daughter. Then shortly after drove to Chicago and rescued a blood hound dog and that cat said I'm out of here and she found me and has been daddy's little girl ever since.

About two weeks ago my little girl started losing weight and stopped eating. My vet said he could euthanize her, but if she is not in pain to let her live out her life. I found her laying out in the back yard this morning. I just finished burying her and I'm so sad.

My neighbor's three year old daughter graduated with her bachelor's degree in college this year and now going to the university to be a forensic scientist. Never had a pet live this long.

Here is her picture of Gracie when she was around four or five years old.

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I been outside burying my little girl. She showed up (Original Post) Emile Sep 2024 OP
((😿)) Deuxcents Sep 2024 #1
So sorry The Blue Flower Sep 2024 #2
Oh no so sorry for your loss. She was beautiful ❤️ TommieMommy Sep 2024 #3
So sorry for your loss. Whyisthisstillclose Sep 2024 #4
So very sorry. AltairIV Sep 2024 #5
I'm soo sorry... alittlelark Sep 2024 #6
My heartfelt sympathy Emile rockbluff botanist Sep 2024 #7
I'm so sorry. She was a beauty! brer cat Sep 2024 #8
🕯️💫 blm Sep 2024 #9
I'm so sorry for your loss of Gracie. What happy livetohike Sep 2024 #10
Lousy way to start the day. I am so, so sorry. Gracie was a beauty. I am glad she was with you and you with her LoisB Sep 2024 #11
I'm so sorry. piddyprints Sep 2024 #12
I'm so sorry for your loss, too. femmedem Sep 2024 #17
Thank you so much. piddyprints Sep 2024 #18
Lady Bast, please take Your little Simon gently home in Your loving arms, niyad Sep 2024 #66
Thank you. piddyprints Sep 2024 #67
I am so sorry. Solly Mack Sep 2024 #13
My sympathies. TomSlick Sep 2024 #14
I'm so sorry for your loss. femmedem Sep 2024 #15
I'm so sorry... Such a pretty girl. onecaliberal Sep 2024 #16
I'm so sorry. They give so much and ask so little. Bumbles Sep 2024 #19
So sorry for your loss...she looks like such a sweet soul! PortTack Sep 2024 #20
I am so sorry for your loss. debsy Sep 2024 #21
All those wonderful years of love. What a blessing. erronis Sep 2024 #22
Pretty Gracie. 😢 vanlassie Sep 2024 #23
My sympathies and hugs. WestMichRad Sep 2024 #24
Oh beautiful Gracie, Clouds Passing Sep 2024 #25
19 is a very long life for a cat, especially an indoor-outdoor cat Warpy Sep 2024 #26
So sorry for your loss... regnaD kciN Sep 2024 #27
I'm so sorry Lemon Lyman Sep 2024 #28
I'm so sorry for your loss EverHopeful Sep 2024 #29
My sympathy. I know how hard it is. You were so lucky to have her for so long. ratchiweenie Sep 2024 #30
I'm so sorry Erda Sep 2024 #31
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Mousetoescamper Sep 2024 #32
Awwww. What a beautiful angel! She now has her wings. CousinIT Sep 2024 #33
Condolences, Emile gademocrat7 Sep 2024 #34
So sorry montanacowboy Sep 2024 #35
I'm so sorry cate94 Sep 2024 #36
I do not have words. Emile I grieve by you. irisblue Sep 2024 #37
I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Sep 2024 #38
Sorry for your loss. totodeinhere Sep 2024 #39
So sorry, Emile. ancianita Sep 2024 #40
Very sorry for your loss Picaro Sep 2024 #41
Reminds me of my Willie. Bmoboy Sep 2024 #42
I'm so sorry. barbtries Sep 2024 #43
Sending you hugs because I don't have adequate words. MLAA Sep 2024 #44
She was beautiful Figarosmom Sep 2024 #45
my condolences for your loss. And a great loss it is. I am still missing a lovely cat that we lost over 30 years demigoddess Sep 2024 #46
((Hugs))) Pucks mom Sep 2024 #47
I am so sorry, Linda ladeewolf Sep 2024 #48
I am so sorry MerrilyMerrily Sep 2024 #49
I am so sorry. I feel your deep sense of loss. Fla Dem Sep 2024 #50
so very sorry Skittles Sep 2024 #51
oh no DemonGoddess Sep 2024 #52
I am so sorry. Trueblue Texan Sep 2024 #53
I'm so sorry. CountMyVote4Reality Sep 2024 #54
I'm sorry your Gracie is gone. LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 #55
18 years of love. May she Rest in Peace. n/t iluvtennis Sep 2024 #56
A life well lived. Lunabell Sep 2024 #57
So sorry for your loss, Emile. pazzyanne Sep 2024 #58
I'm so sorry. Gracie had the best life and stayed with you sinkingfeeling Sep 2024 #59
She was a beauty COL Mustard Sep 2024 #60
My condolences 🙏 Faux pas Sep 2024 #61
Brutal stuff DENVERPOPS Sep 2024 #62
What a sweetie. Please know you loved and cared for a precious soul, and hang onto the memories. Very hard to do now. Evolve Dammit Sep 2024 #63
Lady Bast please take Your little Gracie gently home in Your loving arms niyad Sep 2024 #64
Sorry about the loss of one of your own. yonder Sep 2024 #65
I am so sorry, Emile UpInArms Sep 2024 #68
So sorry. Non pet people don't understand, they are furry family. OverBurn Sep 2024 #69
Breaks my heart to read these posts jtb653 Sep 2024 #70
I'm so sorry. area51 Sep 2024 #71
Hard to lose a cat you have loved for 18 years. A couple years ago we lost our Braveheart at age 19. PatrickforB Sep 2024 #72
My heart aches for you DaBronx Sep 2024 #73
I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet Gracie. virgdem Sep 2024 #74
So very sorry anniebelle Sep 2024 #75
Oh, Emile JudyM Sep 2024 #76
All my sympathy to you, Emile. calimary Sep 2024 #77
Im so sorry...it never gets any easier no matter how old we are.. samnsara Sep 2024 #78
4. So sorry for your loss.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 11:24 AM
Sep 2024

These little animals are family, and they are gifts to us. I'm glad you had so long with her. She knew you loved her.

alittlelark

(18,923 posts)
6. I'm soo sorry...
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 11:35 AM
Sep 2024

I can feel your pain from here You were very lucky to have been chosen by her, and she was smart to find you

rockbluff botanist

(360 posts)
7. My heartfelt sympathy Emile
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 11:38 AM
Sep 2024

Gracie lived her very best life. She will be with you always.

My back garden is dotted with the many many resting places of my babies. I know that every night their little spirits play in my garden. I wish I could see them. I sit on my garden bench and I can feel their presence.

livetohike

(23,054 posts)
10. I'm so sorry for your loss of Gracie. What happy
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:22 PM
Sep 2024

memories you must have of your sweet girl from 18 years. May they comfort you today and every day .

LoisB

(9,025 posts)
11. Lousy way to start the day. I am so, so sorry. Gracie was a beauty. I am glad she was with you and you with her
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:34 PM
Sep 2024

for so long. Hugs to you.

piddyprints

(14,830 posts)
12. I'm so sorry.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:38 PM
Sep 2024

We’re going to lose our 17 1/2-year old ginger tabby, Simon today. Just waiting for them to get here. We got him as a very small kitten, just a few months old if that.

Gracie was beautiful. I’m glad she found you and had a long, wonderful life.

femmedem

(8,455 posts)
17. I'm so sorry for your loss, too.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:45 PM
Sep 2024

I know you are giving Simon one last kindness today--and I know how much that kindness hurts.

niyad

(120,747 posts)
66. Lady Bast, please take Your little Simon gently home in Your loving arms,
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 06:24 PM
Sep 2024

and send peace and comfort to his grieving loved ones.


I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious boy.

piddyprints

(14,830 posts)
67. Thank you.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 06:43 PM
Sep 2024

It was done at 2:30 and very peaceful. We're still crying... can't help it. But he is not suffering and hopefully is having a reunion with his sisters and brothers. We're so thankful that our vets will come out to the house so we didn't have to give the little guy a terrifying car ride as his last experience.

femmedem

(8,455 posts)
15. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:43 PM
Sep 2024

She was lucky to have so many years with you, but I know that doesn't ease your grief.

Bumbles

(269 posts)
19. I'm so sorry. They give so much and ask so little.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 12:48 PM
Sep 2024

She reminds me of my Pippin, a Korat who lived to be twenty-two years old. I had trained him to use the toilet, and he used the head on the boat. He was my best buddy. As he became weaker, I fixed him a cozy bed and a litter box in the bathroom. One day he struggled to get up to greet me for the third time that day. I told him was okay, it was time for him to go. He put his head down and drifted off shortly after that. I've missed him most days though he left many years ago. He's buried under my studio, and still is my muse.

Though no one could replace Gracie, I hope you'll be able to find someone who can reside in your heart next to her, as I have over the years since losing several wonderful companions.

debsy

(557 posts)
21. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:00 PM
Sep 2024

She was a beautiful companion who I am certain loved you as much as you love her! Eighteen is a long stretch for a cat and an obvious sign of the love and care she received during her time on this planet. It seems she was happy to be in her comfort zone when she passed.

erronis

(17,182 posts)
22. All those wonderful years of love. What a blessing.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:00 PM
Sep 2024

It's easy/hard to mourn but think about the good times you had together.

I've loved and lost way too many over 70+ years.

Warpy

(113,131 posts)
26. 19 is a very long life for a cat, especially an indoor-outdoor cat
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:12 PM
Sep 2024

HRH made it to 21. I did get her put to sleep when she started showing signs of pain and told me it wasn't fun any more.

No matter how long they live, it's just never enough.

EverHopeful

(385 posts)
29. I'm so sorry for your loss
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:18 PM
Sep 2024

And so glad to hear her story. She picked the best home and human.

So glad she had so many years. My Gracie also lived longer than any cat who's owned me.

Erda

(173 posts)
31. I'm so sorry
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:22 PM
Sep 2024

Such a sweet little one.

I'm glad you had each other and that you were there to watch over her.

totodeinhere

(13,360 posts)
39. Sorry for your loss.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:40 PM
Sep 2024

I know how you feel. I lost my 19 year old cat. She had showed up in my back yard as a kitten and moved in and took over my house. I loved her very much.

Bmoboy

(414 posts)
42. Reminds me of my Willie.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:51 PM
Sep 2024

Gray like Gracie.

Found him outside, like Gracie.

Buried him under a row of rose hips.

barbtries

(29,956 posts)
43. I'm so sorry.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:55 PM
Sep 2024

she must have had a wonderful life with you and, considering that we all have to go sometime, her way of going after such a long life, seems just about ideal. I hope you can take comfort from that.

Figarosmom

(3,313 posts)
45. She was beautiful
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 01:59 PM
Sep 2024

And the name Gracie looks like it fit her just right. Sorry she's gone.

demigoddess

(6,675 posts)
46. my condolences for your loss. And a great loss it is. I am still missing a lovely cat that we lost over 30 years
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 02:01 PM
Sep 2024

ago. But I comfort myself with the thought that he is in heaven getting love from other great people. I am sure your sweetie is getting that too.

Linda ladeewolf

(493 posts)
48. I am so sorry,
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 02:18 PM
Sep 2024

She looks just like the one I had for almost 17 years. She passed away on June 19, 2017. I miss her a lot. Her name was Little Gray, it was the only name she would come to me for. I raised her from a four week old kitten. She was such a sweet baby.

Fla Dem

(25,870 posts)
50. I am so sorry. I feel your deep sense of loss.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 02:56 PM
Sep 2024

Next month will be a year since my cat and best friend of 18 years "Baby Girl" passed away. Miss her every day.


Skittles

(160,371 posts)
51. so very sorry
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 03:07 PM
Sep 2024

Grieve not
nor speak of me with tears
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you
I loved you so
’twas Heaven here with you

- Isla Paschal Richardson

54. I'm so sorry.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 04:34 PM
Sep 2024

Thank you for sharing her story. She’s so beautiful. Great vet.
She lived her best life.

LudwigPastorius

(11,098 posts)
55. I'm sorry your Gracie is gone.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 04:39 PM
Sep 2024

I don’t know if there’s an afterlife, but if there is, our good girls and boys will be there for us.

Lunabell

(7,065 posts)
57. A life well lived.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 04:45 PM
Sep 2024

She was so beautiful. And I'm sure she felt your love completely. I wish our pets lived as long as we do. RIP Gracie.

pazzyanne

(6,624 posts)
58. So sorry for your loss, Emile.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 05:07 PM
Sep 2024


May good memories of Gracie comfort you as you go forward.

sinkingfeeling

(53,268 posts)
59. I'm so sorry. Gracie had the best life and stayed with you
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 05:22 PM
Sep 2024

as long as she could. You both were blessed by your time together.

COL Mustard

(6,994 posts)
60. She was a beauty
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 05:26 PM
Sep 2024

Been there, done that, and it always sucks. Remember the good times you had with her, and she’ll always be in your heart.

DENVERPOPS

(10,166 posts)
62. Brutal stuff
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 05:35 PM
Sep 2024

What a gorgeous lady...........

Every time I have to put down a pet, I swear I will never get another one.....after I have grieved, I always get another one.

Evolve Dammit

(19,107 posts)
63. What a sweetie. Please know you loved and cared for a precious soul, and hang onto the memories. Very hard to do now.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 06:01 PM
Sep 2024

niyad

(120,747 posts)
64. Lady Bast please take Your little Gracie gently home in Your loving arms
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 06:16 PM
Sep 2024

and send peace and comfort to her grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, precious little girl. Do not be surprised if she comesto visit you.

yonder

(10,008 posts)
65. Sorry about the loss of one of your own.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 06:17 PM
Sep 2024

We've lost many over the years and it never gets any easier. Then another little soul shows up and seems to help absorb the loss.

Gracie looks to be a little Russian Blue-ish, gorgeous in any case. Again, sorry.

UpInArms

(51,913 posts)
68. I am so sorry, Emile
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 07:47 PM
Sep 2024

Our fur babies live long enough to steal our hearts and never long enough.

I hope your Gracie is curled up with my Wrex and having their best moments together.

jtb653

(91 posts)
70. Breaks my heart to read these posts
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 08:41 PM
Sep 2024

but after losing so many of my own babies I take some solace reading how other people deal with such sad life events Peace be with you.

PatrickforB

(15,126 posts)
72. Hard to lose a cat you have loved for 18 years. A couple years ago we lost our Braveheart at age 19.
Thu Sep 26, 2024, 11:50 PM
Sep 2024

She's crossed that Rainbow Bridge to the green fields of memory. She was a beautiful cat.

DaBronx

(488 posts)
73. My heart aches for you
Fri Sep 27, 2024, 01:01 AM
Sep 2024

Wishing you strength. What a beautiful cat. A wonderful life. Had one as well…14 yrs. Great everlasting memories. I wish the same for you. Hang in there.

virgdem

(2,210 posts)
74. I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet Gracie.
Fri Sep 27, 2024, 01:18 AM
Sep 2024

I feel your pain, having lost 7 kittykids. Fly free to the stars, little one.💔🌈

JudyM

(29,537 posts)
76. Oh, Emile
Fri Sep 27, 2024, 06:00 AM
Sep 2024

Sending hugs to help somehow… my heart is heavy, sad for you. Wishing you peaceful, healing moments through the sorrow, my friend.

calimary

(84,644 posts)
77. All my sympathy to you, Emile.
Fri Sep 27, 2024, 06:37 AM
Sep 2024

So sorry to hear of her passing. Hopefully the love and care from folks here can help get you through it.

Hopefully, Mousetrap, Dub, and Tasha will meet up with her, Upstairs, and show her around, and help her get settled.

samnsara

(18,306 posts)
78. Im so sorry...it never gets any easier no matter how old we are..
Fri Sep 27, 2024, 06:55 AM
Sep 2024

..our fur babies are here to remind us of our own mortality and when they leave they take a little bit of us with them...but they leave so much more of themselves in return.
Godspeed, Gracie... what a GOOD friend you are! (((hugs)))

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