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Lunabell

(7,065 posts)
1. I want to be a tree
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 12:44 AM
Nov 2018

Actually, I don't care that much but I hope my survivors will plant me in a tree somewhere after cremation.

elleng

(136,880 posts)
2. No cremation for me,
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 12:55 AM
Nov 2018

wearing cotton, in a plain pine box, in a scenic burial spot. (A room with a view is important to me, so I hope my survivors will enjoy the scenery if/when they visit!)

csziggy

(34,189 posts)
6. I don't even want the pine box!
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 10:31 PM
Nov 2018

Wrap my body in a cotton sheet and stick me in a hole in the ground. If anyone wants to mark where I am buried they can plant a tree there.

I hope I can be buried on my farm, along with a number of my horses, cats and dogs. We've never marked their burial spots, just put them where we could dig a deep enough hole.

marble falls

(62,534 posts)
3. In Austin there's a park which will bury you unenbalmed in a fabric shroud for several thousand ...
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 08:49 AM
Nov 2018

dollars total. I don't want a stone or ceremony. Just fall back into the earth.

essme

(1,207 posts)
12. You are kidding
Sun Nov 18, 2018, 03:46 PM
Nov 2018

People pay "several thousand" to be wrapped up in a sheet and planted? That's ridiculous. Several hundred, sure- but "several thousand?"

Is it the Ringling Brothers Park?

Nitram

(24,746 posts)
5. Interesting. I've always wanted to be dumped in a hole next to a tree.
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 10:57 AM
Nov 2018

One suggestion I found problematic: burying cremated ashes in a container made of Himalayan salt would be toxic to a tree and would serve to protect the remains from natural decomposittion by bacteria. Not a very greeen solution.

csziggy

(34,189 posts)
7. Digging next to a tree could be hard - think of all the roots!
Fri Nov 16, 2018, 10:33 PM
Nov 2018

Better than that - plant a tree where you are buried, whether your entire body with a green burial or cremated. If you need a container, use an unfinished wood box. It will degrade along with your remains.

I just want a shroud of plain cotton and a hole, no container at all.

Nitram

(24,746 posts)
8. Excellent point, csziggy. We don't want to damage the roots of the tree we will become.
Sat Nov 17, 2018, 09:46 AM
Nov 2018

I'll take the CZiggy Plan, please. Ideally, the tree would have plenty of space to grow outwards. In addition, be nice too get permission to be interred on land that is under a perpetual easement forbidding the harvesting of trees. There are a lot of those in the Chesapeake Bay Watershed, protecting trees along rivers and streams.

csziggy

(34,189 posts)
9. I'm lucky - I own sixty acres so have lots of room to plant trees
Sat Nov 17, 2018, 10:00 AM
Nov 2018

In fact when we first bought this farm 40 years ago we planted about two thousand trees. But we still have space in the pastures where we could plant another few hundred trees, LOL.

I plan to keep this place as a park after I die - just have to figure out the legal stuff to make it happen - so there would not be houses built where I am planted.

Nitram

(24,746 posts)
10. We have two acres, which is too small to place under easement with any organization I know of.
Sat Nov 17, 2018, 10:02 AM
Nov 2018

I would strongly advise you to look into placing your land under a conservation easement that would protect forested and open space land in perpetuity. What state do you live in?

csziggy

(34,189 posts)
11. I'm in Florida and will be working with experts
Sat Nov 17, 2018, 10:09 AM
Nov 2018

My farm is still partly owned by my parents' estates. Once that is settled and it is all mine I can make the choices to protect the farm. My brother-in-law is an attorney who specialized in land deals (he represented energy companies but he's had to deal with groups protecting the land) and a friend was in one of the groups my BIL fought against in court. Plus I will be seeing an estate attorney after Thanksgiving to start setting things up.

If I live as long as my Mom I have another 30 years to live here and get the right paperwork set up.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
14. You might want to consider body composting,
Thu May 30, 2019, 02:31 AM
May 2019

which was just approved by Gov. Jay Inslee of Washington state.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/composting-human-bodies-now-legal-washington-state-n1008606

It allows licensed facilities to offer "natural organic reduction," which turns a body, mixed with substances such as wood chips and straw, into about two wheelbarrows' worth of soil in a span of several weeks.

Loved ones are allowed to keep the soil to spread, just as they might spread the ashes of someone who has been cremated — or even use it to plant vegetables or a tree.

Nitram

(24,746 posts)
15. I'v always leaned towards cremation, but that does involve a contribution of greenhouse gases.
Thu May 30, 2019, 04:01 PM
May 2019

Becoming fertilizer for a tree, does the opposite. Perhaps the composting method is the best.

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