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CTyankee

(65,302 posts)
Thu Feb 16, 2023, 02:46 PM Feb 2023

Grief grabbed me today. I found an old notebook from my years old class in "writing the self."

I wrote of the death of a beloved sister in law in that class. I was just putting the finishing touches on a new book I am writing and dedicated it to her. I emailed my niece to tell her that she'd be getting it soon.
I was plunged back into the grief I felt in that writing course. I emailed the professor to let her know.

Also, was reminded of Stanley Kunitz's poem "The heart breaks and breaks and lives by breaking." He tells us "not to turn."

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Grief grabbed me today. I found an old notebook from my years old class in "writing the self." (Original Post) CTyankee Feb 2023 OP
How are you managing your grief? cilla4progress Feb 2023 #1
Oh, it's good to let mourning out. We never stop loving those we lost. CTyankee Feb 2023 #2
True cilla4progress Feb 2023 #4
Healing vibes on the way! 💓💓💓 SheltieLover Feb 2023 #3
The love stays put, right there in the heart, doesn't it? JudyM Mar 2023 #5
It never really goes away. Nor should it. I just emailed with my beloved sister in law's daughter CTyankee Mar 2023 #6

CTyankee

(65,302 posts)
2. Oh, it's good to let mourning out. We never stop loving those we lost.
Thu Feb 16, 2023, 02:54 PM
Feb 2023

Thank you. I feel held!

JudyM

(29,537 posts)
5. The love stays put, right there in the heart, doesn't it?
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 07:08 PM
Mar 2023

And your writing must have captured its essence. Wishing you soothing, loving memories to hold you through this.

CTyankee

(65,302 posts)
6. It never really goes away. Nor should it. I just emailed with my beloved sister in law's daughter
Fri Mar 3, 2023, 08:17 PM
Mar 2023

and we discussed her mother's life and how she meant so much to so many people.

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