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Nuffer

(40 posts)
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 10:25 AM Apr 2020

Being alone is something I have enjoyed for years

Social distancing is not a problem for me...I do like people but prefer my own company. Have never liked parties..big gatherings...noise..prefer to read..walk alone and basically hang with myself. I am in charge of my 8 year old grandson while is mom works long hours and school is closed for the rest if the year. We absolutely practice social distancing..wear our masks and gloves everywhere. For exercise we take his tortoise for walks away from people...my grandson rides his bike..does on line learning and basically we are fine. I am one of the "at risk" people so listening to doctors...scientists and those who KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT keeps me relatively safe..the hand washing is a must!
Cant understand the idiots who listen to the bigger idiot and his gaggle of idiots...please get rid of him and all Republicans in November...we can do it!!!!vote blue!

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Being alone is something I have enjoyed for years (Original Post) Nuffer Apr 2020 OP
Not loner per se; I always say Make myself 1 of my best friends so I can be better friend to others. Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2020 #1
LIBERATE THE WHITE HOUSE Harker Apr 2020 #2
Well said. Welcome to DU! B Stieg Apr 2020 #3
Yours sounds like a very satisfying life. BadgerMom Apr 2020 #4
Welcome to du! Heartstrings Apr 2020 #5
When in the HELL KS Toronado Apr 2020 #6
I spent 30+ yrs as an RN. I loved all my jobs, but am happy no longer caring for the public Thekaspervote Apr 2020 #7
Welcome to DU sellitman Apr 2020 #8
Your grandson's mom likely counts her blessings cilla4progress Apr 2020 #9
I feel sorry for people who cannot stand their own company Skittles Apr 2020 #10
This introvert has always avoided crowds like they had the plague. Marie Marie Apr 2020 #11
K&R Blue Owl Apr 2020 #12
Welcome to DU and the Loners' Group! backtoblue Apr 2020 #13
Same w/ me. I rather dread having to GO to work rather than working from home. CousinIT Apr 2021 #14
Being alone has never been a problem for me either. Dreampuff Apr 2021 #15

Bernardo de La Paz

(51,288 posts)
1. Not loner per se; I always say Make myself 1 of my best friends so I can be better friend to others.
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 10:35 AM
Apr 2020

BadgerMom

(2,990 posts)
4. Yours sounds like a very satisfying life.
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 01:01 PM
Apr 2020

And, as for the Republicans, I’m hoping November will be their Waterloo.

KS Toronado

(19,703 posts)
6. When in the HELL
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 01:25 PM
Apr 2020

are we going to see our politicians insist on everyone wear a mask in public? Countries with the lowest infection rates per population require this. Want to get back to work and see all businesses open back up, then call/email all your politicians....city/state/national. Oh and start wearing one in public yourself, set the example for other people. At the grocery store when a masked and non-masked person are both within ear range, I state "Thank you for thinking of others" to the masked person. Majority of responses have been one of shame to yes I should do my part, one I get the least is up yours undoubtedly from repugs. And the masked one will always say something nice in return.

Thekaspervote

(34,840 posts)
7. I spent 30+ yrs as an RN. I loved all my jobs, but am happy no longer caring for the public
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 01:27 PM
Apr 2020

Not because of Covid19, but for me, enough is enough and I too am good with my own company

cilla4progress

(25,983 posts)
9. Your grandson's mom likely counts her blessings
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 02:00 PM
Apr 2020

(good fortune) EVERY DAY for you!

As well as your grandson.

Welcome!

Skittles

(160,363 posts)
10. I feel sorry for people who cannot stand their own company
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 06:07 PM
Apr 2020

it's ridiculous, the amount of whining for being home for OMG, a few weeks

Marie Marie

(10,026 posts)
11. This introvert has always avoided crowds like they had the plague.
Tue Apr 21, 2020, 10:31 PM
Apr 2020

Solitude is my greatest gift to myself. But I can imagine this must be very difficult for the extroverts out there. Hang tough, this too shall pass.

CousinIT

(10,491 posts)
14. Same w/ me. I rather dread having to GO to work rather than working from home.
Sun Apr 18, 2021, 04:40 PM
Apr 2021

I have been alone all my life and was at my most miserable when living with others. I absolutely despise it. Hoping the employer will allow working at home at least some of the time when "the new normal" kicks in. I'm much more comfortable using Zoom for meetings and Teams for communication than face to face meetings in conference rooms and running around trying to find people and setting up in-person meetings with them. What a PITA.

I've never minded being alone. People pretty much aggravate and exhaust and worry me. I like them -- at a DISTANCE.

Dreampuff

(778 posts)
15. Being alone has never been a problem for me either.
Mon Apr 19, 2021, 08:02 PM
Apr 2021

Although I have never truly been just alone since I have a husband and pets. I love nature and going out for a walk and I bump into many of the same people on a regular basis and I love to chat with them. 10 minutes of pleasant conversation here and there and I am good to go. I don't even like to talk on the phone anymore and a nice Exchange in texts is perfect for me!

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