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sprinkleeninow

(20,594 posts)
Thu Jul 14, 2022, 12:20 AM Jul 2022

Found this regarding why some are comfortable being alone and perhaps its significance.

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'9 Reasons Why Highly Intelligent People Prefer To Be Alone'

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Found this regarding why some are comfortable being alone and perhaps its significance. (Original Post) sprinkleeninow Jul 2022 OP
I think a lot of this hits home captain queeg Jul 2022 #1
I think too that socializing IS over-emphasized here. sprinkleeninow Jul 2022 #4
Reminds me of this: ret5hd Jul 2022 #6
lol, such bs Shellback Squid Jul 2022 #2
We didn't all get stamped out by some infernal machine Warpy Jul 2022 #8
Reason why NJCher Jul 2022 #3
Spot on description Inkey Jul 2022 #5
All points sound like me - except #8 - not a night owl - a morning person northoftheborder Jul 2022 #7

captain queeg

(11,780 posts)
1. I think a lot of this hits home
Thu Jul 14, 2022, 12:32 AM
Jul 2022

Main difference is I seem to do my best early in the day. I wasn't really like that when I was younger, so that might be a learned trait. I think in the US socializing is over emphasized. I used to feel like there was something wrong with me because I liked to spend time alone. As I got older, I've learned to accept, myself as is.

sprinkleeninow

(20,594 posts)
4. I think too that socializing IS over-emphasized here.
Thu Jul 14, 2022, 12:51 AM
Jul 2022

Liking being 'alone' doesn't mean one is necessarily 'lonely' or 'lonesome'.

I assimilated into loner mode as I got older. Did my thing when younger. Was in with the in crowd. Big deal.

I don't reject being with others, simply feel more comfortable to be 'me' at my home a lot. Plus I'd rather be with my pet than with people mostly, truth be told. 😁

The 'orange bag of noxious gas' contaminated many facets of life that we were familiar with and relatively happy with. Lots has turned to crapola.

Warpy

(113,131 posts)
8. We didn't all get stamped out by some infernal machine
Thu Jul 14, 2022, 11:25 AM
Jul 2022

I've known asocial people who were up with the birds every morning and ready to pass out at 8 PM. I've known brilliant ones and others who were dumb as doorknobs.

Still, we're the people at work who tend to be off by ourselves and coming up with novel solutions to old problems. We're the ones who feign illness on "team building exercise" days, we just don't fit into the "yay team" model. And given our druthers, we spend free time alone doing various things from video games to hard science reading to woodworking, you name it.

I was a weaver, looms being distinctly non portable items and consequently requiring a lot of alone time to pursue it. I was also an RN, not the sort of occupation that attracts total misanthropes. It was a decent mix for me, YMMV.

NJCher

(38,253 posts)
3. Reason why
Thu Jul 14, 2022, 12:46 AM
Jul 2022

Is redundant. It’s either “reason” or “why,” but not both.

I tried to watch it but it was too slow. Needs to get the main points faster.

Inkey

(338 posts)
5. Spot on description
Thu Jul 14, 2022, 12:55 AM
Jul 2022

I am a technician that works with a variety of people and equipment, and this video captures
what I and other technicians deal with on a daily basis. Time to analyze and time to get things
done, is our talent.

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