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littlemissmartypants

(25,910 posts)
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 09:22 AM Wednesday

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and Happy Holidays, Loners! & 51 Things To Do On Christmas, Alone!

How are you enjoying your holidays? Or not?

If you're alone and want to touch base, I'm here to chat.

How about an As Me Anything?

Who wants to share a holiday recipe?

Or maybe a special holiday tradition?

Or a story? Or a joke? A song? Or a meme?

Or just maybe just ...?

Not up for any of that? That's OK. I'm here to listen if you want to chat. Lurkers are also welcome here. After all this is the Loners Group.



❤️pants

51 Things To Do On Christmas – Alone!

by Aletheia · Updated: Sep 6, 2024



https://lonerwolf.com/51-things-christmas-alone/

Snip...
Many of us wind up feeling lonely, isolated, and disillusioned because of our lack of close friendships or family members. And so we spend Christmas alone.

For those of us who have undergone some kind of spiritual awakening or existential crisis, Christmas time can be particularly painful. And that’s what I plan to cover in this article.

Table of contents
Christmas and Spiritual Awakening
The Joy of Spending Christmas Alone
51 Things to Do Alone on Christmas
What to Do if You Decide to (or Have to) Spend Christmas With Others

Snip...much more at the link:
https://lonerwolf.com/51-things-christmas-alone/



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Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and Happy Holidays, Loners! & 51 Things To Do On Christmas, Alone! (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Wednesday OP
What a great idea, Pants! SheltieLover Wednesday #1
Thanks for your reply, SL! Sounds like fun! ... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #5
Merry Christmas everyone! berniesandersmittens Wednesday #2
Thanks for your reply, berniesandersmittens! ... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #6
Thank you for reaching out SilverDawg Wednesday #3
My pleasure, SilverDawg! Thanks for your reply! ... littlemissmartypants Wednesday #7
My daughter and son-in-law are on a world scuba diving tour and my ex is in uncharted parts of Southern California :-) usonian Wednesday #4
Thanks for your reply, usonian! .. littlemissmartypants Wednesday #8

SheltieLover

(60,355 posts)
1. What a great idea, Pants!
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 09:31 AM
Wednesday

I'm reading a Chet & Bernie cozy mystery. This series is written from the point of view of Chet, the dog. Lol

Waiting for grandson to get up around 10am so we can ho to the Asian buffet for an early lunch before the covididiots swamp the place.

Making spaghetti later.

What are you up to today?

littlemissmartypants

(25,910 posts)
5. Thanks for your reply, SL! Sounds like fun! ...
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 11:55 AM
Wednesday

I'm not sure what I'm going to do. Right this minute I'm thinking about trying to eat. ❤️

berniesandersmittens

(11,718 posts)
2. Merry Christmas everyone!
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 09:35 AM
Wednesday

Sleeping in today. ( or lounging in, not yet out of bed lol )

Later i'm gonna cook a roast chicken for my son and grandfather.



littlemissmartypants

(25,910 posts)
6. Thanks for your reply, berniesandersmittens! ...
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 11:56 AM
Wednesday

I can relate to the still in bed. I hope you have a Merry Christmas! ❤️

SilverDawg

(861 posts)
3. Thank you for reaching out
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 09:35 AM
Wednesday

I’m cooking a roast and have a good red wine to go with it. AND I am enjoying being at home in solitude without the stress of driving somewhere and sitting and listening to chatter. I’ve finally realized I was more “alone” there than today just here at home in peace.

littlemissmartypants

(25,910 posts)
7. My pleasure, SilverDawg! Thanks for your reply! ...
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 11:58 AM
Wednesday

I like cooking, too. And solitude. Enjoy your day! ❤️

usonian

(14,651 posts)
4. My daughter and son-in-law are on a world scuba diving tour and my ex is in uncharted parts of Southern California :-)
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 11:08 AM
Wednesday

But we slide things around, given all the holidays and birthdays this general time of year.

“Time is but the stream I go a-fishing in. I drink at it; but while I drink I see the sandy bottom and detect how shallow it is. Its thin current slides away, but eternity remains.”
― Henry David Thoreau, Walden


My Mom introduced me to Thoreau at an early age, a radical thing to do.
And she and Dad both passed in 1999. She did around this time of year, so I welcomed the Millennium on the flight back,
Only the pleasant memories of them remain.

In the past, our paternal side of the family celebrated the Feast of Seven Fishes on the vigil of Christmas.
This year, I made cioppino for myself.

For the vigil.



https://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/articles/feast-of-the-seven-fishes

And don't forget the struffoli! Make in advance.



https://www.thepioneerwoman.com/food-cooking/recipes/a45522399/struffoli-recipe/


Mangia! 🇮🇹
Buon Natale.

The cioppino was. more than enough!

littlemissmartypants

(25,910 posts)
8. Thanks for your reply, usonian! ..
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 12:00 PM
Wednesday

I appreciate the sentiment. And the food looks yummy. Enjoy your day! ❤️

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