As seen on FB

[ismnotwasm]

[pansypoo53219]

1. party at your own risk, no matter what you wear.

[cinnabonbon]

2. Shifting the responsibility and blame back on the perps. I like it.

[ismnotwasm]

3. My SIL-- the one with 2 little daughters absolutely love this

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He doesn't wasn't his little girls to grow up in a world were they'd be blamed for their own rapes over what they wear-- or anything else. He knows where the blame lies; with the ones that rape. He's one of those 'gentle Giant' types, and he adores his family. He's a great guy.

[cinnabonbon]

9. Gentle giants are usually the best kind of guys. Your daughter is lucky!

I agree that it's important to work to change the world now, so that the next generation doesn't have to grow up with this toxic victim-blaming bullshit. The first and most important step is to remind people where the blame lies. Once that sticks, it's easier to get them to see how messed up it is to imply that the survivor is to blame for being assaulted.

But anyway, your story about your SIL reminded me of that hugely successful "don't be that guy" campaign in Canada (?). Do you remember the one I am talking about?

[Tuesday Afternoon]

4. radical and yet Not Radical.

Old fashioned even but, to take the law into own hands is the very definition of radical. So, it is radical in the traditional sense.

[ismnotwasm]

5. Yeah I caught that

Infused with a bit of macho-- but whatever it takes. Dad's new to the idea of rape culture are limited in a wa as to what their responses will be. Falling back on the 'and I'll kick you ass' the coping skill they have. Of course I have the same initial reaction so it's not limited to Dads I suppose

[Tuesday Afternoon]

6. Mother's instinct can be even more ferocious than any father's. Note the Animal Kingdom for

witness of that phenomenon.

[redqueen]

7. Gonna have to check out that tumblr

Thanks for posting this

I just posted a nice tumblr post I saw about white privilege in GD. I hope it doesn't get bogged down with shit stirring.

[ismnotwasm]

8. Anything "privilege"

Gets bogged down on bullshit. Usually by what I suspect are libertarian trolls-- but not always

[redqueen]

10. I expected it'd get the usual backlash but fucksake...

[ismnotwasm]

11. Weirdness

What do you say to shit like that? I mean That doesn't result in alert stalking and enforced 'breaks'? Because apparently borderline racist bullshit is perfectly acceptable.