History of Feminism
Related: About this forumMansplaining, explained: 'Just ask an expert. Who is not a lady'(interview)
Rebecca Solnit is a prolific author (she's working now on her sixteenth and seventeenth books), historian, activist and a contributing editor to Harper's. Her most recent book, Men Explain Things to Me, is a collection of Solnit's essays, including the title piece that launched a million memes. Solnit, on the road in Seattle, took some time to explain "mansplaining", writing and how the post-Isla Vista misogyny conversation is a little like climate denialism.
JESSICA VALENTI: How do you feel about being considered the creator of the concept of "mansplaining"? Your now-famous essay which really gave women language to talk about the condescending interactions they've had with men certainly gave birth to the term, but you write in the book that you didn't actually make up the word.
REBECCA SOLNIT: A really smart young woman changed my mind about it. I used to be ambivalent, worrying primarily about typecasting men with the term. (I have spent most of my life tiptoeing around the delicate sensibilities of men, though of course the book Men Explain Things to Me is what happens when I set that exhausting, doomed project aside.) Then in March a PhD candidate said to me, No, you need to look at how much we needed this word, how this word let us describe an experience every woman has but we didn't have language for.
And that's something I'm really interested in: naming experience and how what has no name cannot be acknowledged or shared. Words are power. So if this word allowed us to talk about something that goes on all the time, then I'm really glad it exists and slightly amazed that not only have I contributed about a million published words to the conversation but maybe, indirectly, one new word.
More: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jun/06/mansplaining-explained-expert-women
Control-Z
(15,684 posts)pretty much cover it. It's prefect that way.
boston bean
(36,530 posts)Control-Z
(15,684 posts)its meaning. How about that? Hating something they don't even understand!
intaglio
(8,170 posts)Women just don't realise how much men understand about the real workings of (insert subject here) because, of course we have vast experience of (whatever it is the woman is describing) ...
obvious is obvious
chervilant
(8,267 posts)"mansplaining" to a handful of this forum's members...
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)You know, because it seems to much more real and important when a man says it.
redqueen
(115,173 posts)when it's a woman doing the speaking.
Z_I_Peevey
(2,783 posts)thank you.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Well put. Especially because ignoring the problem will doom us all in the end.
De Leonist
(225 posts)Surely you teach the boys and young men in your families not to offer unsolicited advice to women on pain of severe fonging.
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)I don't have to. I taught them to respect women by talking to them. I've certainly never respected anyone who beat me.
And I doubt you will find anyone else here who threatens "fonging" the boys and young men in their lives.
De Leonist
(225 posts)I didn't expect anyone to actually answer that question seriously ?
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)The thread was kicked up yesterday, so I just saw your post. You would be surprised how many anti-feminists say that crap with all seriousness around here.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)ismnotwasm
(42,484 posts)I was just told it is used to stop conversation or something.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Of mansplaining yet still... ???
mercuryblues
(15,292 posts)this mansplaining translated for me.
1 Street harassment does not exist.
2 Women like it.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)She should lighten up and like it. She is doing it wrong
ismnotwasm
(42,484 posts)They're pissed because the world is slowly changing, women are gaining power and aren't shutting up, here or anywhere else. We have incredible allies in incredible men.
The dinosaurs don't see the light of the comet.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)The anti-feminists are experiencing a serious backlash.