It's cute how some people act so aggrieved that they can't post in HoF. (HOF THREAD)

[redqueen]

As if anyone is stopping them from declaring whatever opinion of theirs which they feel is so important in GD.

There aren't many places on the net where women can discuss these issues without the standard detailing and disruption tactics being used. (And of course I don't need to list examples of these tactics because *that's how common they are*,)

It says something that some people consider it their right to impose on any conversation they want, and portray any inability to do so as an outrage. It's common knowledge that feminists face some of the most virulent harassment in online spaces, so it certainly should come as no surprise that so many trolls (and sock puppets) show up here and disrupt.

The ones who post about how proud they are for being banned, call it a badge of honor, etc. are even more transparent.

[randys1]

1. Surely you dont mean misogynists are annoyed that they cant bust

into your front room and inform you that Women have it too easy and what else?

[PeaceNikki]

2. it's shitty how many people are opposed to the idea of safe zones

And compare DU to Nazi Germany for stopping others from trolling around harassing people about topics they are passionate about.

[redqueen]

3. The ignorance paraded here lately on the issue of free speech in general is fucking shocking.

There was a time on DU when posts containing poor grammar and spelling earned the DUers posting them the side-eye from others. We dialed that back, understandably, but this consistent failure to grasp basic political concepts still gets the serious side-eye from me.

[BainsBane]

14. They have no problem with their own safe haven groups

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One of which is devoted to denouncing the evils of certain feminsts on DU or feminism more broadly, the horrible oppression of the upper-middle class white male, and a juvenille fixaton on girly mags.

[jeff47]

4. You chicks just don't understand how hard it is to be a white male!!

I mean, you're sitting there and all this privilege gets dumped on you. It just gets everywhere, like thousands of pudding cups dumped all over your head.

And then you have to go tell everyone else what to do, and what they feel and think about every subject. (Wait...why am I telling that minority woman how to do her job? Oh, missed some between my toes.)

Ugh. It's just such a bother.

[intheflow]

5. The only place I have ever felt harassed on DU is in HoF.

I am an ardent feminist but took issue with some stereotypical, broad brush slam of men and was attacked and told I was no ally of women. I call injustice when I see it on all sides of gender debates. NO ONE deserves to be attacked based solely on their gender. HoF has NEVER been a safe zone for me - and it should be because I am more than an ally, I'm a fighter for gender equality, I have marched and protested and educated people on the subject throughout the country. You don't want people harassing you, try looking in the mirror at how you treat strangers who visit the group.

[seabeyond]

6. I am sorry you feel that way. I would like to see the attack

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You endured to better understand . We often disagree. Not so much as a whole but individual beliefs and experience. We are generally pretty good at disagreeing... Respectfully. Seldom in silence.

[AAO]

38. gasp!

[seabeyond]

42. yup. i know. and still we keep reaching out. we are just that kind of people.

[AAO]

44. I'm sorry, but I need to leave. This is literally killing my sides.

[seabeyond]

47. you probably do need ot leave. probably should have figured that one out before the first post.

[redqueen]

52. Ooooohkay. Buh bye now thanks for stopping by.

[seabeyond]

63. i love this one. and it fits well. nt

[redqueen]

7. Link?

[intheflow]

21. It was a long time ago,

early in my DU career. 2004 or 2005, probably. I'm not sure those years are searchable any more so no, I can't provide a link.

[redqueen]

27. Well that wasn't in HoF then. HoF didn't exist back then.

Heck, at that time, I was still a liberal feminist who woulda got my ass handed to me in a place like this.

[seabeyond]

28. i was thinking the same. i had other issues on my plate and i KNOW you were not all over it. lol. nt

[redqueen]

30. LOL!

Shut up!

[seabeyond]

34. ah ha. that is funny. nt

[intheflow]

29. Yes, someone else pointed this out to me downthread.

My apologies to HoF for my senior moment, and the mischaracterization of your group ethos. I may start lurking and see how you all are. I have hope now that this will be a place I can hang out.

[redqueen]

31. Oh honey, no apology necessary.

I've had my head bitten off by a few feminists on this site over the years, too. Nobody in here though.

[Squinch]

36. The mistake is understandable. The misinformation and slams about HoF are so frequent, I am sure

many people attribute things to the group that are not accurate. I am glad you will be lurking. Enjoy, and looking forward to seeing you step in when you feel like it.

[BainsBane]

45. At least you acknowledged the mistake

I appreciate that.

[intheflow]

62. Egads!

If I couldn't admit when I'm wrong I'd be no better than a Republican!

[jollyreaper2112]

8. Yeah

Commenting because this showed up on the main thread list.

There's more or an echo chamber with a selection pressure for doctrinal purity than any kind of outreach or constructive activity. It's one of the failure modes of advocacy groups. There are certainly MRA types out there looking to tangle and what usually happens is a pig fight between the loudest on both sides and the result is nothing really changes.

Progress isn't made preaching to the choir but in reaching people who are ignorant of or ambivalent concerning an issue. Give them a reason to take your side.

It's like with the pig fights over Obama. He's a means to an end, not an end. The point wasn't to elect him, it was to have our man in office enacting a progressive agenda. It doesn't matter if he's handsome, takes great pictures or gives you a warm fuzzy. That's just celebrity hero worship. But a criticism of Obama as a progressive becomes conflated with an attack on the man and all hell breaks loose. Nothing is accomplished.

It's actually pretty demoralizing to watch.

[seabeyond]

10. intheflow was talking about something specific. your post is only about vague accusations and

insults. really not productive nor does it really provide any ability for communications or understanding. you have already made an empirical statement of condemnation.

what are you looking for? agreement? what would be your reason to come in here and diss the group?

[redqueen]

11. We post plenty in GD to do "outreach". This group is specifically for people who already agree

on most issues related to feminism. It isn't for "outreach".

[BainsBane]

25. I see

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Have you delivered this message to the men's group? Or is just women who have no right to find support from one another?

The attacks against us are invariably personal, unless of course someone is objecting to the horrors of men being prosecuted for rape or that women here have the nerve to post about issues someone else decides are insignificant, like domestic and sexual violence. Here is one space we don't have to justify our presence on this board. Why is that so offensive to you? Are you running around telling off all the other safe haven groups, or is just HOF women that have no right to choose the parameters of our own discussions?

I would never post most of what I do in HOF to the community at large. Why? Because I don't care to be told I brought on myself behaviors like intrusive sexual fantasites, shaming about my sexuality, or physical abuse. I don't want to hear about how much more important an abuser is that myself, and how his legal rights trump my speech. That is what would happen if I posted what I do here in GD. I would be ridiculed and attacked endlessly. What exactly is so important about opening myself up to that? The very basic principle that the personal is political is something that many people on this site don't get.

Here is a fact. If we post in GD, we are told off for it. Now we are told off because we post in HOF. At what point are we allowed to speak? Or is ridicule of people whose ideas are so resented by people whose version of liberalism excludes us so much more important than our concerns and well-being? They consider the very subjects we discuss entirely illegitimate, subjects that should not be allowed in public because it might make some man feel bad. I have no obligation to spend all my time in deference to such people.

If you don't like echo chambers, go to Yahoo or some such place. You don't seem to have any problem restricting Republicans, yet you are angry that women have a safe space where. This is 2014, not 1914. That you should find the mere existence of a feminist group objectionable in this century is unfortunate, but the problem is yours entirely.

[BainsBane]

15. No one is attacked her based on their gender

They are attacked based on ideas, based on hostility to feminism and promotion of sexism and misogyny. I'd like to see links pointing to this man hating you claim is so pervasive.

The fact we have so many active posters who are male indicates your assessment is wrong. If we attacked all men, they would not be here. Did you see this thread? http://www.democraticunderground.com/125545843 It was posted by a man. Has anyone every posted a thread to thank you for standing up for their rights?

If you don't want people harassing you, why don't you look in the mirror at how you treat people in this group?

[seaglass]

17. That is so strange. You know you can do a search this group and search for all posts in it by

a specific poster?

I don't see any posts by you from Sep 2013 until today. The post on Sep 2013 had no replies. Are you sure it was this group? Maybe I did the search wrong. Or perhaps there was an argument in GD with someone from this group? We all are individuals y'know.

Search term(s):
Post author: intheflow
Forum or Group: History of Feminism
Post type: All posts and replies
Start date: January 26 2011
End date: June 26 2014
Sort by: Date
Edit search / New search

Reply The only place I have ever felt harassed on DU is in HoF. intheflow 1:56 PM History of Feminism
Reply I think this woman sounds like a realist. intheflow Sep 2013 History of Feminism
Reply The Rebecca West quote is incomplete. intheflow Mar 2013 History of Feminism
Reply Wow. Those were powerful photos. intheflow Dec 2012 History of Feminism
Reply Sexist AND Distasteful. intheflow Jun 2012 History of Feminism

[intheflow]

19. The incident was early in my DU life.

Probably 2004 or 2005, or whenever it was that the group was established. I would have visited here the minute the group became available, particularly back then when I was on pretty much 24/7.

[seabeyond]

20. different group. different people. thank you for letting us know how long ago it was.

that clears it up.

[intheflow]

23. You know, you're one of the people I like elsewhere on DU.

It would be good to know HoF was welcoming now. Maybe I'll start lurking here and test the waters again.

[seabeyond]

24. and more... good to hear intheflow. i have always enjoyed your posts.

good.

[seaglass]

22. I don't think HoF was created until 2012 on DU3. There was the Feminist group in existence before

then and I know there were Feminist groups on DU2 but I never participated.

I'm sorry you had a bad experience wherever it was. It looks like you have had a few posts in the past in this group that posters appreciated.

[intheflow]

26. Ah, maybe it was another group!

That would make post completely invalid! Thank you for clarifying that for me - and my sincere apologies to the HoF group for the mischaracterization.

[BainsBane]

40. This group didn't exist then

So that could not have been where you were subject to mistreatment.
If you can think of only one example from ten years ago, it can hardly be pervasive. If I'm going to be called a man-hater, I expect to see evidence that I myself voiced such positions, or at least others from HOF. That you saw someone, whose name you don't even recall, say something ten years ago hardly justifies your harsh comments above.

[redqueen]

55. Yeah... I'm so fucking sick of the 'man-hater' canard.

I forgot that card got played. Sigh.

[donco]

9. What HoF? Nt

[redqueen]

12. Really?

Really?

[BainsBane]

13. they are aggrieved because they can't come in here

to tells us how reprehensible they think they are, or tell us that "real feminism" involves subsuming our concerns to their own and never having the audacity to disagree with them. Because a "true feminist" never disagrees with a man. She knows to say in her place. Real feminists understand that the only issue that matters is abortion becaue our only purpose in life is to provide sex for men and get rid of any pregnancies they find inconvenient.

[redqueen]

16. Yeah.

Real feminists know that making men and patriarchy-loving women uncomfortable is, like, a super mean thing to do, and it's totes important to prioritise their feelings above, y'know, that consciousness raising stuff (whatever that is lol).

If we're not nice enough they'll just say 'well fuck you, then!' and stop helping to destroy the patriarchy and that's, like, totes reasonable for allies and people who just looooove women to do! I mean, like, their mothers are women! So they are obviously completely aware of all feminist issues so... we should listen to them!

[seabeyond]

18. and legalize prostitution, ya know. i am reading now where we are bad because

we are not participating in ALL womens issue threads in all groups and forum. that would truly be exhausting. though we are blamed IF we participate in one in GD or even in hof.

[JustAnotherGen]

41. I noticed that sea

It's like - we are damned if we do and damned if we don't.

And frankly - I see a lot of turd in the punch bowl posts by the usual suspects in GD (as an example) so I won't even click on it when I see the OP's name. There are some names I just hit the trash button on and they shouldn't be taking it so personally.

It's the internet. It's like - they take HOF 'personally'. Kind of sad and sick if you ask me.

[gollygee]

32. LOL

"Real Feminism" only involves women's liberation issues that make women more sexually available.

[BainsBane]

33. That's it in a nutshell

Thanks for putting is so succinctly. I need to save that. You are completely right.

[redqueen]

37. This. nt

[BainsBane]

35. Don't forget accusations of "swarming"

You know, if more than one woman disagrees with someone, that consitutues a swarm. "Real feminists" know to hold their tongue and not agree with other women on feminist issues.

Now it seems they object to being deprived of the "swarm."

[redqueen]

39. LOL... you just reminded me of one of the banned troll's terms.

Referred to feminists who disagreed with him and had the audacity to let him know as "the rabid fempack"

That'd make a good name for an all-female group

[BainsBane]

43. Someone called me rabid this weekend

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because I insisted c... meant what the dictionary says it does. I sited both the Australian and US dictionaries. Although the thread had nothing to do with Australia, the OP kept invoking that country to justify his own use of the world. I have now twice posted directly to him the entry from the Australian Macquarie dictionary, and he has predicably ignored both posts.

[redqueen]

49. Goddess that is the stupidest defense of misogynist slurs.

I usjally don't even bother arguing with people who stoop to that level.

You might enjoy this...
http://freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/2014/05/10/how-to-drive-a-brit-crazy/

[BainsBane]

57. That pretty much sums it up

Interesting how so many use the same arguments.

[Violet_Crumble]

64. I saw that post and wanted to correct you on a bit, but didn't want to detract from the main point..

The main point being that usage and meaning of the word here doesn't justify its use in the US, where its use is always offensive and a slur against women.

What I wanted to correct you on was that Australia doesn't have a national dictionary, and that the word does have more than one meaning here. I don't have access to the Macquarie dictionary, but I have my trusty Australian Oxford Dictionary in front of me and it gives two meanings. One is 'female genitalia', and the other is 'unpleasant or stupid person'. But I hear people using it as a greeting to their friends, and even though its used like that in some situations, it's still the sort of word that I'd never use at work or in front of my parents or anything, not that I say it much at all, apart from a few weeks ago when I flung it at the hardcore right-wing government after they handed down the most draconian Budget I've ever seen. But when I posted in the Australia group about the budget or anywhere else at DU, I don't use it because there's an American audience here.

[MadrasT]

46. Either an all-female group or a missile.

As in...

The AGM-114 Hellfire
The AGM-124 Wasp
The AGM-182 Rabid Fempack

(I know death weapons aren't really funny but it still makes me giggle.)

[seabeyond]

48. omg... with the world misogyny, that would be a brilliant military move. lol.

then the men around the world would pee themselves.

too fuggin funny

[redqueen]

50. Yeah I get ya :)

(Feminists are mostly anti-war so only a moron would take your mention of missiles as somehow seriously objectionable.)

[MadrasT]

51. ALERT ALERT ALERT

HoF IS ADVOCATING FOR ARMED INSURRECTION OMG THEY WANT TO KILL TEH MENZ OMG MISANDREEEEEEEE!!1!!!1elevens!!!

[seabeyond]

53. i even thought that one thru before posting what i did. i decided i would throw it to the wind,

regardless of the risk i take. too funny

[MadrasT]

54. LOL so did I, I had all kinds of disclaimers in there originally

and then I thought "fuck it if people are that dumb I don't even care anymore".

[seabeyond]

56. lol lol. ya. that. nt

[JI7]

58. i wonder if they realize how much they sound like the Gun Nuts

oh, look at me i'm such a tough MANNNNNNNNNn with my GUNNNNNNNNNNSSSSSSS............

[seabeyond]

60. back from a break? or is it only that i was on one, lol....

and a lack of memory. anyway, good seeing you.

[KitSileya]

59. If they dislike that we have safe spaces for minorities,

they can take it up with those who have created such a toxic culture in the mainspace that women, people of color, LGBTQIA people feel they need a safe space in which to support each other!

[Warpy]

61. Try being atheist or agnostic

That group is the biggest lightning rod for trolls here.

Add to that I am also a feminist, free speech advocate, supporter of LGBT civil rights, and battle internalized as well as external racism it's no wonder some days I feel an urge to eat some worms.

The majority has always had a terrible problem with any minority, especially minorities of thought.

[Ptah]

65. FYI

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[redqueen]

67. Some people *really* need to get over their obsession with this group.

Go outside. Read a book. Volunteer at a shelter.

[BainsBane]

75. Why read a group they consider so offensive?

There are a couple of groups on DU that tend to make me angry, so I don't read them. Problem solved. You have to make a point of coming into HOF to read. It's not in your face like in GD.

[redqueen]

78. I used to read the men's group. Back when DU3 first started I think many of us expected

that that group would go in a more progressive direction.

I also tried actually conversing there (about topics such as 'Parental Alienation Syndrome' and why it's a load of abuser-enabling bullshit - wasted effort)... but I've had it hidden for a while now.

[BainsBane]

80. They blocked me

which is well and good. The place got me fuming anyway. I know they talk a lot of shit about us, so I just don't read it. Juries hide nothing in there anyway, not even the comment by a now banned member that 95 percent of women are disgusting. I leave that group alone. It would be nice if they returned the favor.

[redqueen]

82. No shit, but that's never been their style.

Back when DU 3 first started one person there got in the habit of copycatting OPs from this group for them to ridicule. Kind of a clear sign there.

[BainsBane]

83. Last I looked

There was still a fair bit of that.

[redqueen]

84. Oh Jesus

A lot of the old ones were deleted by the one who posted them after the hosts decided to try a truce. I guess they might as well start up again, right? No use pretending

[BainsBane]

85. No pretending whatsoever

Unless you confront them on it, but that's another story.

[caraher]

66. And believe it or not... the jury results!

On Fri Jun 27, 2014, 11:20 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

It's cute how some people act so aggrieved that they can't post in HoF. (HOF THREAD)
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This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Disruptive Meta. Whining about DU. And the worthless"hosts" obviously won't do anything about it.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Fri Jun 27, 2014, 11:32 AM, and the Jury voted 0-7 to LEAVE IT.

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[redqueen]

69. Oh, I believe it.

I doubt anyone in this group is surprised at all.

[2banon]

68. Unbelievably, this OP was alerted on. 0-7 to leave it alone.

I couldn't believe the alert's complaint that the op was whiny. I've seen so many of those kind of alerts all over the place recently. I don't get it. btw..I was jury #3

On Fri Jun 27, 2014, 11:20 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

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[redqueen]

70. Thanks. I find it entirely believable.

The idea of feminists and male allies having a safe space to discuss issues amongst themselves is too much for some to handle.

[seabeyond]

71. ha. look at you three. this is nice. and thank you for a look see at an alert. nt

[LanternWaste]

72. I think I know who it was that alerted: one of these guys...

I think I know who it was that alerted: one of the Alert Monkeys whose righteousness knows no limits, and whose courage is beyond the ken of the merely mortal. Maybe someone who regularly uses the term RadFem to indicate he usually has to wait ten to fifteen seconds for his Friday evening date to buffer...




I say all this with the utmost respect for the strength of his convictions (three in last year, so rumor has it).

[seabeyond]

73. I think the flood gate of rw troll alerting May be happening with what I am seeing on dicussionist

I think this has opened door... Possibly in the abuse and they may be doing on both sites. The last couple days or more the alerting is being done in a manner that is not a norm

[redqueen]

74. !!!!!!

Maybe someone who regularly uses the term RadFem to indicate he usually has to wait ten to fifteen seconds for his Friday evening date to buffer

[BainsBane]

77. That's our fan club.

[BainsBane]

76. Now, now. I'm sure they are acting out of dedication to anti-censorship

[mercuryblues]

79. I missed

a lot, but not really. They keep playing the same song over and over. I got a new one for them.

&feature=kp

If anyone should be upset about not being able to post here, it is me. My net service decided to break down, a few days before we left on vacation. I decided to wait until I got back to deal with it. Good thing. Their service coordination leaves something to be desired. Anyhow They finally got here today and replaced most of the hardware. Hopefully it will last another 10+ years before it needs fixing. Missed you all.

[redqueen]

81. Ugh isn't that so aggravating?

I live in a small town and it took months to get mine fixed the last time it went out. They kept missing appointments or showing up with no notice, it was flipping nuts.

Anyway, good to have you back

[mercuryblues]

86. yup

crazy. The guy was here on time. It just took a week. The funniest part is, we found out that we have new neighbors from him. He installed their dish, while we were at my husband's family reunion. If we were home, he could have set them up and fixed us at the same time. We knew the house was for sale, just didn't know that it was sold. I hope the family is nice. My youngest just hopes there is a kid there his age. Next Friday he will be 13.

I don't even live in a small town. I live in the outskirts of a small town.

Even missing reading DU for over a week, the song remains the same. All the women and *some* men in HoF are just not nice enough to agree with. You know 'cause if they were nicer they would be in support 110%. If you believe that.....I have a bridge to sell you.

I did get to read a little on my phone. The fuck wars..WTF was that all about. People don't want others to say fuck, but the c-word is fine and dandy?

[ismnotwasm]

87. They twisted the whole thing around

It started as a discussion about bigoted language--a post by The Rude Pundit was hidden--and next thing you know, you have hysterical screams of "censorship" and people trying to channel George Carlin. (Wince) The irony was so thick you could cut it. Then it turned into defense of the 'c' world-- RedQueen and BainsBain's can fill you in better, as I trashed every single thread.

It was on of the most epic temper tantrums I've ever seen over language of DU. People condemning censorship while trying to use censorship. And they remain completely clueless

[mercuryblues]

88. what some

people call censorship, I call manners.