Fuck it. Just fuck it

[mercuryblues]

Fuck all the whiners and criers because they can not ram their opinions down our throats.

Fuck all the apologists who allow the pity party of; Oh I was just so nice and they were mean to me.

Fuck it

Just fuck it

because I know where this will eventually lead.... Embolden to be even more outrageous and abusive. Then cheered on. Then more embolden. Then defended.

Same old shit, different name.


Been there done that.

[seabeyond]

1. fuck it. ..... lol, LOVE you, woman. remember....

tone.

[seabeyond]

2. oh, btw. i was having so much fun with your fuck it. i forgot to ask. what is up? nt

[mercuryblues]

4. Having a great day

My youngest got his lower braces today. The Ortho staff loves him, almost as much as his 5th grade teacher did. Right now I am sitting on my back porch chillin. Wishing that I remembered to put the case of beer I bought last week in the fridge. My neighbor's dog has decided to join me. Last time the dog was here for 2 days.


Ayup. Just fuck it. Lot of long time members with low post counts all of a sudden making a bee line for here. How much you wanna bet that even though it took them years to get 300/400/500 posts they will have well over a 1000 by the end of Oct?

[daschess1987]

8. Don't worry.

Those of us with "low post counts" realize how much better you are. I hear nonsense from republicans all the time about how terrible liberals are, and then I come here to take it from people like you. It would be nice to be treated as an equal somewhere, especially by people who supposedly hold the same views, but it is common to need a group of people to look down on and treat like shit. Just out of curiosity, do you think you became part of the "liberal elite" that right-wingers piss and moan about when you reached 1000 posts?

[seabeyond]

9. do you have any idea why the poster may have said what she did? have you considered

she might have a valid reason for saying what she did?

see? questions. one asks questions instead of flinging accusations and insults.

this is a protected group. feminists. we take a lot of shit from a lot of people, doing what we do. discussing feminist issues.

ya, it would be grand in your progressiveness if you jumped on board.

unfortunately, OFTEN.... often. not rarely. not occasionally. but OFTEN we have men beeline to our group, HOF and throw out insults, ect... at 1, 2, 3, and so post count.

now. why would a newbie, who does not know the site, immediately run to this group to insult us?

do you think maybe we in this group might have a valid reason to be wary of those with low posts counts, immediately coming into this group, to insult and disrupt us, derail conversation?

i am not gonna jump to conclusions. i am gonna assume you took this personally and your go to reaction is to lash out.

[daschess1987]

12. Look, I'm sick of people acting like they're better than other people for any reason.

The other poster specifically denigrated people with "low post counts," which led to my response. There are plenty of interesting and informative posts on this site, and some really nice people, but I won't just sit back and get treated like dirt by people who think they're superior because of an R behind their name or some people here because they have more posts. Here's a suggestion for you and the other poster: since you two don't seem to think anyone with less than 1000 posts matters, just ignore us. What we have to say doesn't matter to you anyway, so pretend we're not even here. You don't have to go out of your way to try to make us feel unwelcome at this site.

[seabeyond]

14. so... you double down and give no consideration or thought to what i said? now you are going to

create a story for me..... assign it to me... totally clueless on my position seeing how i merely asked you a couple question to help push you to greater understanding?

no thanks.

you might do a little reflecting on the insulting two posts of yours, instead of pointing the finger toward others.

no one was talking to you. you took it personal. then spent your time posting assumptions and conclusions lacking information.

fuck the low post count. i would say the greater issue is your inability to address an issue in balance, fairness and knowledge.

[daschess1987]

22. I usually enjoy reading your posts.

And you're right about my taking it personally. I probably would have more posts here if there weren't so many people who are down on "newbies." That's my issue. It's kind of difficult for me to worry about someone else's current issue when they act as if my point of view doesn't matter anyway. I'm pretty sure we'll both vote Democrat, and that's really all that matters. So go ahead and make sure the other "newbies" know their place if you want. I'm not going to play that.

[seabeyond]

23. i do not go after newbies for the sake of them being newbies. i go after what people say.

that does not matter if a person has 50 posts or 50k. if you read my posts, then you know this.

i am a very.... welcoming person.

anyway. i have no beef with you that i can see. i addressed the issues in your post i had, and that had nothing to do with your post count.

peace

out

[daschess1987]

25. Peace, seabeyond...

Apologies to you and the person who started this thread. I have been taking things personally lately. Recently on Facebook, my niece's husband posted a picture with two refrigerators: one full that said "no job" and one with nothing that said "with a job." Well, I don't have a job and had nothing but condiments in my refrigerator at the time. There are plenty of other examples and reasons why I'm a bit touchy these days. I'll try to work on it. That's really all any of us can do. Best wishes.

[seabeyond]

27. sigh....

and that is a very hard place to be. i totally hear you on that. thank you.... for being receptive.

[MerryBlooms]

24. We've all been newbies,

but if you find people are telling you time and time again it's you, it might be you. :/

[daschess1987]

26. It seems to be the go-to response for some around here

when they disagree with someone with less than a thousand posts. I've seen plenty of other people who were treated as less than welcome, but I love the site and have learned a lot here. There are some really nice people here as well. It does appear that I took it too personally in this instance, and I did apologize. Maybe it is 100% all on me in every instance. Maybe. I respectfully ask you to consider the possibility that--just maybe--it is not.

[VanillaRhapsody]

29. you don't seem to understand how often the opposite of what you are saying YOU are is true

by doing so....you are defending the harrassers....

This Poster was talking bout those WITH low post counts and suddenly extreme positions....specifically she said those with "long-term status" but low counts.

I just looked at your profile...you have only been here two years.....that is not the issue.

[mercuryblues]

31. I have

responded directly to several of your posts, but you have not replied to me. You have not asked me why I wrote that. You have not answered any of my questions. You have not edited out the B word.

Would you care to address any of my concerns?

You seemed to be offended by what I posted, yet avoid to interacting with me.

[daschess1987]

32. I'm not avoiding you.

"Fuck it. Just fuck it." I was reading through the latest threads and could relate to those words. It does get tiresome being judged, and I do get offended by it--for any reason (including how many damned posts I have made here). I will edit the word that offended you. Other than that, I'm going to have to say: Fuck it. Just fuck it.

[daschess1987]

33. "Fuck it. Just fuck it."

I agree, but I'll edit the word that offended you.

[mercuryblues]

34. thank you

I can safely say. I wasn't just me who found it offensive.

You are in the HOUSE of FEMINISM. Do you think feminists like a derogatory term that is often used as a descriptor for females? Then you claimed I was being derogatory, based on 1/2 of a sentence. Not the whole sentence, just 1/2 of it. Besides that I let it known in my first request usage of that word is not allowed in here.

The irony of it, you validated my OP. We have had an influx of posters, who have been members for years, with low post counts all of a sudden coming in here to stir shit and disrupt. This comes after several feminists in forum have received rape threats. The people who did that have been banned, but low and behold all of a sudden there are dormant accounts that are suddenly very active and making a beeline for here - disrupting, getting a pass from the jury system. Hence, my fuck it.

You came in looking for a fight based on 1/2 of a sentence.

There are times when you just have to throw your hands in the air, do a little dance and say fuck it. Have a laugh and re-energize. take a deep breath and alter your perspective.

IOW fuck it.

Now for your niece's husband. The same could apply. You now know that he is a cold-hearted, pompous jerk. Not worthy of expending emotional energy on. No Christmas card for him.

I do hope that not only do you find a job, but you find one that pays well.

[daschess1987]

35. I completely understand and sincerely apologize for that...

In my defense, I was going through the latest threads and did not realize where I was posting. I just read the thread title and related to it. Then I felt belittled again (by the reference to low post counts)--perhaps through no one's fault but mine. I was raised by feminists and remember calling some little a-hole a male chauvinist pig in second grade. That was the worst insult I knew, and I learned it from Mom. It was the first time I called anyone a name, but it was funny because he didn't know what the hell to say after that. On an even more personal note, my life would make a lot more sense had I been born with two X chromosomes. Please realize that my use of the word was not in any way misogynistic. Right or wrong, it is slang for complaining, and that is the only way I meant the word.

[seabeyond]

15. btw, you are just kinda proving the OP's point.

[VanillaRhapsody]

30. Exactly....with an attitude!

low post count and chip on shoulder!

[mercuryblues]

19. Well

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degenerate posters with low post count

LOL. Now that is funny. Did you bother to find out why I would say this?

Lot of long time members with low post counts all of a sudden making a bee line for here.

or did you jump to poutrage in less than 3 seconds?

You are the one being disruptive here. Have you edited out the offensive word I asked you to? I have given you over three hours to show a good faith effort. Are you going to edit it out or leave it there?

Me, I was having some fun, while reflecting. If you want to know why all you have to do is ask.

So Here I am, taking my own advice.

Where does this come from? I have never seen you post here, never saw a post by you in this protected group before. But here you are saying I am treating you, specifically, like dirt?

BTW I never said people with low post counts don't matter. I said

long time members with low post counts all of a sudden making a bee line for here.

You are the one that said that. Not me. If you really want to know what I meant by it, ask me. Don't invent the reason behind it and assign it to me.

[VanillaRhapsody]

28. Why suddenly so chatty and quick to take offense to boot?

that sounds suspect to me too

[mercuryblues]

13. I

am guessing you did not realize you were in the HISTORY of FEMINISM group. It is a safe haven for feminists. Using the B word is not allowed in here. Can you please edit it out. - See this is me giving you a chance here.

So will you say ahah and edit it out or will you double down on it?



So throw my ass in jail for saying fuck it, when several times a day low count posters come in here, insult and stir shit up and, use derogatory terms. The jury let's it stand. So yeah Just fuck it. Then the posters throws a pity party for themselves, they are the one that are aggrieved.


So yeah. Context helps, but I did not post this in GD. You came here to pounce on something you did not know anything about or cared enough to know. You could have even asked?

[seabeyond]

17. ya know. lol. and here we are, the reasonable and generous. lol. nt

[mercuryblues]

20. Go figure

[MadrasT]

3. Yep. It is the only reason I don't completely abandon ship.

It is like when I was a kid and my parents told me to ignore the bullies, because "they will get bored and leave you alone."

Never fucking happened. It just got worse and worse.

Looking the other way and pretending it isn't happening is NOT a fucking option.

[mercuryblues]

6. nope not an option

never was for me. I am 1 of 5 kids. My only child friends would come to me to teach them how to fight.

[BlueJazz]

5. I think Christabel Pankhurst once said "I am forced to be stronger than I ever thought possible"

I hesitate to post this but one thing I believe is true> Times may be a little easier for those who wish to change the status quo...regarding women's rights. At the least, now, you have more men who are agreeing with what you're fighting for.

[seabeyond]

7. for sure. you know. for sure. still pisses us off. still not a level playing field.

but i look at a lot of history, seeing we are history of feminists. i look at some incredibly strong vocal women, way back when it had to be a hundred times harder speaking up.

i am so incredibly impressed with these women.

[ismnotwasm]

10. This group has official stalkers

Plus an influx from probably DI who come in for a little 'feminist baiting' I do believe they enjoy themselves. Which makes them very, very creepy.

[seabeyond]

11. they absolutely prove the point of the various things we discuss in this group, just making our

argument stronger.

[Sheldon Cooper]

16. I realize that this is crude and vulgar, but the image that comes to mind

when I bother to think about the stalkers is that they're always typing with one hand only. And you can guess what these Master Baiters are doing with the other one.

[seabeyond]

18. i think they even brag about their one hand typing on our crazy uncle site.

had to edit out sister site. why give that to our sistahs....

[mercuryblues]

21. That

is something. A jury allows a derogatory term to describe females in a safe have group.

Well Fuck it.

[chrisa]

37. What About Teh Misandary!1!!!??

[William769]

38. And to think they have a new platform to speak from.

They are pathetic.