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undergroundpanther

(11,925 posts)
Tue May 28, 2013, 12:09 AM May 2013

My mom...

is going back to Virginia tommorrow.
My sisters kept her on a very short leash while she was here.I was the one who asked her to visit and waited months from september to may for her to get here. During this visit I had maybe 15 minutes to talk to her in private,not near enough time to reach understanding. She never showed up for the meeting with my therapist her and I. Sisters wouldn't let her come.We had a meeting later with my therapist,counselor mom my sisters and I melted down. My sister wouldn't let her talk to me with my therapist alone. I feel so fucking cheated, I didn't get to spend much time with mom.She did not stay at the house with me at all. Now she's going back home and I have had no privacy alone to talk to her. This is not fair.Who gave my selfish controlling sisters control over who my mom sees?
THEY took it from my mom. I HATE them. There have been times she has been up here and I didn't get to see her at all.Just WTF do my sisters get from excluding me.Excluding me from my own future plans, with MY mom. My therapist and counselor were both shocked by how cruel selfish and bullying my sisters were.

But I miss my mom.I missed having time by myself with her.My sisters robbed me of the time I needed and I hate them for it,among million other things.

It hurts.

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My mom... (Original Post) undergroundpanther May 2013 OP
I'm so sorry. Ilsa May 2013 #1
you might write a letter to your mom Voice for Peace May 2013 #2
I saw my therapist today.. undergroundpanther May 2013 #3
I'm really sorry! In_The_Wind May 2013 #4

Ilsa

(62,285 posts)
1. I'm so sorry.
Tue May 28, 2013, 09:42 AM
May 2013

What they did was unconscionable. Can you visit her in VA by yourself without the therapist?

Are your sisters thinking they are protecting her from you, or are they just trying to cut you out of her life?

I wish I knew how you could get her back for a visit just with you.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
2. you might write a letter to your mom
Tue May 28, 2013, 02:30 PM
May 2013

chances are she doesn't know much of what you
need and want, or how you feel. Put it in writing.

undergroundpanther

(11,925 posts)
3. I saw my therapist today..
Tue May 28, 2013, 06:58 PM
May 2013

found out my sisters told my counselor they want me out by september first.
My family are a bunch of monsters.

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