Why Women Aren't Crazy [View all]
This appeared at Huffpo first with the title "A Message to Women From a Man: You Aren't Crazy", but since Huffpo is well known to engage in all the tabloid nonsense they do (for advertising dollars, not as a difference of opinion as at this site), I thought I'd link to this site, which is a men's site which I think is worth exploring.
http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/why-women-arent-crazy/
Youre so sensitive. Youre so emotional. Youre defensive. Youre overreacting. Calm down. Relax. Stop freaking out! Youre crazy! I was just joking, dont you have a sense of humor? Youre so dramatic. Just get over it already!
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Do you ever hear any of these comments from your spouse, partner, boss, friends, colleagues, or relatives after you have expressed frustration, sadness, or anger about something they have done or said?
When someone says these things to you, its not an example of inconsiderate behavior. When your spouse shows up half an hour late to dinner without callingthats inconsiderate behavior. A remark intended to shut you down like, Calm down, youre overreacting, after you just addressed someone elses bad behavior, is emotional manipulationpure and simple.
And this is the sort of emotional manipulation that feeds an epidemic in our country, an epidemic that defines women as crazy, irrational, overly sensitive, unhinged. This epidemic helps fuel the idea that women need only the slightest provocation to unleash their (crazy) emotions. Its patently false and unfair.
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More at link.