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Ms. Toad

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Sat Apr 16, 2016, 02:25 AM Apr 2016

No longer waiting . . . (edited) [View all]

Last edited Mon Apr 18, 2016, 08:27 AM - Edit history (1)

I am likely about to join this little club. I had a core biopsy on Thursday for 1.3 cm (ultrasound measurement) - 2 cm (palpation guestimate) solid tumor. Funny how everyone's demeanor changes once they look at the films, and their experience tells them it is not good news. Even though they can't formally say anything yet.

Not unexpected, but I'm a bit younger than everyone who came before me (mother x 2, grandmother, great-grandmother).

The results should be back early next week.

This is not really a convenient time for me to be at the beck and call of doctors - I'd really appreciate it if cancer could reschedule and come back in a couple of decades. I'd even settle for a month.

Edited 4/18:

I got a phone call from my doctor, bright and early this morning. Cancer (of the carcinoma variety). No more information yet - still more pathology to come with information about whether it is lobular or ductal, and whether its receptors are positive or negative.

So - I guess I am still doing some waiting, but I have confirmation that it is cancer.

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I am so very sorry to hear this, not knowing is incredibly tough and you imagine the worst. Rhiannon12866 Apr 2016 #1
Thanks. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #7
I'm so sorry, Ms. Toad. In_The_Wind Apr 2016 #2
Thank you! Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #8
I felt relief at the diagnosis. Not knowing is the killer. alfredo Apr 2016 #3
I cope much better with the known than the unknown. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #9
I avoided self diagnosis on this one. alfredo Apr 2016 #11
Yeah, inconvenient doesn't quite cover it! PennyK Apr 2016 #4
Definitely annoying - Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #6
Best wishes that it turns out better than you're fearing, Ms. Toad. polly7 Apr 2016 #5
Thank you! Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #10
Sorry to hear that. Solly Mack Apr 2016 #12
Thinking of you and hoping for the best. cate94 Apr 2016 #13
So sorry PennyK Apr 2016 #14
Breast cancer. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #16
So sorry, Ms. Toad BuelahWitch Apr 2016 #15
Yup. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #17
That damned wait! Uben Apr 2016 #18
I'm so sorry! Solly Mack Apr 2016 #19
I've had that conversation with two doctors now - Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #20
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