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Ms. Toad

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20. I've had that conversation with two doctors now -
Thu Apr 21, 2016, 12:15 AM
Apr 2016

I'm inclined to wait ~4 weeks. They are used to people who want it cut out yesterday! I've had 3 relatives with 4 breast cancers. Two of them died from something else and the third is still living 18 years after the 1st tumor, and 5 after the second (unrelated) tumor. That gives me a little different perspective.

The one today acknowledged that it had likely been there between 2 & 8 years (likely closer to 8). Another month to research, wait for genetic screening, and a slightly more convenient time to be out of commission for a couple of weeks, is not going to make any difference in the long run.

We'll see. I have another appointment Monday and we'll start planning.

In the mean time, another bit of good news: ER+, PR+, and HER2- (the best combination possible).

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I am so very sorry to hear this, not knowing is incredibly tough and you imagine the worst. Rhiannon12866 Apr 2016 #1
Thanks. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #7
I'm so sorry, Ms. Toad. In_The_Wind Apr 2016 #2
Thank you! Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #8
I felt relief at the diagnosis. Not knowing is the killer. alfredo Apr 2016 #3
I cope much better with the known than the unknown. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #9
I avoided self diagnosis on this one. alfredo Apr 2016 #11
Yeah, inconvenient doesn't quite cover it! PennyK Apr 2016 #4
Definitely annoying - Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #6
Best wishes that it turns out better than you're fearing, Ms. Toad. polly7 Apr 2016 #5
Thank you! Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #10
Sorry to hear that. Solly Mack Apr 2016 #12
Thinking of you and hoping for the best. cate94 Apr 2016 #13
So sorry PennyK Apr 2016 #14
Breast cancer. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #16
So sorry, Ms. Toad BuelahWitch Apr 2016 #15
Yup. Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #17
That damned wait! Uben Apr 2016 #18
I'm so sorry! Solly Mack Apr 2016 #19
I've had that conversation with two doctors now - Ms. Toad Apr 2016 #20
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