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canuckledragger

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16. I know the feeling. I'm delaing with it now.

Wed Dec 15, 2021, 10:36 PM

Dec 2021

My so called best friend has been listening to all the wrong people, and because he's been helped out all of his life by loving parents, he doesn't quite get the trauma caused by bad ones, and all the financial, emotional, physical problems that stem from it. During another argument, he bragged about how much better off he is than I am...which REALLY fucking pissed me off, with him seeing everything unfold between me and my family since we were 15. we're both 46 now.

Kind of hard to get ahead when you've been sabotaged from the very beginning.

Also, I think people that come form abuse are all the more sensitive and vocal about it, because we know what is feels like from persoanl experience, and don't want to see happen to others. It's why I'm a liberal.

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So it's Christmas again... [View all] canuckledragger Dec 2021 OP

Hi, canuckle! cilla4progress Dec 2021 #1

I have one or two I can talk to right now canuckledragger Dec 2021 #5

Hang in there. LoisB Dec 2021 #2

Thanks. It's why I'm reaching out here, now. canuckledragger Dec 2021 #9

You are not alone. Those of us that eshew toxic families can feel lonely. alittlelark Dec 2021 #3

Yes, and the hard part is finding friends that understand the damage done canuckledragger Dec 2021 #6

The damage done by toxic families lasts a lifetime, alittlelark Dec 2021 #17

Nice thing about DU - someone is always on to chat with SheltieLover Dec 2021 #4

Cutting of the crazy makers helps a lot. canuckledragger Dec 2021 #7

I know exactly what you mean SheltieLover Dec 2021 #8

I've done so in past. canuckledragger Dec 2021 #10

Have you ever read JamesW Pennebaker's therapeutic journaling research? SheltieLover Dec 2021 #12

Part of the problem with that is... canuckledragger Dec 2021 #13

from one Canuck to another... Grey5 Dec 2021 #11

My family cared more about what you bought for them around this time. canuckledragger Dec 2021 #15

I share your feelings. A long time friend I used to work with, recently ghosted me. I texted her Ziggysmom Dec 2021 #14

I know the feeling. I'm delaing with it now. canuckledragger Dec 2021 #16