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FirstLight

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Tue Jul 5, 2022, 08:07 PM Jul 2022

Is it common for food to taste "off" when depressed? [View all]

I swear, I can barely eat these days. Mom died (kinda suddenly, but 84yo) in May and I am not doing well. Apparently being the "sensitive" child of the family has come back to bite me in the ass.

Dad is is rapid decline mentally etc, he's wth sister for now but she cant handle it and we're looking for memory care. She told me she still hasn't cried, neither has dad...

But here I am blubbering plenty. And I hate that I have no appetite...or when I want something, two or three bites and it tastes like crap. I have been eating saltines just ti keep my stomach from imploding. That and late night munchies are the olny thing keeping me alive... ugh

I'm seeing the grief counselor at hospice thursday for intake. Hope I can get some relief... grief sucks.

Edit to add...both appetite and sleep patterns are all over the map. Just sent a message to my doc.

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I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Jul 2022 #1
Food has been 'off' for me for well over a year; elleng Jul 2022 #2
Try a restaurant with a buffet. take a little of each. Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #3
interesting idea, but expensive... FirstLight Jul 2022 #4
Is your sense of smell OK? Any chance you may... 3catwoman3 Jul 2022 #5
oh no...I can smell everything.... FirstLight Jul 2022 #6
Oh, dear... cilla4progress Jul 2022 #7
it's a process, for sure. FirstLight Jul 2022 #9
Sounds like you are heading in the right cilla4progress Jul 2022 #12
I am so sorry. The greater was the love the greater the grief, Murphyb849 Jul 2022 #8
definitely greater love... FirstLight Jul 2022 #10
I couldn't eat for almost a month after my mother died. I lost a lot of weight. BlackSkimmer Jul 2022 #11
I have a favorite pair of Middle Eastern cooks. Tetrachloride Jul 2022 #13
Is there anything you have a taste for? SheltieLover Jul 2022 #14
hey Skittles Jul 2022 #15
It happens. TigressDem Jul 2022 #16
I am so sorry about your parents. LoisB Jul 2022 #17
It is common to lose interest in food for far lesser reasons than what you are going through. Beastly Boy Jul 2022 #18
ya, and I'm recovering from shoulder surgery on top of it all , mom's stroke was 2 das after my surg FirstLight Jul 2022 #19
You need protein and fat, especially if you are recovering from surgery. Beastly Boy Jul 2022 #22
Side topic, if your dad was a veteran, see if he qualifies for a bed in a V.A. facility. 3Hotdogs Jul 2022 #20
Yes MFM008 Jul 2022 #21
Stress, anxiety and extreme sadness can definitely affect your taste. lark Jul 2022 #23
Got an appt with my reg dr Monday FirstLight Jul 2022 #24
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