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Wishful-Thinking

(109 posts)
6. I have both sympathy and empathy for your situation
Tue Sep 20, 2022, 11:30 AM
Sep 2022

Just sold my small business of the last 20+ years and in my 70’s. Had a car accident last year and they are still trying to talk me into rotator cuff surgery of left shoulder due to the accident, while right shoulder is already weak and painful from arthritis. With the depression and anxiety that have set in due to PTSD from accident, pandemic, unfettered global climate havoc, unfathomable political climate, lost savings with retirement account due to economic situation, and reluctance to travel for all the reasons, I’m feeling overwhelmed with malaise** as well. From reading the definition of malaise below, I can see that the disjointed few hours of sleep I’m getting is likely part of the cause.

Agreed we need a discussion/support group on DU to talk ourselves out of this.

“**Malaise”
Also called: General discomfort
Main Results:

A general sense of being unwell, often accompanied by fatigue, diffuse pain, or lack of interest in activities.

COMMON CAUSES
Malaise can have causes that aren't due to underlying disease. Examples include eating too much, drinking too much, inadequate sleep, feeling sad, missing normal exercise routine, or caffeine withdrawal.

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Oldbaldy, dayum up until the minute you hit the car that pulled out in front of YOU, MLAA Sep 2022 #1
The loss of biking has been one of the worst aspects of what happened. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #3
I had lots of orthopedic surgeries throughout my first 18 years. Most involved MLAA Sep 2022 #5
if it were me GenXer47 Sep 2022 #2
I also got a really deep wound to my right calf. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #4
Do you have home healthcare set up? They can send a wound care specialist a time or two a week. MLAA Sep 2022 #7
Nah... we are barely holding on as far as finances and such are concerned. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #9
I have both sympathy and empathy for your situation Wishful-Thinking Sep 2022 #6
Thanks. Also, 'malaise' should be my middle name. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #8
It's hard to focus on goals and desires when you're still actively dealing with injury and pain. enough Sep 2022 #10
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #11
Not sure what to say XanaDUer2 Sep 2022 #12
Thanks OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #17
When I need ideas... Chalco Sep 2022 #13
Thanks for the suggestion. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #18
I'm right there with you. luvs2sing Sep 2022 #14
Thank you OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #19
well... markie Sep 2022 #15
Interesting that you mention one thing OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #20
I have no more ambition or goals, and I have never been happier. Midnight Writer Sep 2022 #16
I did not want to accomplish anything extraordinary. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #21
Just checking in with you today, oldbaldy1701E. MLAA Sep 2022 #22
Thanks. I am doing a tiny bit better. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2022 #23
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