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mopinko

(72,062 posts)
Sat Mar 11, 2023, 09:28 AM Mar 2023

well, things r finally looking up. [View all]

i’ve been a ball of anxiety for most of the last couple years now. i’ve had a lot of covid related financial problems. i’ve been something of a mess.

but at least my financial woes r over. i sold a rental sf house, and i did rly well.
broke my heart to sell it. bought it a wreck, fixed it up w a couple of friends. we did a great job. a dream come true. but i need to cut back on both work and woes, and i needed the money.
my hood is very undervalued, cuz it’s the most diverse hood in the city. we also have a lot of social services/businesses like nursing homes and rehab places. cuz that’s who we roll.
but it’s a great hood, w lots of transit, parks, good schools, retail, restaurants and entertainment. even have beaches. yet, it’s cheap here.

well, this little place is adorable, and in about 1/4 of the hoods in the city would be worth a min of twice what i got. so i sorta put my foot down about what it is worth. i went through 3 realtors. the 1 who sold it was srsly skeptical, but she couldnt argue w the facts. we started high, and held our breath. well, it only took 3 wks to get more than anyone thought i could. i appreciate the money, but more than that i did a bit to fix an unjust system.
the folks who live here know their biggest asset will be undervalued. and they accept that. but they shouldnt have to. it shouldnt cost u money to be a good person.

it’s been quite a while since i did a good thing. b4 the plague i had a volunteer gig that went a long way to heal after my divorce. but the plague stopped that. it feels super good to do good again.

i’ve been putting so much into the- after i sell the house- pile. not looking forward to that reckoning, but…
i’ve been doing better lately. yoga has been going very, very well. and my new puppy is just the best.

now if i can just figure out how to not be all alone for the rest of my life….

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Good luck. Being alone is one of my worst problems right now Walleye Mar 2023 #1
a good thing about the city. mopinko Mar 2023 #2
Puppies represent happiness, somebody to care for Walleye Mar 2023 #3
i have no idea how ppl live w/o pets. mopinko Mar 2023 #6
You are a good person. I find people who've never had pets to be very strange Walleye Mar 2023 #7
Congrats! SheltieLover Mar 2023 #4
Congrats! SheltieLover Mar 2023 #5
Hopefully you'll get a beautiful sorta dry spring and you can take that puppy to ratchiweenie Mar 2023 #8
there's a beach here mopinko Mar 2023 #9
The isolation the plaque brought on changed our entire society. I think it made us all a little ratchiweenie Mar 2023 #10
yeah, 1 big thing that makes me feel better- mopinko Mar 2023 #13
But you are on the mend. You got a new doggo. You got funds again. ratchiweenie Mar 2023 #17
well, some of those funds r going into my house. mopinko Mar 2023 #18
Congratulations. Glad things are looking up. LoisB Mar 2023 #11
What an uplifting post! Congratulations! Karadeniz Mar 2023 #12
i thought folks here would like a reminder mopinko Mar 2023 #14
Absolutely... and your neighborhood sounds like one I'd choose to live in! Karadeniz Mar 2023 #15
it rly is the best. mopinko Mar 2023 #16
Your post nearly brought tears to my eyes. I know those feelings, had them, then know them CTyankee Mar 2023 #19
Hello, my friend... NewHendoLib Mar 2023 #20
Nice! Hope22 Mar 2023 #21
My ex surfaced after nearly 40 years of a clean getaway Warpy Mar 2023 #22
Hooray for you! Bayard Mar 2023 #23
mopinko, so glad that things are looking up for you. Covid did change alot of things. I am so very debm55 Mar 2023 #24
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