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OldBaldy1701E

(7,803 posts)
13. My dear XanaDUer.
Tue Oct 17, 2023, 11:52 PM
Oct 2023

You have not 'erred'. There are always family members that are just toxic and not good for you. It sucks. They are family. In my case, it is an uncle and my mother. They are just not good for me to be around. So, I avoid them whenever I can. I describe it like this: I love them, but I don't like them. I dunno if that makes sense, but there it is.

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Gone no contact with sister [View all] XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 OP
Hey underpants Oct 2023 #1
Thank you XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #12
oh I support you KarenS Oct 2023 #2
She's insanely controlling XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #3
this kind of stuff hurts your head and your heart. KarenS Oct 2023 #4
I over shared bad issues XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #5
good for you! shes toxic and a psychic vampire.. you dont need her crap. samnsara Oct 2023 #6
I'm not the one with a 24-yr-old daughter XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #7
My toxic brother hasn't spoke to me in years. He always made. my SIL talk to me. LakeArenal Oct 2023 #8
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #9
You are on a strictly one way relationship. I feel for you. It's very hurtful. LakeArenal Oct 2023 #10
I really over shared relationship problems XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #11
My dear XanaDUer. OldBaldy1701E Oct 2023 #13
It does make sense XanaDUer2 Oct 2023 #14
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