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Locut0s

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4. Let her know that you are there for her at any time...
Sat Jul 27, 2013, 12:11 AM
Jul 2013

Give her your email address and let her know that she can confide in you about anything at any time. If she needs someone to talk to, just to vent, or a shoulder to cry on you are just an email away. But like you said don't take this on as your own or you will be harming your own emotional health. Be supportive and open, make her feel that she can trust you with anything and hopefully in time she will open up to you if she doesn't have others around her who support her. That's really all you can do. Right now being in the hospital is the best, safest place she can be, even if it's scary. The nurses who work the psych wards are often some of the kindest people you could hope to meet.

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I want her to be ok too, fizz. elleng Jul 2013 #1
thanks, ellen fizzgig Jul 2013 #2
Yes, of course, take care of yourself, fizz, elleng Jul 2013 #3
Let her know that you are there for her at any time... Locut0s Jul 2013 #4
i've been open with her about my illness fizzgig Jul 2013 #6
That's difficult I agree... Locut0s Jul 2013 #10
Vibes to her. applegrove Jul 2013 #5
thank you fizzgig Jul 2013 #7
I hope you can get a message to her olddots Jul 2013 #8
her parents are in queens fizzgig Jul 2013 #9
Hope all goes well olddots Jul 2013 #11
i'm going with she just can't communicate fizzgig Jul 2013 #13
she's really lucky to have you. mopinko Jul 2013 #12
thanks, mo fizzgig Jul 2013 #14
I'm so sorry this is happening, Fizz. Denninmi Jul 2013 #15
Very much this ^^^ Locut0s Jul 2013 #16
i know this intellectually fizzgig Jul 2013 #17
Believe me ... I know all about that. Denninmi Jul 2013 #18
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