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Mental Health Support

Tobin S.

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3. I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now, gtro.

Reply to get the red out (Original post)

Tue May 8, 2018, 12:17 AM

May 2018

Both my wife and I have said things to each other that hurt us, but those things were not really indicative of how we ordinarily truly felt. It hurts very badly to be hurt by someone you love. And I know it hurts just as bad to hurt someone you really love. I would actually rather be in your shoes right now than your husband's if he knows how you are truly feeling right now and how his words cut right through you.

But this seems to be a part of the human condition sometimes. Just be careful to take note if hurtful words become a pattern with him.

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I yelled at the dog [View all] get the red out May 2018 OP

All the best to you sharedvalues May 2018 #1

I make a big to do when my cat Huey gets out of hand. If he just wants applegrove May 2018 #2

I'm sorry you're having a hard time right now, gtro. Tobin S. May 2018 #3

I agree- A dog that snarls at you when you ask him to get out of bed needs to be addressed sternly. NBachers May 2018 #4

He got the water bottle get the red out May 2018 #5

yelling is barking. i find a stern look controled the neighbor dogs. pansypoo53219 May 2018 #6

hang in there honey. relationships are hard. mopinko May 2018 #7