Not caring what people think vs impressing them

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5. That's a good example.

Actually, it is a mild double-bind. You MUST look happy and agreeable!

Yes, con artists play on those grounds and know that they are doing that. Sociopaths, (which can equate with con artist) can do it without even batting an eye. They might even have more empathy than ordinary folks, (surprise) because they can pick out people and have a sense for them just by observation--from studies I have read. The difference is, the empathy does not "bother" them at all emotionally. They are not perturbed by it but can utilize the sensitivity to size-up a "victim" .

It is like, for example, parents who might say, "You must love us but we want you to do it on your own accord." How do you "must" love someone sincerely? That is the kind of absurdity involved in dilemmas like that. It can be crazy making.

So, if a job required it, well, if you are flexible and able to resolve the idea of a company who requires your facade, that is a choice. It is far different from where compassion and empathy lead, though, which is a deeper, more genuine sense of yourself and your relationships without needing blinders. Sincere honesty is a path and there may be risks and sometimes, discernment is important when practicing them, too.

Oh, I just ramble sometimes.