This message was self-deleted by its author

[hamsterjill]

38. I have a rescue and digging the grave is hard!

I used to have them all cremated. Then we bought property out of the city and I decided to stop spending already-tight funds on cremation which has become exorbitant. I am a single woman and there’s no one to help.

Take a few breaths, calm yourself and try to do what must be done. You will have a sense of peace knowing he is truly at rest. I am NOT trying to diminish the grief you feel in any way. Just years of experience with this. There’s something about the finality. Right now, you’re still feeling the limbo.

Sending hugs and PM me if I can help in any way.