My Uncle Paul wasn't much older than me.

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8. I really hate to see people being picked on

When dealing with bullies you don't want to act vulnerable. Stand up tall, don't avoid eye contact, be assertive and ooze confidence.
You can find many online sites with tips on how to deal with bullies in the workplace. I didn't include any links as I did not know which one would "speak" to you.
Please stop thinking of yourself as a misfit...you are an individual, one who deserves respect. Don't allow yourself to be a victim or think of yourself as a victim.
Your bully is the one with issues.

I am sorry to hear about your uncle.

I will send white light and be thinking of you tomorrow.