My daughter is in San Diego,

[murielm99]

2. One of the things that is making all this harder for her

is the ex-wife. She is trying to take my daughter to court and rob her blind. The woman divorced Tom more than eight years ago. She thinks she can get property and money. I can't say much more, because there are courts and lawyers involved.

My daughter's lawyers are stunned by the audacity. They say they have never seen anything like it.

I have. My first husband was older. He died when I was twenty-seven. His ex tried the same thing with me. It didn't work, but it added a great deal of stress to an already bad situation.

Thanks for your support, Peggy. All of DU has been very kind during this difficult time.