Bereavement

CaliforniaPeggy

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1. Oh boy, my dear auntAgonist...

Sun Nov 6, 2016, 02:13 PM

Nov 2016

My heart goes out to you in this terrible time of loss. I can only imagine a little bit of what grief like yours must feel like.

To lose two close friends in such a short period of time has to be overwhelming. All their gifts to you, all the great things you had with them....all just memories now. And memories are such pale reflections of reality.

And then to have the family leave you in the dark? Oh my god. Pam was part of you and you her. To lose that makes the loss so much harder to bear. I wish they were not doing this to you.

I hope they will come to their senses and take you back into the family, where you belong.

My deepest condolences.

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This isn't about me ... really. [View all] auntAgonist Nov 2016 OP

Oh boy, my dear auntAgonist... CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2016 #1

Honestly Peggy I don't think they see me as a part of anything. Just one of Pam's friends. auntAgonist Nov 2016 #4

I'm glad I could help, even if only a little. CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2016 #6

You were fortunate indeed. I'm just heartbroken. 2 dear friends in a short time. auntAgonist Nov 2016 #7

As you've written it, the family seems to have been so receptive and accommodating.. whathehell Nov 2016 #2

I honestly don't think they've turned against me rather they are just perhaps auntAgonist Nov 2016 #3

That's what it sounds like to me, aunt.. whathehell Nov 2016 #5

There is finally an online obituary posted tonight. There is a private family memorial planned auntAgonist Nov 2016 #8

I wish I had more hearts to give KT2000 Feb 2017 #9