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Liberty Belle

(9,617 posts)
75. I'm so sorry. Do you have famliy close by or good friends?
Mon Jun 6, 2022, 08:59 AM
Jun 2022

Reach out to them and don't be afraid to ask for help when needed.

My Mom died a month ago, and even though she'd had dementia for 13 years and had no memory left, I still miss her every day.

Treasure the memories and be glad you had a loving mother -- so many people don't.

Reconnect with old friends and family members you haven't heard from in a while. I've reconnected with cousins I hadn't spoken with in years, found out some family history I didn't know about, and have an invitation to go visit one cousin out of state in the future.

Treat yourself to some escape from grief -- I loaded up my Kindle with books and spent hours reading in recent weeks.

If you're also the executor of your Mom's estate, there's another long list of hurdles and hassles to get through. I'm in process of clearing out Mom's house, a difficult and emotionally challenging job.

Take it one day at a time.

Hugs!

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Mine died over 30 years ago I still miss her, and cry Walleye Jun 2022 #1
39 years ago for me. I remember every detail of her last day. Peregrine Took Jun 2022 #60
Yes mine died of cancer too. She was such a good woman. So considerate of peoples feelings Walleye Jun 2022 #65
Sorry for your loss Raven123 Jun 2022 #2
I'm sorry. I know how you feel. n/t ms liberty Jun 2022 #3
Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Jun 2022 #4
I'm so sorry, pants. brer cat Jun 2022 #5
Deepest Condolences 💓💓💓 SheltieLover Jun 2022 #6
((littlemiss)) blm Jun 2022 #7
I know how you feel..... secondwind Jun 2022 #8
My deepest condolences on your loss. greatauntoftriplets Jun 2022 #9
I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. dixiechiken1 Jun 2022 #10
I'm so very sorry, pants..💖🤷‍♂️ Cha Jun 2022 #11
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a terrible emptiness. badhair77 Jun 2022 #12
Holding you cilla4progress Jun 2022 #13
Peace be with you. mobeau69 Jun 2022 #14
I am so sorry for you littlemissmartypants. bronxiteforever Jun 2022 #15
It is so hard pandr32 Jun 2022 #16
Heartfelt sympathy to you bucolic_frolic Jun 2022 #17
So sorry for your loss! Tadpole Raisin Jun 2022 #18
Oh no. Such a deep, crippling pain. (( love to you, little )) So sad. So sorry. ancianita Jun 2022 #19
Peace world wide wally Jun 2022 #20
I'm so sorry! redwitch Jun 2022 #21
I am so sorry for your loss. My Mom died in April. CousinIT Jun 2022 #22
I am sincerely sorry. Hugs to you. LoisB Jun 2022 #23
I'm so sorry wryter2000 Jun 2022 #24
Condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. gademocrat7 Jun 2022 #25
my friend, 😞 I am so sorry for your loss. peacebuzzard Jun 2022 #26
How heartbreaking PJMcK Jun 2022 #27
I'm so sorry Katcat Jun 2022 #28
My heart goes out to you. Collimator Jun 2022 #29
So very sorry. EOM Scottie Mom Jun 2022 #30
So sorry :( Elessar Zappa Jun 2022 #31
Hugs and Peace to you. IA8IT Jun 2022 #32
So sorry. mn9driver Jun 2022 #33
I'm so sorry. barbtries Jun 2022 #34
Hurts like hell Marthe48 Jun 2022 #35
since my parental units are gone , i feel hollow. AllaN01Bear Jun 2022 #36
... Delphinus Jun 2022 #37
My deepest condolences. My mother passed in 2015 at 96. sinkingfeeling Jun 2022 #38
I am so sorry for your loss. lark Jun 2022 #39
it will always hurt but the memories help over time. Hamlette Jun 2022 #40
I'm so sorry Danmel Jun 2022 #41
Oh my, I am so very sorry my littlemissmartypants gristy Jun 2022 #42
It hurts cally Jun 2022 #43
Every cell in your body ... Desert_Leslie Jun 2022 #44
Oh no.... BumRushDaShow Jun 2022 #45
I am so sorry for your loss. raging moderate Jun 2022 #46
That's lovely n/t Retired Engineer Bob Jun 2022 #57
I lost my mother a couple years ago Leith Jun 2022 #47
I'm so sorry. I lost my mom a few years ago, and it's highplainsdem Jun 2022 #48
I am so very sorry. KarenS Jun 2022 #49
I am SO sorry for your loss.. whathehell Jun 2022 #50
Sorry for your loss - a mother is impossible to replace. waterwatcher123 Jun 2022 #51
So very sorry for your loss. {{{{hug}}}} nt Shipwack Jun 2022 #52
I'm sorry for your loss, littlemisssmartypants... momta Jun 2022 #53
What a terrible loss for you. I am so sorry Wicked Blue Jun 2022 #54
It hurts lillypaddle Jun 2022 #55
Deepest condolences my good friend. NNadir Jun 2022 #56
My mom died almost thirty years ago. Cracklin Charlie Jun 2022 #58
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 Jun 2022 #59
I am so very sorry for your loss. revmclaren Jun 2022 #61
I am so sorry to hear this Retired Engineer Bob Jun 2022 #62
Fight malaise Jun 2022 #72
So very sorry for you. A Mother's love is everlasting. Fla Dem Jun 2022 #63
so, so sorry markie Jun 2022 #64
I am so very sorry. I lost my mother 31 years ago TNNurse Jun 2022 #66
I'm so sorry. mia Jun 2022 #67
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Jun 2022 #68
So sorry for your loss. Losing someone that important is devastating. I will miss mine forever yellowdogintexas Jun 2022 #69
My deepest condolences on your loss KS Toronado Jun 2022 #70
The most horrible moment malaise Jun 2022 #71
So sorry, losing your Mom is rough. TigressDem Jun 2022 #73
I am so sorry for your loss... Trueblue Texan Jun 2022 #74
I'm so sorry. Do you have famliy close by or good friends? Liberty Belle Jun 2022 #75
I'm so sorry cate94 Jun 2022 #76
Oh dear, very sad time for you. I'm so sorry. 2 Meow Momma Jun 2022 #77
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in 2017. Silver Gaia Jun 2022 #78
I am so sorry. Loryn Jun 2022 #79
Hugs to you. lunatica Jun 2022 #80
So sorry for your loss. A little over 32 years for my mom. She fought various cancers Scalded Nun Jun 2022 #81
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mother. sdfernando Jun 2022 #82
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. It is very hard to lose your mother. PatrickforB Jun 2022 #83
My mother's physical body died in 2016, but she is still with me. Yours is too. housecat Jun 2022 #84
Heartfelt condolences to you and all who love her. PAMod Jun 2022 #85
My deepest condolences to you💔 virgdem Jun 2022 #86
I'm so sorry for your loss. Joinfortmill Jun 2022 #87
I'm sorry. ECL213 Jun 2022 #88
I'm so sorry for your loss minstrel76 Jun 2022 #89
I'm so sorry. Mine has been gone decades, now, and I still Ilsa Jun 2022 #90
Oh honey... I am SO sorry to read this. I lost my mother 18 years ago and trust me when I say that The_REAL_Ecumenist Jun 2022 #91
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