Bereavement

Irish_Dem

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60. The first year is often the hardest.

Reply to kairos12 (Original post)

Sat Jun 1, 2024, 06:10 PM

Jun 2024

So you have made it through the toughest part.

My thoughts go out to you.
Hang in there.

Glad you are reaching out.

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My wife's death. First time I'm posting. [View all] kairos12 Jun 2024 OP

Many very heartfelt condolences... MiHale Jun 2024 #1

Thank you MiHale kairos12 Jun 2024 #69

My condolences. sinkingfeeling Jun 2024 #2

Hello sinkingfeeling kairos12 Jun 2024 #70

I learned an interesting word relatively recently, very likely here... 3catwoman3 Jun 2024 #3

Is that Yiddish? DFW Jun 2024 #8

According to Dictionary.com, it is Yiddish. 3catwoman3 Jun 2024 #38

Spanish enid602 Jun 2024 #127

The languages are a combination of circumstance and necessity DFW Jun 2024 #147

Your suspicion of veil being a typo is right on the money. 3catwoman3 Jun 2024 #167

Not to mention.... DFW Jun 2024 #169

yes, yahrzeit is the anniversary of a passing The Blue Flower Jun 2024 #55

Dear 3catwoman3 kairos12 Jun 2024 #71

We light YAHRZEIT candles to mark the anniversary of a passing. elleng Jun 2024 #176

My condolences. But for a stroke of luck, I would have been posting something similar DFW Jun 2024 #4

So if my math is correct soldierant Jun 2024 #42

We met 50 years ago, this July DFW Jun 2024 #150

Hello DFW kairos12 Jun 2024 #72

She went through a LOT DFW Jun 2024 #148

❤️ underpants Jun 2024 #5

Dear underpants kairos12 Jun 2024 #73

Holding you in my heart. May you find consolation in 40 years of memories. n/t TygrBright Jun 2024 #6

Dear TygrBright kairos12 Jun 2024 #74

Caring comes in many forms. Yours means a great deal. n/t TygrBright Jun 2024 #95

Peace to You IA8IT Jun 2024 #7

Dear IA8IT kairos12 Jun 2024 #75

I will be thinking of you all day and throughout these days. I can understand and I grieve for you too. hlthe2b Jun 2024 #9

Dear hithe2b kairos12 Jun 2024 #76

Very sorry for your loss. I hope you'll be kind to yourself. Nt spooky3 Jun 2024 #10

Dear spooky3 kairos12 Jun 2024 #77

Thank you. ++++++++++++++ spooky3 Jun 2024 #84

Sending hugs kairos12 and holding you in my livetohike Jun 2024 #11

Dear livetohike kairos12 Jun 2024 #78

I am so sorry. badhair77 Jun 2024 #12

Dear badhair77 kairos12 Jun 2024 #79

All my blessings and sympathies to you. I can't even imagine, but aware that either my wife or I will have to face it. Doodley Jun 2024 #13

Dear Doodley kairos12 Jun 2024 #80

My heart goes out to you kairos12. Peace and strength to you. LoisB Jun 2024 #14

Dear LoisB kairos12 Jun 2024 #82

My sincere condolences (((💐))) Deuxcents Jun 2024 #15

Dear Deuxcents kairos12 Jun 2024 #83

I'm so sorry. barbtries Jun 2024 #16

Dear barbtries kairos12 Jun 2024 #85

I am so very sorry for your loss Kairos.💔 lucca18 Jun 2024 #17

Dear lucca18 kairos12 Jun 2024 #86

Seven years since my hubby passed. tavernier Jun 2024 #18

Dear tavenier kairos12 Jun 2024 #87

My condolences central scrutinizer Jun 2024 #19

Dear central scrutinizer kairos12 Jun 2024 #89

Thanks. Seven years have passed central scrutinizer Jun 2024 #166

I'm so sorry. live love laugh Jun 2024 #20

Dear live love laugh kairos12 Jun 2024 #90

Peace and grace be with you kairos12 Peacetrain Jun 2024 #21

Dear Peacetrain kairos12 Jun 2024 #91

We're at Year 48 this year, and not a day goes by when I don't wonder which of us is gonna leave first. calimary Jun 2024 #22

Dear calimary kairos12 Jun 2024 #92

(((hugs))) samnsara Jun 2024 #23

Dear samnsara kairos12 Jun 2024 #93

I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. I am also sorry you've been bearing it for this last year. marble falls Jun 2024 #24

Dear marble falls kairos12 Jun 2024 #94

One foot in front of the other. I know you will pull through. It is so wise you see his time with you as a blessing ... marble falls Jun 2024 #104

I hope you are taking care of yourself lillypaddle Jun 2024 #25

Dear lillypaddle kairos12 Jun 2024 #96

Heartbreaking wryter2000 Jun 2024 #26

Dear wryter2000 kairos12 Jun 2024 #97

Hold on to the memories. LiberalFighter Jun 2024 #27

Dear LiberalFighter kairos12 Jun 2024 #98

Peace and good health to you and yours. Magoo48 Jun 2024 #28

Dear Magoo48 kairos12 Jun 2024 #99

Please accept my sympathy. It has been 16 years since my husband died. Paper Roses Jun 2024 #29

Dear Paper Roses kairos12 Jun 2024 #100

Sending love and more love to you! Hope22 Jun 2024 #30

Dear Hope22 kairos12 Jun 2024 #101

You are welcome. Hope22 Jun 2024 #113

Blessings on her memory Wicked Blue Jun 2024 #31

Dear Wicked Blue kairos12 Jun 2024 #102

I'm so sorry Kairos for the loss of your wife and best friend FakeNoose Jun 2024 #32

Dear FakeNoose kairos12 Jun 2024 #103

I'm so sorry for your loss. louslobbs Jun 2024 #33

Dear louslobbs kairos12 Jun 2024 #105

💕 louslobbs Jun 2024 #181

Peace to you, kairos12. ancianita Jun 2024 #34

Than you for that. Elessar Zappa Jun 2024 #40

Dear ancianita kairos12 Jun 2024 #106

I'm so very sorry for your loss. yardwork Jun 2024 #35

Dear yardwork kairos12 Jun 2024 #107

Thank you. How kind of you! yardwork Jun 2024 #179

I'm very sorry for your loss. Lost my sister before Trump. 58Sunliner Jun 2024 #36

Dear 58Sunliner kairos12 Jun 2024 #108

Thank you. 58Sunliner Jun 2024 #177

Of an age to think about this rockbluff botanist Jun 2024 #37

Dear rockbluff botanist kairos12 Jun 2024 #109

Deepest sympathy to you and yours my friend malaise Jun 2024 #39

Dear malaise kairos12 Jun 2024 #110

Take care of you... Dan Jun 2024 #41

Dear Dan kairos12 Jun 2024 #111

Heart hugs to you 4TheArts Jun 2024 #43

Dear 4TheArts kairos12 Jun 2024 #112

So sorry for your loss. It gets better, the grief is rough. Been there myself. brush Jun 2024 #44

Dear brush kairos12 Jun 2024 #114

I am so very sorry for your loss. Dem2theMax Jun 2024 #45

Dear Dem2theMax kairos12 Jun 2024 #115

Condolences. AltairIV Jun 2024 #46

Dear AltairIV kairos12 Jun 2024 #116

So very sorry for your loss! PortTack Jun 2024 #47

Dear PortTack kairos12 Jun 2024 #118

I lost my first wife at age 39, returnee Jun 2024 #48

Dear returnee kairos12 Jun 2024 #119

My Condolences and sympathy to you Kairos12, such a long marriage must contain many wonderful ShazamIam Jun 2024 #49

Dear Shazamlam kairos12 Jun 2024 #120

My sweetheart and I made it to 40 years. Mme. Defarge Jun 2024 #50

Dear Mme. Defarge kairos12 Jun 2024 #121

Dear kairos12 MLAA Jun 2024 #51

Dear MLAA kairos12 Jun 2024 #122

Peace and strength to you, kairos12 MerrilyMerrily Jun 2024 #52

Dear MerrilyMerrily kairos12 Jun 2024 #123

I am sorry for your loss. pandr32 Jun 2024 #53

Dear pandr32 kairos12 Jun 2024 #124

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find a sense of peace during this time Maraya1969 Jun 2024 #54

Dear Maraya1969 kairos12 Jun 2024 #125

Oh my, that's sad wendyb-NC Jun 2024 #56

Dear wendyb-NC kairos12 Jun 2024 #126

My condolences. I lost my wife to cancer seven weeks ago. maveric Jun 2024 #57

Dear maveric kairos12 Jun 2024 #128

Thank you so much. maveric Jun 2024 #132

I hope you're OK. SarahD Jun 2024 #58

Dear SarahD kairos12 Jun 2024 #129

Hugs DU friend. nt AKwannabe Jun 2024 #59

Dear AKwannable kairos12 Jun 2024 #130

The first year is often the hardest. Irish_Dem Jun 2024 #60

Dear Irish Dem kairos12 Jun 2024 #131

So sorry you lost your spouse of a lifetime Farmer-Rick Jun 2024 #61

Dear Farmer-Rick kairos12 Jun 2024 #133

I'm sorry for your loss. area51 Jun 2024 #62

Dear area51 kairos12 Jun 2024 #134

Thanks for letting us know. That must have been an awful three years for her. Hope you will be OK. ED Evolve Dammit Jun 2024 #63

Dear Evolve Dammit kairos12 Jun 2024 #135

Bless you. I lost my husband 17 months ago Richluu Jun 2024 #64

Dear Richluu kairos12 Jun 2024 #136

Psalms 30:5 Richluu Jun 2024 #180

Iknow how hard it. It True Blue American Jun 2024 #65

Dear True Blue American kairos12 Jun 2024 #137

What a painful thing to go through. I'm sure she was glad you were there with her. flying_wahini Jun 2024 #66

Dear flying_wahini kairos12 Jun 2024 #138

Peace elleng Jun 2024 #67

Dear elleng kairos12 Jun 2024 #139

You are most welcome, kairos12. elleng Jun 2024 #175

Dear elleng kairos12 Jun 2024 #178

Our thoughts... kentuck Jun 2024 #68

Dear kentuck kairos12 Jun 2024 #140

I'm so sorry for your loss. Ocelot II Jun 2024 #81

Dear Ocelot II kairos12 Jun 2024 #141

Peace and condolences for your loss. Dulcinea Jun 2024 #88

Dear Dulcinea kairos12 Jun 2024 #142

So many complex facets to the grief of losing one's life partner. Sending strength to you Attilatheblond Jun 2024 #117

Dear Attilatheblond kairos12 Jun 2024 #143

I'm so sorry for the loss of your wife of 40 years sdfernando Jun 2024 #144

Dear sdfemando kairos12 Jun 2024 #156

Sending peace and strength to you... virgdem Jun 2024 #145

Dear virgdem kairos12 Jun 2024 #157

Thank you for your kind words. virgdem Jun 2024 #173

So sorry for your loss nt Nululu Jun 2024 #146

Dear Nululu kairos12 Jun 2024 #158

Here's hoping you do well in the future Nululu Jun 2024 #161

I am so sorry. murielm99 Jun 2024 #149

Dear muirelm99 kairos12 Jun 2024 #159

Peace BoRaGard Jun 2024 #151

Dear BoRaGard kairos12 Jun 2024 #160

Sincere condolences , kairos gademocrat7 Jun 2024 #152

Dear gademocrat7 kairos12 Jun 2024 #162

I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 Jun 2024 #153

Dear Scrivener7 kairos12 Jun 2024 #163

I know it's tough... and I'm sorry that you're going through this. Oopsie Daisy Jun 2024 #154

Dear Oopsie Daisy kairos12 Jun 2024 #164

I'm so sorry for your loss cate94 Jun 2024 #155

Dear cate94 kairos12 Jun 2024 #165

Condolences .... jdadd Jun 2024 #168

Dear jaded kairos12 Jun 2024 #171

Rest in Paradise, kairos12's beloved wife Niagara Jun 2024 #170

Dear Niagara kairos12 Jun 2024 #172

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