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Coping with Divorce or Separation

jeff47

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6. Something to keep in mind

Reply to silentwarrior (Original post)

Tue Jun 26, 2012, 01:47 AM

Jun 2012

i am going through a very difficult time and im not managing day to day activities. because i feel so ill i have cut back on food and i excerise constantly because i hate my body

Remember, men cheat on supermodels too.

The drive to cheat has nothing to do with attractiveness. Or "treating him well enough". It is a flaw that is entirely within him.

If he drank, that wouldn't be your fault. If he gambled, that wouldn't be your fault. If he drove too fast, that wouldn't be your fault. And when he cheated, that wasn't your fault.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] silentwarrior Jun 2012 OP

You have every right to post here! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2012 #1

This message was self-deleted by its author silentwarrior Jun 2012 #2

A good therapist can really make a difference. CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2012 #3

because he is saying he has a marvelous sex life on here and other sites Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2012 #4

You are welcome here NBachers Jun 2012 #5

Something to keep in mind jeff47 Jun 2012 #6

hey Skittles Jun 2012 #7

Hey silentwarrior, there is plenty of sympathy and empathy to be found here. calimary Jun 2012 #8

hang in there southmost Jun 2012 #9

So hard to be a human being sometimes. byronius Jun 2012 #10

I hope you find peace with this, and soon, and send good vibes.... NYC_SKP Jun 2012 #11