hopefully you somebody has some words of wisdom oh, 52 year old lady who just graduated college got her AA degree in respiratory therapy. I was dating a 29 yr old long time friend for like 15 months.
okay to be perfectly honest the first night in happened I did tell me the next day that our friendship meant more than a few nights have sex. but I didn't convince me that if we just kept his friends there be no problem. 5 months I was still being friends he's going around telling everybody that we're getting married and moving to New Mexico. min. you all this was news to me I never planned on being married to him or anybody else ever again for fact. then I get sick go into the hospital 2 days. I get out to a "your a dumb bitch text". I need also tell you that prior to this we spent 4 months sitting at home because he was on house arrest and SCRAM because of 2 DUI, I'm sitting there all day everyday with him running him around with classes helping pay his fines and all. Doing everything to try keep him happy and not get depressed about being stuck. But the first time I need him he boltz. I got sick and went into hospital for 2 days.
it really hurts he went back to his ex wife who I know he is not even care about the day i went in. He loves me 1 day then dont the next. 2 weeks he broke u. witj me he comes over to my house kicking and screaming he's going to kill me knifes2 of my tires and smash my kitchen window I had no choice but to call the Sheriff's and file vandalism charges. Well later that night he continued to text me and give me a countdown on how long I had to live so sadly once again I had to call the Sheriff's, so they told me I had to take out a restraining order which I did. The next day after he was served he calls me I tell him nicely that he's not allowed to call me there's a restraining order, so what did he do, just comes over to my house. So I call the Sheriff's told them and asked if they could please just go tell him to leave me alone. I guess when sheriff's got there he was totally drunk and got stupid with them got himself arrested.
Week later I'm talking to a friend who said I need to really think about it cuz he was looking at two years prison time and could I live with myself if he went to prison. so nicely I call him and tell him I'm going to go ahead and drop all this stuff just forget him and it. of course I have to ride J to court cause he doesn't have a car. So after court he asked to come to my house for a bit. and basically doesn't leave for 6 months. Till my son his girlfriend and her son cam. to my place cause they had no where to go. its only 2 days later I took him to his parents to do work at his neighbprs. I find out that was a lie and I find out he cheated on me again with his ex. So I end it. Tell him it's over we're done no more now I don't care. I desirve better then people cheat on me I feel like I'm worth more than that that's for sure. He beggs tocome back Bubba blah blah blah but you know no can't do that. So he block me from Facebook changes the email addresses and phone number everything yet I didn't change mine so he like to call me from restricted numbers I understand he's checking out my facebook daily all the time because I didn't change mine hide my stuff
okay here's my big problem people need help with I can't forget him I get him out of my mind I don't know why I need help what do I do to get him off my mind I know that I deserve better then 2 be cheated on and lied to especially when you're doing everything for that person but why can't I forget him I've never had this problem before. I've always been the popular girl be able to get any guy I want. and he's nothing special to tell you the truth. he doesn't work he likes a sponge of everybody wants me to all the work. he has been on my google plus account trying to lure me in the chat room with me cause he sayI am popper thank God I found out he had six different Google+ account spying on me now anybody out there know how to find out what is using as a new Facebook account. anybody have any suggestions on how I can you forward my life forget this idiot
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