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Coping with Divorce or Separation

SheilaT

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9. The next time don't drop the charges against him.

Reply to sure0828 (Reply #8)

Sun Sep 22, 2013, 12:33 PM

Sep 2013

Staying in touch, driving him around, paying his fines, then not blocking your facebook page to him, and everything else is simply enabling his behavior.

Cut all ties. Too bad you can't move to another state, but that's probably not an option.

Oh, and paragraphs are your friend.

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Damn this is confusing [View all] clyrc Nov 2012 OP

Sending you hugs and blessings LiberalEsto Nov 2012 #1

I'm sorry you're in bad shape, too, LiberalEsto clyrc Nov 2012 #2

Thanks! LiberalEsto Nov 2012 #4

I will do that clyrc Nov 2012 #6

Very sorry. elleng Nov 2012 #3

Good advice LiberalEsto Nov 2012 #5

I'm living in the house rent free, and borrowing his mother's car clyrc Nov 2012 #7

hopefully you somebody has some words of wisdom sure0828 Sep 2013 #8

The next time don't drop the charges against him. SheilaT Sep 2013 #9

I know it's never as simple as it looks from the outside clyrc Oct 2013 #10

it definitely gets better over time, but first .... bluewave29 Oct 2013 #11

Thank you so much, Bluewave29 clyrc Nov 2013 #12