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[mopinko]

1. i would edit it down to about 3 paragraphs, then send it.

better to know than to twist in the wind. she might not tell you what you want to know. and she might be bugged by your letter. but, ya gotta do what you gotta do.

i went through this with a long, long time friend. she decided i had lost my mind. decided i was harming my kids, and telling lies about them to get attention.
to this day i have no idea why.
i was upset and angry. when i tried to contact her/them (married couple buds of hubby and i) it was impossible to keep the anger out of it. she found it very threatening.
i could only assume it was either my teenage daughter or my husband telling stories about me. both deny that to this day.
probably the most frustrating situation of my whole life.

i feel ya.