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Trunk Monkey

(950 posts)
60. Interesting thread,
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:10 PM
Aug 2012

Interesting thread,

I’m 47 years old and I’ve felt like I was a half a beat off step with the rest of the world for most of my life. I’ve come to a point in my life where I don’t bother reaching out to people because I know that sooner or later I will say something that pisses them off or I will tell them something that I didn’t want the whole world to know and find out that they told the whole world.

The wife and I don’t go out much anymore not only because we can’t really afford it but also because I’m not comfortable out in public ( I call it “outside the wire” ).
We do hit the occasional family barbeque to hang out with the grand kids but that’s the extent of our social life.

I’m not a very trusting person by nature and I’ve been burned enough times that even at work I don’t discuss my personal life w/ my coworkers (much easier now that I don’t have co workers) and I try to give them as little personal information about me as I possibly can.

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Are you really me? You sound exactlly like me. My wife and I have one teddy51 Dec 2011 #1
Right age range. Are we just harder to get along with in this decade? Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #13
Yes! Gotta run right now, but will be back to edit this with more later... NRaleighLiberal Dec 2011 #2
Yes. LiberalAndProud Dec 2011 #3
Well said. Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #14
I'm the same way... StarlightGold Jan 2012 #36
I'm grateful to time. As time passed, I became more outspoken (thank goodness) Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #4
Laughter is a great ice breaker and it soothes ever conversational "oddities." Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #15
Practicing laughter might not be a bad idea!!! Particularly if you love Leah Ramini :) Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #25
I have been an outsider most of my life. Have changed my expectations of "... a close social group." patrice Dec 2011 #5
Maybe you are younger....when I was young I had lots of acquaintances... Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #16
Sounds a lot like my husband and me nadine_mn Dec 2011 #6
I know what you mean about that BFF to do things with... Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #17
Leave me with my dogs and I'm fine, even on a bad day. People, not so much. eom Purveyor Dec 2011 #7
I guess I would be considered a terrible person but I do prefer animals to people ++++ Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #18
My worst day with my dogs (ie total mayhem/destruction of sofa) is better than my best day w/ humans nadine_mn Dec 2011 #20
I worked for a woman who saw them as just animals. CrispyQ Dec 2011 #28
Sounds like me with my cat! My cat and I are best of friends. RKP5637 Jan 2012 #34
ditto. n/t. okieinpain Dec 2011 #8
I'm the same way. Speck Tater Dec 2011 #9
I guess I'm needier than you are but I'm trying to change! Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #19
Maybe I forogt to mention this, but I DO have a teddy bear. :) nt Speck Tater Dec 2011 #24
You're lucky to live fairly close to your sibs/mother shanti Dec 2011 #26
Thanks. russspeakeasy Dec 2011 #10
I don't mind humanity all that much, it's people that get on my last nerve. I have little monmouth Dec 2011 #11
Obviously I'm of two minds. I'm a loner all my life but I wish I had a few close friends. Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #22
I understand. eilen Dec 2011 #12
I can echo much of what you say - esp hot/cold nadine_mn Dec 2011 #21
Restaurants are a much easier get together, I agree. Peregrine Took Dec 2011 #23
We must have been separated at birth! FLyellowdog Dec 2011 #30
Well, then I am in trouble, because you sound just like me and I am 29. iris27 Dec 2011 #27
Wow.......others just like me......:) Scottybeamer70 Dec 2011 #29
WOW...didn't realize there were so many of us... Zoigal Dec 2011 #31
We don't do holidays. CrispyQ Dec 2011 #32
I think sometimes one reaches the point where they get tired of the BS in life. It seems RKP5637 Jan 2012 #33
Wow, you all sound like me. Still Blue in PDX Jan 2012 #35
I'm 26... LoveMeLoveYou Feb 2012 #37
I have never liked people very much. MadrasT Feb 2012 #38
I'm much younger, but I feel much the same. shcrane71 Feb 2012 #39
My experiences with people horrify and scar me.. people where I live anyway. stuntcat Feb 2012 #40
I "divorced" my entire toxic family years ago...it's been great! dixiegrrrrl Feb 2012 #41
I have "divorced" everyone on my life who is toxic. MadrasT Feb 2012 #42
Makes a hell of a difference, doesn't it? dixiegrrrrl Feb 2012 #43
Unfortunately I am still a corporate wage slave. MadrasT Feb 2012 #44
I'm so glad for the internet stuntcat Feb 2012 #45
what took you so long to figure it out? Skittles Jun 2012 #46
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Two instances stand out clearly in my mind. Trunk Monkey Aug 2012 #59
Interesting thread, Trunk Monkey Aug 2012 #60
Those Are People in Ads goodword Sep 2012 #61
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