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History of Feminism

redqueen

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10. yep, most people would rather not know the details

Reply to nomorenomore08 (Reply #9)

Wed Dec 25, 2013, 06:19 PM

Dec 2013

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I have trouble saying ‘no’ to people since I learned at a young age that I really don’t have control over what’s happening to me. I am trying to learn to get better at this because I know that not saying ‘no’ makes it easier for someone to hurt me again.

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Just a Girl [View all] redqueen Dec 2013 OP

lol, this song has been earworming me the past few days as well. PeaceNikki Dec 2013 #1

You too Nikki! redqueen Dec 2013 #3

This song, too. PeaceNikki Dec 2013 #5

Oh I hadn't heard that one before redqueen Dec 2013 #7

Recommended..... NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #2

Happy holidays to you too! redqueen Dec 2013 #4

that is nice NYC. you have a happy holiday too. lots of love. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #6

God I still love that song ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #8

Overly submissive people (women or men) frighten me. I always wonder how they got that way nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #9

yep, most people would rather not know the details redqueen Dec 2013 #10

I have no particular abuse history myself, but just hearing about some things really gets to me. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #11