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sufrommich

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3. I raised a son too,Sea
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 01:13 PM
Dec 2013

One thing I realized as a parent was whether a male or female child,most will rise to the expectations expected of them,the trick is not setting unreasonable expectations. My son was a straight A student and I expected him to go on to college and made that very clear to him. I now have a 13 year old nephew with some learning disabilities that make school difficult but he's funny and brilliant(well,in his auntie' s totally unbiased opinion,lol)he either wants to be a game designer or a welder right now at 13 and we all encourage him to think big and go for it! My point is,family important as to how kids feel about their abilities and should be encouraged to take their own path regardless of gender,I know that's obvious to most of us,but obviously not all parents.

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I assume that to be co-educational schools/colleges. dipsydoodle Dec 2013 #1
exactly. i agree. i have been preaching this. and this is why i am so bothered when talking about seabeyond Dec 2013 #2
I raised a son too,Sea sufrommich Dec 2013 #3
exactly. i saw the classes boys put effort in and struggled. was a ... pass the class. seabeyond Dec 2013 #4
Exactly,I guess what I was trying to say, sufrommich Dec 2013 #5
exactly....lol. seabeyond Dec 2013 #6
Great post. YoungDemCA Dec 2013 #7
I wonder if the old male stereotypes don't play into this in some way... Flatulo Dec 2013 #8
IIRC, most studies over the past 60 years show that girls have always outperformed boys Nay Dec 2013 #9
i think this is another of the very real equations in all this. absolutely. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #10
I think there's another dynamic going on as well ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #11
Do you know if the percentage of boys/men attending college have dropped boston bean Jan 2014 #12
I believe it has dropped a bit. nt Nay Jan 2014 #14
Due to longstanding American anti-intellectualism, guys have never taken education seriously eridani Jan 2014 #13
"Anti-intellectualism" was exactly how I was going to put it. And that will doom us all if we let it nomorenomore08 Jan 2014 #16
I'm very glad you posted this in this group. Sheldon Cooper Jan 2014 #15
Also that girls do better in school, therefore men are oppressed now. nomorenomore08 Jan 2014 #17
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