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Flatulo

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8. I wonder if the old male stereotypes don't play into this in some way...
Tue Dec 31, 2013, 03:46 PM
Dec 2013

You know, boys are supposed to play sports and be more into goofing around.

My son and his friends (including a few girls) considered themselves nerds in middle school through high school. They eschewed sports, and instead preferred to engage in board games and discussion at our house every Friday evening. I'd drop in on them and they'd be chatting away about politics and current events. I was delighted to see them using their brains instead of bashing each other at football, or trying to sneak alchohol.

I disliked sports myself as a kid, and maybe my values rubbed off on him, or maybe there's a genetic component, but whenever I'd throw a ball at him he'd run the other way. We had our best times chatting about everything under the sun

All these kids turned out great. One of them came out as gay and the others were quite accepting. They've all gone to college and have scored B+ or better grades. They've not all gotten good jobs yet, but that's another story.

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I assume that to be co-educational schools/colleges. dipsydoodle Dec 2013 #1
exactly. i agree. i have been preaching this. and this is why i am so bothered when talking about seabeyond Dec 2013 #2
I raised a son too,Sea sufrommich Dec 2013 #3
exactly. i saw the classes boys put effort in and struggled. was a ... pass the class. seabeyond Dec 2013 #4
Exactly,I guess what I was trying to say, sufrommich Dec 2013 #5
exactly....lol. seabeyond Dec 2013 #6
Great post. YoungDemCA Dec 2013 #7
I wonder if the old male stereotypes don't play into this in some way... Flatulo Dec 2013 #8
IIRC, most studies over the past 60 years show that girls have always outperformed boys Nay Dec 2013 #9
i think this is another of the very real equations in all this. absolutely. nt seabeyond Dec 2013 #10
I think there's another dynamic going on as well ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #11
Do you know if the percentage of boys/men attending college have dropped boston bean Jan 2014 #12
I believe it has dropped a bit. nt Nay Jan 2014 #14
Due to longstanding American anti-intellectualism, guys have never taken education seriously eridani Jan 2014 #13
"Anti-intellectualism" was exactly how I was going to put it. And that will doom us all if we let it nomorenomore08 Jan 2014 #16
I'm very glad you posted this in this group. Sheldon Cooper Jan 2014 #15
Also that girls do better in school, therefore men are oppressed now. nomorenomore08 Jan 2014 #17
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