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Erich Bloodaxe BSN

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4. Kinda strikes me as child abuse.
Mon Apr 14, 2014, 08:20 PM
Apr 2014

Just like child 'beauty pageants' or those 'dance moms' type shows. Adults using their children as weird living dress-up toys and ignoring the responsibilities part of being a parent.

If kids were simply allowed to 'choose' whatever they want, a lot more of them wouldn't survive past childhood, or would end up with various chronic diseases early in life. Sure I believe in giving children more input into how they live their lives, but part of being a parent is setting boundaries to ensure your child is 'safe' both mentally and physically, and not a danger to themselves or those around them.

No boundaries? Welcome to the 'affluenza' kids. So give your kids some choices, but also teach them that sometimes limits exist for good reasons. And good gods, don't let your kids learn about sexual intimacy from tv, movies, their peers. No matter how squeamish you are about it, get in there and make sure they're getting good advice and information from you. Don't let your sons be taught by crap media that they want to be little 'players', or your daughters to be taught that sex will make them 'popular'. Teach them to respect themselves and their future partners.

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Sounds like one of those child beauty pageant kids. RandySF Apr 2014 #1
How old is Mylie Cyrus now, anyhoo? grasswire Apr 2014 #2
Teens are waiting longer to have sex than they did in the recent past. seabeyond Apr 2014 #3
That's an interesting report. My first Gynecologist was a fellow of Guttmacher Institute... KoKo Apr 2014 #7
i have read other studies and it does seem as if they are a little older, just above the average of seabeyond Apr 2014 #10
Kinda strikes me as child abuse. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Apr 2014 #4
The two women who were with her seemed to be mother and daughter...and they KoKo Apr 2014 #12
The stereotypes you use in your thread are bothersome to me... Agschmid Apr 2014 #16
Commercial success is dependent upon this despicable phenomenon of sexualization of young girls. NYC_SKP Apr 2014 #5
This has been going on for some time. ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #6
Appreciate your views and the other answers on this post... KoKo Apr 2014 #8
It is sad. I rarely go to Huffington Post to follow the rest of an article posted here on DU KoKo Apr 2014 #11
It's a very good question ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #13
I do worry about it catrose Apr 2014 #9
I teach elementary school, roody Apr 2014 #14
i wonder how much it is parents who ar trying to impress other parents JI7 Apr 2014 #15
I feel as if the leap from... Agschmid Apr 2014 #17
Perhaps if we were seeing it in little boys as well as little girls ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #18
Thanks for your comments. Agschmid Apr 2014 #20
I tend to agree. redqueen Apr 2014 #19
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