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ismnotwasm

(42,484 posts)
12. Well said
Fri Apr 25, 2014, 11:57 PM
Apr 2014

I don't get those assholes, but I will say this, I've had Facebook for a few months now and have had to block 2 people for racism, made one general announcement that I don't tolerated it, I'm about to make another. My husband won't tolerate it. Period.

The thing is this, and here white privilege plays a part--we thought we knew these people, we assumed they weren't racist, or at least tried not to be, and then you see some foul crap on FB, then see the person in real life and confront them and hear "we've always talked like this" (my husband has a 30 year friendship--gone. They had never truly discussed race-- the guy's half Native American, so my husband assumed there wasn't racism)

Really? Not in front of me you haven't. These are mostly middle aged white men, but I'm looking with a jaundiced eye toward anyone who posts weird anti-Obama stuff, young or old. I'm not asking everybody to love the man, but he and his wife and family deserve respectful acknowledgment and respectful disagreement- if that's how you swing-- in my world.

As far as the covert racists around here and deniers of white privilege, they don't even make sense to me. I can't explain them or understand them. I just know if there are enemies to defeat, it's essence lies in whatever makes people think that way.

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That Thread Is One of The Best Threads I Have Seen On DU in a Long Time. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #1
Beer and Travel Money seabeyond Apr 2014 #2
It was Perfect ... Random Thoughts. DU Satire at its best. Put The Man in The Mirror. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #3
that is awesome what you did in candle. seabeyond Apr 2014 #4
right backatcha, woman Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #5
the power. the strength. the WIN. seabeyond Apr 2014 #6
The fist high, the head bowed = Pride and Humility all in one. Awesome. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #7
That was beautifully done, TA. sheshe2 Apr 2014 #22
Thanks, sheshe2 Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #23
you... sheshe2 Apr 2014 #13
that is all it is anymore. cause the reality? it is too clear. we see. we know. hey... seabeyond Apr 2014 #15
Can you please post a link for those of use who might of missed the tread? Revanchist Apr 2014 #9
Tis here~ sheshe2 Apr 2014 #16
thanks, sheshe2. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #19
Hey girl! Thanks! JustAnotherGen Apr 2014 #8
Yes mischief indeed. bravenak Apr 2014 #10
Luv ya JAG! sheshe2 Apr 2014 #17
I, like you, loved the OP you referenced. UtahLib Apr 2014 #11
Well said ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #12
That thread was beautiful. I think we should just randomly kick it to keep it alive. Squinch Apr 2014 #14
Some people need to understand that if they dish it out they need to take it, too. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #18
I don't see any reason to think that will happen. The offending OP stood, and the post that Squinch Apr 2014 #20
I missed something. Skinner said ... what? where? ATA? off to hunt. Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #21
Squinch, Can you PM a link with the hide ... are you referring to MG's thread? or WP's? Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #24
i did not know any of this stuff. after reading that.... seabeyond Apr 2014 #25
Sometimes I think it's good that we step away and miss some of these to-do's. Squinch Apr 2014 #29
sharing is caring, as i was told last night, a man pm'ing me that yes... we should say man up, seabeyond Apr 2014 #30
Someone here Squinch Apr 2014 #32
um hm. wink. nt seabeyond Apr 2014 #33
It seems that Tuesday Afternoon Apr 2014 #26
And the beat goes on (in GD) ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #27
you know... i am too done with the silliness of it all. and it is no more than silliness seabeyond Apr 2014 #28
... ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #31
The bigotry and sexism from leftists TBF Apr 2014 #34
The question I ask ismnotwasm Apr 2014 #35
There's a lot of that here too gollygee Apr 2014 #36
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