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BainsBane

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2. VN's behavior in that thread
Fri May 2, 2014, 06:09 PM
May 2014

was not , I suspect, terribly surprising to any of us here in HOF who had communicated with him. (Two of the banned posters who made the worst comments were proved to be his socks). He kept the worst manifestations of his misogyny in check for most of his time on DU, but it was simmering beneath the surface the whole time. I think we know the kind of hostility toward women expressed by some men is reflective of a far deeper hatred and level of disturbance than is immediately apparent to the casual observer.

So you see peanut gallery, misogyny exists, even among so-called Democrats. Vashta Neranda, and whatever his prior user name was, is a perfect example of it.

His case also shows the link between denial and overt misogyny. He began by arguing he has never seen anything like that and ended by wishing a feminist would be raped and killed. Denial enables misogyny (and all forms of injustice) to continue unchecked because if one refuses to accept that something is a problem, there is no way to combat it.

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I think there were [View all] boston bean May 2014 OP
yeah gollygee May 2014 #1
VN's behavior in that thread BainsBane May 2014 #2
Had VN pegged ages ago. MadrasT May 2014 #3
Good God! I had seen that thread early on, but then missed all the astonishing nastiness! Squinch May 2014 #4
I doubt that either VN or Apostrophe are through sufrommich May 2014 #5
I have to wonder if Skinner saw that shocking statement...I would guess so because it had to CTyankee May 2014 #6
I imagine he saw it as a teachable moment. Squinch May 2014 #11
And, to me, I wonder if it is something of a warning of fears of the future of DU? CTyankee May 2014 #12
I'm guessing he would say the guy is PPRed, problem solved BainsBane May 2014 #13
i am sorry you got a post hidden, for letting du know how disgusting those comments are in that seabeyond May 2014 #8
Here you go,Sea. It was well worth the hide: sufrommich May 2014 #31
mouth hanging open. he was BANNED as a TROLL by earlg and you got a fuckin hide for calling him a seabeyond May 2014 #32
Yeah,since when is calling a banned troll a troll sufrommich May 2014 #34
stupid hide. nt seabeyond May 2014 #35
juror 2 actually did his/her job. nt seabeyond May 2014 #33
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #9
Seems like not a lot of women left, really, who post on a regular basis. And for good reason. Squinch May 2014 #16
i ma really having an issue with all this in so many directions. seabeyond May 2014 #7
Me too, Sea. And not least because, in the wake of that abuse that was handed to you, Squinch May 2014 #14
yes. i agree. that is a trend. nt seabeyond May 2014 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #10
That thread illustrates UtahLib May 2014 #17
eventually. it usually does. nt seabeyond May 2014 #18
in the meantime, they are alerting and sitting on juries (in judgement) of DUers in good standing. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #28
One of my hidden posts is to Vashta. Personally, I think it should be removed from my record and Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #19
i think so too. seabeyond May 2014 #20
sea, would you mind posting yours? You understand, I can NOT believe that a simple Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #21
ya. i dunno. once the hides fall off the 90 days i would have to know where to look for the posts seabeyond May 2014 #22
ok, I see. Yes, that is understandable since yours has already dropped off. Mine is still on Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #23
we had troll fitman, (ya, name says something about this 50 yr old man huntin' youth desperately) seabeyond May 2014 #24
This whole "self-moderating system" has a real "game" feel to it all (for me anyway) -- Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #25
that one would be rolling the dice in my opinion. since one can argue, seabeyond May 2014 #26
ah true ... I have a bad habit of watching people's actions to make sure they coincide Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #27
this is my problem. if i see that happening, then i would see that honestly putting a reality out seabeyond May 2014 #29
yes, the bad behaivor is accepted ... the calling out of it -- not so much. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #30
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