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mopinko

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Tue May 6, 2014, 08:09 AM May 2014

self defense classes- correction, seminar- for women [View all]

Last edited Wed May 7, 2014, 11:27 AM - Edit history (1)

so, this is posted on a local board-

Neighborhood meeting
Safety Seminar For Women


The 24 th Police District's Domestic Violence Officer invites all local women to attend this informative seminar. Practical tips will be shared to increase your personal safety. People who have attended previous seminars have raved about them. Don't miss this event. Mark your calendar now. Contact your neighbors. Spread the word. It will take place in the 24th District Police Station at 6464 N. Clark St.



to which i reply-
practical as these seems, i really, really hate this. why does it have to single women out this way? is there anything about this that doesnt apply to men on the street as well?
please stop cops.


yeah, some good ol unbelievable followed, including this-

I've not only thought about it, but had a lot of significant discussion with somebody really smart about it-- my wife-- since she is actually just about done writing a book about rape culture. I understand and agree with you that blaming the victim is a bad thing. I just do not see that this is what is happening here. I see this as strength and an opportunity for empowerment. You ask, shouldn't this apply to men as well? Yes, but the opportunity for and cultural acceptance of men being able to defend themselves is already well established; this perhaps helps to bridge a gap there just a little bit. That's not anything like saying "Ladies! Stop wearing short skirts! It's your fault!"

Please be sure to pre-order my wife's book. When/if she ever gets paid, you'll be indirectly supporting Twisted Tapas, which is where we spend most of our money lately. (More info: http://www.amazon.com/Asking-It-Alarming-Culture-about/dp/0738217026 )


sigh. i'm to old for this.
can we take back the night now? pretty please?
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You really don't get it do you? intaglio May 2014 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author mopinko May 2014 #2
Oh boy! I quote you by cutting and pasting from your OP, and I am putting words in your mouth intaglio May 2014 #3
i didnt say men were more vulnerable. mopinko May 2014 #4
Nice to see you have deleted an entire post intaglio May 2014 #5
what i object to mopinko May 2014 #6
First things first I agree with the position you have outlined here intaglio May 2014 #7
oh please mopinko May 2014 #8
also the mother of 3 grown daughters. nt mopinko May 2014 #9
Who you are, your age and your circumstances are irrelevant intaglio May 2014 #10
why dont you speak to him? mopinko May 2014 #11
Since pintobean was so kind as to link this in The Lounge ... I am going to reply ... Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #12
correction mopinko May 2014 #13
the hive? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #14
the hive mind mopinko May 2014 #15
ok. exactly, what did you mean by that remark then? especially since only One Person had replied Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #16
i didnt mean jack, k? mopinko May 2014 #17
yeah, that's what I thought. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #18
ffs mopinko May 2014 #19
and this is the hive mind, no? or what exactly was that exchange all about? and ... Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #20
WTF? That is the second call-out of me pintobean May 2014 #21
you keep linking and I will talk and ask any questions I want. WTF, indeed. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #22
And, I'll call it weird pintobean May 2014 #23
Yeah, because what you two are doing IS weird. Very weird and Uncool. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #24
you are completely imagining things. mopinko May 2014 #25
who was an arrogant jerk to you? intaglio? me? pintobean? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #26
really mopinko May 2014 #27
neither did anyone else. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #28
are you looking in the mirror then? mopinko May 2014 #29
Excuse me. All I am doing is reading DU and, asking questions about what I read, trying to make Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #30
What has happened to you? pintobean May 2014 #31
Jury results... SidDithers May 2014 #32
did you leave a comment, Sid? Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #34
Nope. I was 1, 3 or 6...nt SidDithers May 2014 #35
ok, thanks. I wish Juror #7 would step forward. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #36
Have you anointed yourself the enforcer of hypocrisy? No. Get over your own self. Tuesday Afternoon May 2014 #33
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